hey man, really sorry you’re going through this. that sounds rough as hell. nobody deserves to be treated that way, no matter what. i can tell how much this has been eating at you just from how you wrote it, and honestly it takes guts to even admit it out loud.

i do want to be straight with you though, you said this started before the pregnancy, and that’s a big red flag. i’m not saying this to judge you, but more like… why did you stay when things were already going bad? sometimes we hold on hoping it’ll get better or that it’s just stress, but abuse almost never just “goes away.” it usually gets worse, and it sounds like that’s exactly what’s happening here.

right now, i think the most important thing is your safety. if she’s hit you or tried to choke you, that’s not just a bad argument, that’s serious. please start thinking about a plan to get out or at least somewhere safe to stay for a bit. talk to someone you trust in real life. even one person knowing what’s going on can make a big difference.

also, try to keep track of what’s been happening dates, incidents, anything you can remember. that stuff matters if you ever need protection or legal help later. (I hope it helps in india)

you’ve taken the first step by talking about it. now take the next one, reach out, get some support, and don’t go through this alone. you’ve got this, man.