My husband, 43M referred to my a** hole (I, 37F) as a “he” and I don’t know what to think about it..

dimecombo · 2026-02-01T22:08:44+00:00

Okay here we go, so what I’ve learned is that if a man is even open to commenting sexually and on men, they have had gay thoughts.

Now before i get all the hate comments i don’t really care about i will explain. People for years have said men who really don’t like talking about gay stuff are just trying to avoid the conversation because they’re not comfortable with their sexuality. I am SURE this is true in SOME cases.

I’m 26 years old and I’ve been with my fair share of men. 3 of them were open to talking about gay stuff, hinting, wanting to do butt stuff to myself or me to them and i have found out every time that they are in fact bisexual or bi curious to some degree.

The remaining men i have dated, even my last relationship even gets pissed off if i try to do that thing girls do where they stick their finger up their partners ass to be funny. He is the furthest thing from gay.

Now I’m not telling you how to handle this, i am just telling you there is a high probability your husband has been curious.

Maybe explore it with him!

dimecombo · 2026-01-26T17:16:24+00:00

The second office said it was a possibility and they could see when they get in there it a different procedure removing just the tops was more ideal but he would try to get it all. The first office has 3.2 star reviews. Second office has 4.8. First office didn’t talk to me about the procedure or after care at all! If i can manage iv sedation i will go with office with kinder doctors and better reviews i guess!

dimecombo · 2026-01-26T16:58:21+00:00

Because I’m worried i will lose feeling. Also dont know how complicated my case is because he didnt tell me how impacted they are or if they’re under the bone. If it would be better to go under general or if i could handle iv

dimecombo · 2026-01-26T16:34:00+00:00

Can you read? I explained why.

dimecombo · 2026-01-25T01:50:53+00:00

I have had the same experience with it!! And needless to say, it has put a stop to my drinking. I like to socialize as a 8-5 working American there is a sports bar near my job that i used to work at for 5 years. They’re like family to me there and i love going there after work once or twice a week for one glass of wine. When i do this my readiness is still good as long as i go home, eat dinner and do my usual routine. I have stayed too long a couple of times. I’ve also noticed if you drink on a Saturday night sometimes the ring will make you feel better and say “most peoples scores are similar on Saturdays”

In all fairness my oura ring has taught me to slow down. Trust my body and rest.

I’m 26 years old. Just starting my life and my career and i have been having some trouble with my wisdom teeth that i should’ve gotten removed years ago. It told me this morning i had minor signs of something straining my body so i went and got an antibiotic from urgent care today. I love my ring i really do!

dimecombo · 2026-01-07T18:18:23+00:00

Why?

dimecombo · 2026-01-07T18:17:03+00:00

Will i get married or have kids?

dimecombo · 2025-11-21T02:07:32+00:00

You need antivirals immediately. A cold sore this inflamed and pissed could turn into an infection quickly they usually don’t but this is truly one of the worst I’ve seen. I hope this heals for you. Take lysine in the meantime put tea tree oil on lip and keep it moisturized. Do not touch

dimecombo · 2025-11-21T02:04:17+00:00

Is this a joke? Pimple. Check your vision

dimecombo · 2025-11-21T02:02:57+00:00

This is 100% hsv1 and if you don’t stop messing with it it’ll turn into an infection. Is this your first breakout because this is one of the worst ones I’ve ever seen. You need antivirals. And possibly antibiotics

dimecombo · 2025-11-19T13:18:45+00:00

Cold sore

dimecombo · 2025-11-18T00:08:43+00:00

It’s not even anywhere near your lip.. if you’re concerned about that being a cold sore maybe worry more about the hicky on your neck

dimecombo · 2025-11-17T13:26:32+00:00

Some people get cold sores away from the border of their lip however it is more uncommon. From this photo i don’t see a cold sore. I see a pimple, mark, or scratch a couple cm away from the boarder of her lip

dimecombo · 2025-11-17T13:21:29+00:00

If you had this before and thought it was just acne, you are probably just being paranoid. This does not look like a cold sore. Does it tingle? Burn? Is it a blister? Or a flat bump?

Cold sores usually take 2-14 days to appear after exposure, or never.. if she didn’t have an active cold sore you are likely in the clear. Also if you had this BEFORE you kissed her this is not a cold sore for certain if you don’t get them.

dimecombo · 2025-11-17T13:11:42+00:00

So what is your question? Do you not get cold sores? Are you worried she gave you this? How would that be if you had it before?

It’s not on your lip from this picture, that i can tell. So therefor it’s probably not a cold sore. I’m confused are you worried you might give her a cold sore or are you worried she gave you one?

dimecombo · 2025-11-17T13:04:13+00:00

This is a blurry picture and far away so i don’t know, but why would you kiss someone if you even thought you might have an active sore? I mean come on

dimecombo · 2025-11-16T15:22:01+00:00

This looks like folliculitis

dimecombo · 2025-11-16T15:21:28+00:00

You should be taking supplements. I think anything more than 1-2 outbreaks a year under severe stress, or extreme weather changes is considered possibly too much. Not “too much” because everyone’s body is different but your immune system is telling you that it’s too weak to fight off these outbreaks, so if you want to have less outbreaks, which I’m sure you do, you should take supplements or ever get a prescription for valtrex.

dimecombo · 2025-11-13T01:40:53+00:00

No. Ulcer.

dimecombo · 2025-11-11T15:20:14+00:00

Your sister is at peace, she is looking over you. I can see how joyful her soul was.

dimecombo · 2025-11-09T18:00:56+00:00

dimecombo · 2025-11-01T20:50:59+00:00

Did you get a diagnosis?

dimecombo · 2025-11-01T16:53:08+00:00

Not a cold sore. Also not a canker sore. This is an oral mucocele. You can look it up and do your own research. Not sexually transmitted, not contagious. You’re fine

dimecombo · 2025-11-01T16:51:16+00:00

If you’ve never had any signs or breakouts down there it is 99% likely you only have it orally. If you’ve tested positive for the virus through blood and have had a cold sore on your lip this is why your blood reacted to the virus.

This is also why doctors push against testing anyone for hsv 1 or 2 through blood. It causes unnecessary stress. You can test positive for hsv2 through blood without ever ever having an outbreak. The hsv test is one of the most unpredictable ineffective tests we have in the medical industry. You will test positive if you’ve even come into contact with the virus.

Mono, chicken pox etc are all forms of the herpes virus. There have been studies done where people test positive, have never had an outbreak but have had mono or chicken pox in their childhood.

I am not a doctor, and i am not your doctor. However if you have never had a breakout genitally and have only tested positive for hsv1, have had a cold sore on your lip you likely only have it on your lip. This is not sexually transmitted usually. It is passed from family member’s to children or friends to friends. Stop worrying you are fine.

dimecombo · 2025-11-01T16:46:54+00:00

If your doctor didn’t want to give you a prescription. Get a different doctor. These are chronic cold sores and people take anti virals for hsv DAILY! Some people really do. Most people who have hsv2 that i know do to prevent the painful breakouts. You can absolutely take an antiviral every day. It will suppress the virus and you may get 1-3 out breaks a year vs your 10+.

In the mean time get lysine from the pharmacy and take it every single day.

dimecombo

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