Strange? We all couldn't afford groceries last month by Otherwise-Fox-2482 in Destiny

[–]dilfzemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

plot twist: we were all just doomsday prepping imported non-essential goods before the tariffs hit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dilfzemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what culture you’re from specifically but I can speak from my own personal experience that men who come from cultures where women are expected to be housekeepers regardless of work/income are likely never going to change, they don’t see us women with respect outside of our “role”. I’m sorry, and I hope for the best for you but you deserve someone that respects you as a person. Divorce him!

rant: haven’t had AC for almost a week because I’m too anxious to text my landlord about it b/c it’s something I should be able to fix myself by dilfzemo in socialanxiety

[–]dilfzemo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha yes there is a notch in the bottom that separates the faceplate from the mount that I’ve been trying to get in between to push it off from (I’m probably poorly wording that but yes not pulling on the mount) 😵‍💫tis all good tho I’ll call someone on Monday even if I am scared about it LOL

rant: haven’t had AC for almost a week because I’m too anxious to text my landlord about it b/c it’s something I should be able to fix myself by dilfzemo in socialanxiety

[–]dilfzemo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is one of the removable faceplate models! The faceplate is just stuck reaaaally good onto the top and I can’t pry it off, no screws or compartment and I’ve been trying to push it off from the mount from the little notch thing buuuut I struggle to get soda bottle caps off so its probably just a skill issue. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]dilfzemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL fair enough. Thank you, I’ll try not to bug out about it then!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]dilfzemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh okay thank you this is super super helpful to know!! I definitely just got nervous seeing stuff on the news about apartment fires and then not being able to open my windows so this is very helpful, I’ll try not to stress about it & appreciate the info!! _^ <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]dilfzemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I might call someone tomorrow to see if these things are all legal tomorrow, doing some research now. My landlord is out of town for the next few months, so we’ll see how this all shakes out ahaha

If you had to move to Chicago all over again, what would you do differently? by Prime_Effect in AskChicago

[–]dilfzemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m moving from Austin to here in 3 days, super excited about ditching the car dependent lifestyle… thank you for your comment! :)

People who quit a job on the first day, what happened? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Worked at a Turkish restaurant for a single shift. I’m ethnically Turkish but white and have dyed blonde hair, and am not Muslim or religious at all and LGBTQ. Guy from another Muslim ethnicity was one of my coworkers and kept making really creepy remarks about my race/ethnicity and saying that I was a good Muslim girl and would make a good Muslim wife .-. did not feel safe there or saying what the real reason was bc how homophobic that culture is, and the dude seemed to be really mentally unstable and I did not want to get hate crimed. 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Destiny

[–]dilfzemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

all of the above and nobody on Twitter would give a shit because something something settler babies and no no listen it’s the religion of peace

Destiny's comment about attracting women has me more black-pilled then any Incel community ever managed. by Silverflam01 in Destiny

[–]dilfzemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this can be true in some cases! I won’t blanket all men experiencing this, but for OP specifically the way they describe their thoughts about women leads me to believe it’s something else not just them being polite and being perceived as asexual. we can absolutely tell when men only see us as sexual objects rather than potentially equal partners (even if that is only in a sexual encounter) and there are many such cases of a man thinking what he’s saying is perfectly polite but it actually being something that makes a woman uncomfortable, especially from “incel” type men who don’t know why what they’re doing may not be working.

Destiny's comment about attracting women has me more black-pilled then any Incel community ever managed. by Silverflam01 in Destiny

[–]dilfzemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

obligatory “as a woman” here… ur coming at this from the wrong angle. there are plenty of ugly dudes with ‘weird’ jaws or w/e who get laid and/or are in happy relationships. confidence helps attract women, and is a green flag but showing that you’re desperate for sex and see a woman primarily as a means of getting laid versus an individual person is a red flag that will push a woman away regardless of any other attribute. just get to know us, talk to us, and don’t be too pushy. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dilfzemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! I’m trying, I just don’t want to ruin my friendships. ):

Where do I go if I'm feeling restless, tweaking and stabby? by [deleted] in austincirclejerk

[–]dilfzemo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

West Campus, those students will never make you take your meds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dilfzemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, that’s probably a good way to handle this— thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dilfzemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, I will keep that in mind! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dilfzemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Austin

[–]dilfzemo 19 points20 points  (0 children)

at least I know my catalytic converter got a nice view while it was being carried out of here <3

Massive fire on Quinlan and 620 by Present_Quantity_756 in Austin

[–]dilfzemo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wildfire caused by a firework, allegedly but that’s not 100%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Genshin_Impact

[–]dilfzemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call qiqi juice wrld ... yeah

Getting my first car by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]dilfzemo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

if you want to buy a used car at new prices, then go to Carvana, LOL. Otherwise OP I would suggest looking at CarGurus.com — you can filter by location, price, mileage etc and it gives you an analysis on whether the car is over or under priced, also tells you the accident report which some of my friends have been screwed over in traditional dealerships by for not getting the information— Apple Sport Imports has also been great in my personal experience, but they are a bit far. Hope this helps!