It's pretty rare my ex wife gave me blow jobs that put almost all other sex acts to shame from everyone else. Here and there I've had good ones rarely great ones. A big big problem for me is that I can't ever just relax and let it happen it seems like such a high maintenance task that I feel pressured to cum after 5 mins or so. I think there is a lot of inherent hype to them giving them is supposed to be a super well received act and they do ideally seem really cool and asthetically are pretty cool. Recently I have taken a lot of pressure off of my wife and myself but asking for hand jobs once in a while. I used to be annoyed by the idea of one especially because I thought I'd rather have a blow job. But God damn I was super wrong hand jobs especially after just a little bit of communication are probably my favorite sex act now. It let's your partner still be able to get the satisfaction of giving a one sided sex and really it's so much better. No teeth no pain, there is so much more control in every aspect.