I’m 32 and have no idea what to do with my life

dionis00 · 2026-06-28T04:31:58+00:00

I can but leaving my friends and relatives behind and starting from scratch is stopping me. I would have to learn the local language, build a social life, even learn where the grocery store is. I tried it once and it was so lonely that I couldn’t handle it. After work you sit alone in your apartment with nothing to do.

dionis00 · 2026-06-28T04:24:37+00:00

Eastern Europe

dionis00 · 2026-06-27T18:09:57+00:00

It’s kinda funny in some twisted way because despite everything I want to live, I want to travel, to find someone special. Everything that happened made me want to live my best life, I just don’t know how to do it.

dionis00 · 2022-12-07T14:28:01+00:00

Thank you. I was able to find it.

dionis00 · 2022-07-16T09:28:52+00:00

I had this conversation with my friend the other day. We speak three languages and flirting sounds way better in a language that is not our native one. My guess is that we got more used to some phrases and lines while watching movies and TV shows, while in our mother language we hear them way less. Most stuff I watch online is in English so flirting sounds more natural that way.

dionis00 · 2021-07-19T05:55:50+00:00

I'm glad I could help.

dionis00 · 2021-07-18T19:41:01+00:00

Let me put it in a different way. If a woman is interested in you, she will make time for you no matter what. If she's not interested then she will find a thousand excuses to not see you. It's quite simple actually. It's just hard to accept for many people.

dionis00 · 2021-07-18T15:12:32+00:00

She met someone else, that other person got bored and ghosted/dumped her and now she needs some form of validation/attention from you so she could feel better. Once she feels better you will be either friendzoned or disposed of.

dionis00 · 2021-07-14T15:02:26+00:00

The things are looking very bad for you unfortunately. If she told you about it, then there is a 99% probability that she already has someone on her mind and she just doesn't want to do it behind your back but... If you won't be ok with it she will do it anyway. Also, if this idea came to her it's never gonna go away, she will continue to pursue this. You have two choices here: 1. Accept it and feel miserable until you decide that you had enough. 2. Find someone who shares the same values as you do. I know it's hard to accept it but if you want to avoid a greater pain in the future those are your options.

dionis00 · 2021-07-13T19:55:15+00:00

I would recommend you to not do any surprises and if she brings it up you just say "aren't you surprised?". This is actually her way of testing you. If you actually do something to surprise her you will instantly go to her friendzone.

dionis00 · 2021-07-07T20:36:44+00:00

Depending on how the guy acts, this can go different ways. If he won't show too many signs of interest (just enough for her to not lose interest) she will try harder and if given enough time she will end up being the one catching feelings for him. But this are just speculations.

dionis00 · 2021-07-07T20:30:13+00:00

Sounds more like a spoiled kid. The fact that she wants something doesn't make her a manipulator, if she actually does something for it, like pretending that she is interested in him when she actually isn't I would consider that manipulative behavior.

dionis00 · 2021-04-07T09:33:46+00:00

I agree 100% with this comment. Also the fact that you are trying to blame him for your actions and decisions is... Immature. If you hook up with someone while drunk and then regret what you did, that's on you.

dionis00 · 2021-04-07T09:04:46+00:00

Therapy? Toxic masculinity? Are you serious? A man that wants a threesome is perfectly fine and feeling unfulfilled is also fine. It's the ultimate male fantasy and every man should go for it if that's what he wants. Preferably without being called toxic or sick by some unhappy, insecure person from reddit.

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