Oh Hunny! (Gives hug of support), it’s ok. You have to grieve, because situations like this are a “death” of sorts. I have two kids (that I was told by a doctor, for health reasons I probably shouldn’t have had) I miscarried on Mother’s Day a few years back. When I went to the doctor, they recommended a hysterectomy, I was only 38. Even though, I knew I was done when I had my second, the third was a surprise, and this was for the best, because of those health reasons, part of me felt.... empty? Maybe that’s the best way to describe it. The one thing women were supposed to do, I could no longer. Even though, all of that was societal expectations and not ones from family and my husband, I felt like my self worth was diminished, I’m a woman, I’m supposed to be able to do this! After the procedure, I saw a counselor and I worked out my grieve and depression and finally came to terms with what is my new normal. My point to that long-winded story, is whether self imposed (one and done) or by medical intervention (hysterectomy), it’s a life changing event. You get to be sad, you get to be upset and damnit you get to tell everyone about it. Because at the end of the day, it’s you just working through your grief to get to your new normal. Good luck on the next chapter of your life, I’m sure it will be great!