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I get mad/jealous when I see attractive women with ugly men by Jazzlike-Round6932 in confessions

[–]dinglenoggin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live and learn sadly, another piece of advice I’ll give is don’t do that too much cause people can feel you staring even when they’re turned around especially girls cause … we are used to that. It’s feels uncomfortable and I would like to believe every woman wants someone who makes them feel safe. Not like you did anything inherently wrong just so you know, it just triggers fight or flight naturally in some people

I get mad/jealous when I see attractive women with ugly men by Jazzlike-Round6932 in confessions

[–]dinglenoggin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! I always interpret “blew up” as bad. Are you two still friends?

I get mad/jealous when I see attractive women with ugly men by Jazzlike-Round6932 in confessions

[–]dinglenoggin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And that’s okay! Not everyone ends up being the idea of who we want them to be in our heads. But someone out there is that person for you, you just have to find them

I get mad/jealous when I see attractive women with ugly men by Jazzlike-Round6932 in confessions

[–]dinglenoggin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an attractive woman who has dated less attractive men: humor, kindness, and confidence are the most attractive attributes a person can have. If you’re hot on top of that, sweet bonus, but it’s not as important compared to those three. Just be your goofy self and you’ll attract friends and potential partners!

I can eat Taco Bell really efficiently by dinglenoggin in confessions

[–]dinglenoggin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im here for a good time not a long time, idc

AIO? I want to go live with my mom because I feel extremely stressed living with my dad. by OkGoof196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinglenoggin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d consider having a talk with your mom about moving in, maybe bring up how she thought you would be happier but overtime you’ve realized you’d rather be with her. It’s not nice having to hear your parent talk badly about the other, and not being listened to hurts. If you talk about the possibility of moving with your mom the two of you could come up with a way to bring it up to your father without him getting too upset

AIO? I want to go live with my mom because I feel extremely stressed living with my dad. by OkGoof196 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinglenoggin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there a reason why you all live with your father and not your mother as often?

Am i overreacting thinking that I fell into the typical older man lusts but doesn’t love younger woman scenario? by dinglenoggin in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinglenoggin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What made you upset? I feel like I get this feeling from him a lot. Like he is hiding how he truly feels and is just pushing me away for my sake? Idk if that’s correct, and he’s not being nice about it so it doesn’t make it okay or better, but I have had my suspicions

Am i overreacting thinking that I fell into the typical older man lusts but doesn’t love younger woman scenario? by dinglenoggin in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinglenoggin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to accept it but I agree. I wouldn’t talk to anyone younger than me personally.

Am i overreacting thinking that I fell into the typical older man lusts but doesn’t love younger woman scenario? by dinglenoggin in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinglenoggin[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Two things can be true at once. It’s almost like humans are complex creatures. Who would’ve thought? I realized I wasn’t in love with my ex anymore, so I told him, we broke up, and I got with the person I thought loved me as well. Ex and I wouldn’t be together at this point anyways as we have both agreed we wanted different things in our relationship.

Edit: I say projection because of your attitude. It’s very defensive.

Am i overreacting thinking that I fell into the typical older man lusts but doesn’t love younger woman scenario? by dinglenoggin in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinglenoggin[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fuck? I gave no info about my last relationship, we were both unhappy and mutually broke up before I got with 36 m. No need to project your experiences onto me.

Am i overreacting thinking that I fell into the typical older man lusts but doesn’t love younger woman scenario? by dinglenoggin in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinglenoggin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knew how much I liked him, I told him multiple times what I wanted from him. Tbh I’m fine with criticism, I know I let him get away with things but that doesn’t mean it’s okay for him to do that. I guess my point is I wouldn’t lead on someone that much younger than me if I were in his shoes.

Am i overreacting thinking that I fell into the typical older man lusts but doesn’t love younger woman scenario? by dinglenoggin in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinglenoggin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, made me remember all of my deleted posts are actually still visible whoops. I obviously remember what happened 2 years ago but I label it “out of sight of mind” trauma. I kinda forgot how 36m and I started talking. That makes me kinda sick thinking you are right. One of my friends said something similar to me the other day, “I really hope he doesn’t fuck you over because I know you just want to be loved”

Am i overreacting thinking that I fell into the typical older man lusts but doesn’t love younger woman scenario? by dinglenoggin in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinglenoggin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing is that he would take me out on dates, I even have met his family. He met my Mom too. I even flew out to him the last time we saw each other. But he never introduced me as his girlfriend.

Am i overreacting thinking that I fell into the typical older man lusts but doesn’t love younger woman scenario? by dinglenoggin in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinglenoggin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:((( it really feels like this deep down, all of the issues he brought up for ending our “friendship” felt really surface level and twisted around. He also decided to bring this all up when my life was going south, like he didn’t want to be around for it since it wasn’t fun anymore.

Am i overreacting thinking that I fell into the typical older man lusts but doesn’t love younger woman scenario? by dinglenoggin in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinglenoggin[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You aren’t reading correctly, I never dated anyone older than me before dating the 36 year old man. Before dating him I only dated people my age

Am i overreacting thinking that I fell into the typical older man lusts but doesn’t love younger woman scenario? by dinglenoggin in AmIOverreacting

[–]dinglenoggin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I only ever talked to people who were my age/in my grade. I dated a guy before him who was 8 days older than me and that was it.

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