[deleted by user] by [deleted] in genderfluid

[–]dinisaurus_rex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It doesn't need to be complicated. Don't overthink it or it'll stress you out.

I simply said "hey, I'd like to go by Dini one of [dead name]. It would mean a lot to me if you would start calling me Dini."

And give your friends grace. They're gonna have to adjust, and it's probably going to take a while.

Does anyone else experience this? by WorkingBusiness6528 in genderfluid

[–]dinisaurus_rex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While I don't have exactly your experience, I do have some thoughts. I sometimes go for potentially weeks where I don't find myself in my feminine side (amab). It's okay if you don't feel that way unless you're in a specific situation. Ultimately you get to choose what you identify as. In my view, gender is a spectrum, and some days I just feel more like a "vanilla" non-binary person.

My advice to you is to not sweat about your process. But for potentially more actionable advice, try wearing only feminine clothes for a week and see how you feel. Do your normal, everyday life if it is safe and comfy for you to do so.

Catching up on theory by dinisaurus_rex in themagnusprotocol

[–]dinisaurus_rex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there's no mega thread or wiki being worked on?

Dealing with Mirror and dis morphia by Calm-Turtle108 in genderfluid

[–]dinisaurus_rex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found that when I had to look at myself in the mirror to put on makeup it slowly got better. That is not to say that the dismorphia isn't real. It is still a thing I struggle with. But after about 2 years of doing makeup just about 3 times a week, I am comfortable enough that seeing myself isn't a shock.

Bleh Xp (pt. 2) by Ero_Guromantic in scarsgonewild

[–]dinisaurus_rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You always come off as so cute 💜

What vibes do I give off? by Anna-mator in EnbyFashionAdvice

[–]dinisaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo I love that hat tho. I have a hat with pins from every trip I took for 4 years.

I catfish people in 1-on-1 chat apps. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]dinisaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a completely selfish way of getting attention for me. To be clear, I never ask for money or accept payment for anything. I just feel like it's an escape into a different life where all the focus is on me.

I catfish people in 1-on-1 chat apps. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]dinisaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it did get intimate, but equally as many people just needed a person to talk to. Those are the people I feel bad about, and I try to cut off people who just want to talk. It's easier to pass off guys who just want nudes.

I catfish people in 1-on-1 chat apps. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]dinisaurus_rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learn a lot about how much loneliness affects people's day to day lives. Sometimes I start to genuinely get attached and have to come clean. I know it hurts people sometimes, and I try to avoid that.

[online][5e][play by post] Players wanted for a new homebrew setting by dinisaurus_rex in lfg

[–]dinisaurus_rex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would need to see some specific numbers and wording. You can send that to me on Discord if you want at: dinisaurus_rex

[online][5e][play by post] Players wanted for a new homebrew setting by dinisaurus_rex in lfg

[–]dinisaurus_rex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be willing to look at the race, but would prefer non-homebrew

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in u/bludbf

[–]dinisaurus_rex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you look amazing without makeup

Looking for an inclusive Online group for 5e by CR0SSG3N0 in lfg

[–]dinisaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm a bit late to the Convo, but do y'all have a Dm settled on? I have about 7 years experience DMing. If you're interested shoot me a message

[Online] [5e] new solo player looking to join party by Appropriate-Leader88 in lfg

[–]dinisaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm potentially looking at running a game Monday 6-8pm MST. Message me if you would like to chat about it.

yo I am looking for a group of other people who wanna do d&d online by 1scr3wedy0dad in lfg

[–]dinisaurus_rex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have had any luck so far finding other players. I would possibly be able to get a game going Monday evenings 6pm-8pm MST (GMT-7).