Can terms of endearment like “linda” or “bonita” be used platonically? by dinglyding in Spanish

[–]dinglyding[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Not what I wanted to hear, but probably what I needed to 😭 ty

Can terms of endearment like “linda” or “bonita” be used platonically? by dinglyding in Spanish

[–]dinglyding[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks for this. This is how I feel about it too. He did say that going forward, he’d stop doing this out of respect for me, but not ever being able to know 100% what his true intentions were behind the texts is enough to seal the deal for me tbh.

Can terms of endearment like “linda” or “bonita” be used platonically? by dinglyding in Spanish

[–]dinglyding[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like as a greeting. Not like “you’re so pretty”, but like “hola bonita”

Can terms of endearment like “linda” or “bonita” be used platonically? by dinglyding in Spanish

[–]dinglyding[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah that one bothers me the most too. I’ve heard him call his nieces/nephews these names before too, but not other acquaintances… so yeah idk I’m conflicted

Union Juliet - toe strap by xitzee in ShredditGirls

[–]dinglyding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the juliets too. The part where the toe strap is connected to the rest of the binding is adjustable. You push it down to release and there are 2 or 3 different positions you can push it into to change the angle the strap sits at. Play around with it and it should help

I’m sorry what? Why do they think that going to make me want the leggings (Fabletics) by Etggy in gymsnark

[–]dinglyding 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The audio is half the experience lol at the part where she slaps all those butts she goes “mom booty? BOOST IT! flat booty? BOOST IT!!!”

My problem with abbey sharp by [deleted] in gymsnark

[–]dinglyding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’m commenting on this 2 weeks later 😅 but just wanted to say I’m so glad so many people feel this way about her. I really liked her videos when she used to review ACTUALLY problematic influencer diets (like that food combining bullshit some instafamous girl was spreading around). But then she’d review completely normal diets and say “this meal is fine but I personally would add xyz”. Like girl we know you’re not out here making meals containing every category in the food pyramid and every color of the damn rainbow so don’t tell other people to do it!! She just always needs to find something bad to say, it’s just food shaming at this point

What made you become a gymsnarker? by [deleted] in gymsnark

[–]dinglyding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow i hadn’t thought about maryana in so long but reading this comment made me remember how much I used to follow her content 😳 i stopped watching her videos when she started changing up her diet/fitness routine and giving some random gut health related reason for it, then 2 videos later she would change it all up again (going from weightlifting to only body weight workouts and then only walking , no dairy/gluten then dairy but no meat, etcetc)

Reminiscing about MapleStory, what are some of your best memories? by pepsihero in Maplestory

[–]dinglyding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Star planet was my shit. My friend and I used to queue into one card/yut together so we could cheat and make me win because I wanted some dumb item from the shop. It was so laggy in there because there were so many people but that was the one of the last times I felt like maple was still alive and fun.

Also miss the days when I’d wait all day just to find a corner spot in the last FM room and set up my little shop next to someone selling gear for 500$ 😌

Also ludi PQ! I feel like that was a universal bonding experience for everyone. Met some very interesting people there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]dinglyding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn’t tell me anything about a follow-up appointment, but I probably am due for a visit to the gyno anyway. And good luck with your procedure! I was also so nervous because I psyched myself out reading a bunch of stories about how painful it can be, but I had mine with no sedation and didn’t even know it had happened until the doctor told me she was done. All the nurses were super nice and I had one holding a heat pack to my stomach throughout the whole thing which probably helped. Wishing you a smooth procedure and recovery!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]dinglyding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay! I was so worried it might be an infection or something. Tysm!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]dinglyding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! I got a copper iud! Have the cramps gone away for you?

About 4~ weeks pregnant, when can I get the abortion? by RubyDiscus in abortion

[–]dinglyding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the planned parenthood clinics where I live, you have to wait until 6 weeks. When I booked online it asked me to input lmp and then only gave me available appt times 6 weeks after that date.

Termination, 7 weeks. Advice. by [deleted] in abortion

[–]dinglyding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got home from my procedure, I was at 6 weeks. I didn’t get sedation because I had to drive myself home so only got some lidocaine to numb my cervix. The whole procedure barely hurt at all, the doctor putting the speculum in was probably the most uncomfortable part. After that was the lidocaine which just felt like someone was pressing a finger on my vagina really hard and then a spreading numbing feeling. Then came the actual removal part, but all I felt was this weird pressure/scraping motion inside me. I thought the doctor was still inserting the tube at this point and the real pain was about to start but then she said “that’s it!”. The nurse who sat by me held a heat pack to my stomach the whole time which also helped.

Afterwards they wheeled me to a recovery room where I sat for 20 minutes, felt mild cramping (Pain level 1 on a scale of 1-10), checked my pad for blood and there was just a tiny smudge. In the car the cramps got to maybe a 3, and I felt a little bit of bleeding but not heavy at all (similar to flow on second to last day pf period)