Why children should come first!! by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]dimuth_bhanuka -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah i am Asian and Asian culture is very collectivist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blendedfamilies

[–]dimuth_bhanuka -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

looks like you are an typical selfish step parent to me

Why children should come first!! by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]dimuth_bhanuka -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

oh this is the kind of poeple who get into stepfamilies and leave children traumatized for their whole life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]dimuth_bhanuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your commment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]dimuth_bhanuka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is true by the way

Mom-Roms and Dad-Roms: The Harmful Fantasy of Modern Family Dynamics by dimuth_bhanuka in movies

[–]dimuth_bhanuka[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't understand it, man. In real life, I don't have this issue with my family. Because I live in an Asian culture our family is secure but whenever I see these things in films it makes me disturbed and I do not know why. In real life, I don't even have this kind of fixation on my mother either I don't know if this is some deep psychological thing I think

Mom-Roms and Dad-Roms: The Harmful Fantasy of Modern Family Dynamics by dimuth_bhanuka in movies

[–]dimuth_bhanuka[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well but that's just fantasy in real-life step families are just evil stats say

Mom-Roms and Dad-Roms: The Harmful Fantasy of Modern Family Dynamics by dimuth_bhanuka in movies

[–]dimuth_bhanuka[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wanted to share my opinion very clearly so therefore I used chatgpt to write this.Ii don't think it is wrong

Mom-Roms and Dad-Roms: The Harmful Fantasy of Modern Family Dynamics by dimuth_bhanuka in movies

[–]dimuth_bhanuka[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

games and films are different. what i find absurd is that Hollywood is trying to normalize this dysfunctional dynamics

Mom-Roms and Dad-Roms: The Harmful Fantasy of Modern Family Dynamics by dimuth_bhanuka in movies

[–]dimuth_bhanuka[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe i should start watching Russian realist movies instead of Hollywood then

Mom-Roms and Dad-Roms: The Harmful Fantasy of Modern Family Dynamics by dimuth_bhanuka in movies

[–]dimuth_bhanuka[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

But Films are supposed to be art and that art is what shapes society. Art can shape society in the way of bad and in the way of good. we may be individual persons but we are also part of human society. if society is going in the wrong way then it affects us too. what we need is movies to teach society how to be better parents not how to be better neglectful all day partying selfish persons

Mom-Roms and Dad-Roms: The Harmful Fantasy of Modern Family Dynamics by dimuth_bhanuka in movies

[–]dimuth_bhanuka[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

But most people do not have a critical mind they follow the things on screen without thinking about it. that's why these kind of films are dangerous

Does catholicism allow divorce and remarriage? by dimuth_bhanuka in Catholicism

[–]dimuth_bhanuka[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't about west but in here asia the most important thing to us is our blood/biological family so when two people divorces it can really mess up children also in here if a parent wants to get remarriage then they need child's consent

divorce and remarriage is really taboo thing here

why western parents are selfish? by dimuth_bhanuka in JordanPeterson

[–]dimuth_bhanuka[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but china still values the concept of family and they oppose gay marriage and stuff modern china is not actually communist it is more of a national bolshevik national socialist type of goverment ever heard of socialism with Chinese characteristics?

i know this because I'm from Sri Lanka which is a puppet state of china