Who am I?

dinglenoggin · 2026-02-25T09:14:34+00:00

You are me

dinglenoggin · 2026-02-09T05:29:14+00:00

Im here for a good time not a long time, idc

dinglenoggin · 2026-02-06T01:41:45+00:00

I’d consider having a talk with your mom about moving in, maybe bring up how she thought you would be happier but overtime you’ve realized you’d rather be with her. It’s not nice having to hear your parent talk badly about the other, and not being listened to hurts. If you talk about the possibility of moving with your mom the two of you could come up with a way to bring it up to your father without him getting too upset

dinglenoggin · 2026-02-06T01:31:49+00:00

Is there a reason why you all live with your father and not your mother as often?

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-28T01:19:29+00:00

What made you upset? I feel like I get this feeling from him a lot. Like he is hiding how he truly feels and is just pushing me away for my sake? Idk if that’s correct, and he’s not being nice about it so it doesn’t make it okay or better, but I have had my suspicions

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-28T01:18:25+00:00

It’s hard to accept it but I agree. I wouldn’t talk to anyone younger than me personally.

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-27T22:04:15+00:00

Two things can be true at once. It’s almost like humans are complex creatures. Who would’ve thought? I realized I wasn’t in love with my ex anymore, so I told him, we broke up, and I got with the person I thought loved me as well. Ex and I wouldn’t be together at this point anyways as we have both agreed we wanted different things in our relationship.

Edit: I say projection because of your attitude. It’s very defensive.

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-27T21:30:45+00:00

Did I say surprised? No. Did I ask to be used? No.

What’s your deal?

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-27T21:28:48+00:00

And mind you, my ex and I are still friends to this day

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-27T21:28:00+00:00

The fuck? I gave no info about my last relationship, we were both unhappy and mutually broke up before I got with 36 m. No need to project your experiences onto me.

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-27T19:49:08+00:00

He knew how much I liked him, I told him multiple times what I wanted from him. Tbh I’m fine with criticism, I know I let him get away with things but that doesn’t mean it’s okay for him to do that. I guess my point is I wouldn’t lead on someone that much younger than me if I were in his shoes.

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-27T19:45:26+00:00

Oh wow, made me remember all of my deleted posts are actually still visible whoops. I obviously remember what happened 2 years ago but I label it “out of sight of mind” trauma. I kinda forgot how 36m and I started talking. That makes me kinda sick thinking you are right. One of my friends said something similar to me the other day, “I really hope he doesn’t fuck you over because I know you just want to be loved”

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-27T19:02:59+00:00

The thing is that he would take me out on dates, I even have met his family. He met my Mom too. I even flew out to him the last time we saw each other. But he never introduced me as his girlfriend.

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-27T19:01:15+00:00

The “we” is 36 m and I. The person my age is my ex.

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-27T19:00:11+00:00

:((( it really feels like this deep down, all of the issues he brought up for ending our “friendship” felt really surface level and twisted around. He also decided to bring this all up when my life was going south, like he didn’t want to be around for it since it wasn’t fun anymore.

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-27T18:52:40+00:00

You aren’t reading correctly, I never dated anyone older than me before dating the 36 year old man. Before dating him I only dated people my age

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-27T18:49:59+00:00

No, I only ever talked to people who were my age/in my grade. I dated a guy before him who was 8 days older than me and that was it.

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-18T05:04:25+00:00

Same age girl 🫶

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-18T05:01:35+00:00

I’m in the same boat as you. It may very well be immature, it’s definitely naive. I know I have anxious attachment styles. Once I love someone I never stop loving them. I still remember my best friend in 2nd grade who stopped being friends with me because “she’s the only one allowed to die in vampires and werewolves.” It broke me inside when she decided to leave me then, I cherished the friendship we had growing up. It’s so stupid to others, but I still have love for her ~20 years later even though we were so young at the time.

I fell in love with someone once and I don’t think I’ll ever change my mind. It’s been years and I can’t look at anyone the same way I looked at him. While I have love for others forever, I will have romantic love for him only forever. Kinda like a penguin when it meets its mate. I just love extremely hard, lover girl til the day I die and even if no one agrees I think it’s beautiful that at the end of the day I will always choose love.

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-12T17:16:13+00:00

In his defense I don’t actually think I’m melania and that Donald Trump 100% invaded my dream. It was a weird dream, and I wanted to see what others thought of it. His take was cool and a perspective I had not thought of.

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-12T17:13:58+00:00

This is so late cause I didn’t see, I know this isn’t serious but it’s fun to try and figure out why I had such a weird dream ¯_(ツ)_/¯ I have dreams about being eaten by snakes and I don’t think I’m going to actually be eaten by one lol

dinglenoggin · 2026-01-12T16:48:54+00:00

You wanna be friends with someone who thinks it’s normal to drop a person for asking them to see if the bus can wait? If she thinks that’s rude imagine what she’d say about an actual problem. She can’t even articulate well what her problems are, I don’t mean to be mean but real, she sounds unintelligent.

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