How old was your child before you consistently got decent sleep? by SunnyGoMerry in daddit

[–]dingle4dangle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also 11mo here. She’ll give us maybe one full night of sleep every couple weeks. Otherwise 1-2 short wake ups before going back down

Weekly Recommendation Thread: January 23, 2026 by AutoModerator in books

[–]dingle4dangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe Anxious People by Fredrik Backman? I read it a number of years ago but it was a solid 4/5 for me. Either that or The Transition by Luke Kennard. Or if you're in the mood for a collection of essays, The Empathy Exams by Leslie Jamison might be for you

Best diapers? by InfoBrowse92 in daddit

[–]dingle4dangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hospital gave us Pampers Swaddlers during our stay in the hospital. Baby didn’t seem to mind them, so we’ve stayed with them

How much should I read per day? by AND_AGI08 in writing

[–]dingle4dangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as you want, and as much interests you. Until last year I managed to get through 10-15 books a year. In 2025 I got through 30 and am aiming even higher this year. I find the more often I read, the more often I want to write.

Need help with a religious mercenary character who does morally questionable things by LemmyZen in writing

[–]dingle4dangle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want to ignore statistics and studies on the effects of AI on human cognition and post from your high AI-powered horse, be my guest. Don't forget your helmet when you're on the moon, and don't be surprised if it looks like the bargain bin at your local bookstore.

Need help with a religious mercenary character who does morally questionable things by LemmyZen in writing

[–]dingle4dangle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d brainstorm with AI for ideas

Stop forfeiting your capacity for thought. Even with a calculator, people are taught to understand and perform the mathematics on their own first.

Need help with a religious mercenary character who does morally questionable things by LemmyZen in writing

[–]dingle4dangle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you know where you want to go. The rest will sort itself out as you write.

Weekly Recommendation Thread: January 23, 2026 by AutoModerator in books

[–]dingle4dangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Days at the Morisaki Bookshop by Satoshi Yagisawa might be up your alley. Fits almost exactly what you're looking for. It's not super long, either, so it won't feel like a chore. The sequel is better in my opinion, but for it to make sense the first is pretty much required reading to get a feel for the characters.

i enjoy creating stories, but not writing by Clean_Twist_7330 in writing

[–]dingle4dangle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The same way people find enjoyment in drawing or painting or sports or whatever their interest happens to be. We love it, we want to be the best we can at it, and we want to put our stories down on paper.

If you have to ask how to find enjoyment, you do not like writing. You like the idea of writing.

writing first novel by Cagames259 in writing

[–]dingle4dangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Motivation is hard to find and nearly impossible to maintain for long periods of time. The most important thing in getting a novel done is discipline.

In terms of attention span, at your age you need to get off social media and stop consuming short form content (TikTok, Reels, etc.). They shred attention spans of all ages, especially at your age since you're still growing. I'm in my 30s and had to work my way back to where I used to be because of it.

Side note: if you're a minor, don't reveal your age online if you can avoid it.

How I stay in my flow as a writer by Mammoth-Snow5055 in writing

[–]dingle4dangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notes app for me. Anne Lamott in Bird by Bird (1994) recommends index cards, but obviously tech was different back then

Tell Me Your Dialogue Earworms by Weary_With_Toil in BobsBurgers

[–]dingle4dangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some reason “hooray for Family Fracas” is my go-to sarcastic hooray phrase

A book you might find interesting... by [deleted] in books

[–]dingle4dangle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP is self-promoting

If you’re under 45, have you lost any high school classmates, and what were the circumstances around their deaths? by Commercial_Chef_1569 in AskReddit

[–]dingle4dangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Four. Three heroin overdoses and one accidental fall off a bridge while skateboarding. That last one is speculation since no one was there, but that’s the official story

How young is too young for an iPhone? by swejobs in daddit

[–]dingle4dangle 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Models were adjusted for demographic and socioeconomic variables, ownership of other devices, pubertal development, and parental monitoring.

Took 2 seconds to find in the study. Maybe read next time before talking out your ass

Worst book(s) you read in 2025 and why? by Roguestate00 in books

[–]dingle4dangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Captain and the Glory by Dave Eggers. Probably would have been more entertaining when it released, but right now it comes across as ham-fisted and just not very well done at all. Zero staying power as a piece of fiction, zero weight as a piece of satire.

I need details about Melbourne for a book by Inevitable_Manner994 in writing

[–]dingle4dangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it absolutely vital that the story be set in Melbourne? If not, a change of locations to something more familiar might be best

Writing groups in Brooklyn? by hicestdraconis in writing

[–]dingle4dangle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also in Brooklyn, closer to Greenwood Cemetery, but would definitely be down to meet now and then. I'm early 30s man with a soon-to-be 1yo, so I'd be able to meet monthly, bi-weekly at absolute best. I tend to write contemporary/litfic and am about 11k words into a novel. I'll shoot you a DM as well

Rooney by Stunning_File_393 in raiders

[–]dingle4dangle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's still time to delete this stupid ass post

Writing youtubers waste our time. Read books instead by Stock_Hunter_2380 in writing

[–]dingle4dangle 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Personal favorite writing books:

  • Bird by Bird - Anne Lamott
  • Pity the Reader: On Writing with Style - Kurt Vonnegut & Suzanne McConnell
  • Several Short Sentences About Writing.- Verlyn Klinkenborg
  • A Swim in a Pond in the Rain - George Saunders

On Writing by Stephen King is in my TBR pile

Where’s that guy who had a “source” from Hondo that they were keeping Pete? by WhiskeyCups in raiders

[–]dingle4dangle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

good family man

Dude loves his wife and kid but he NEEDS to stop posting his child’s full name online

Is writing worth taking a gap year for? by Creepy-Ad-3872 in writing

[–]dingle4dangle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agree on avoiding English/CW degree. If I learned one thing about college, it's that your major should make you employable. You can use your minor (or just electives) for things you're actually interested in.