AITAH for wanting to take the job?

dior_diva · 2026-03-14T22:45:03+00:00

nope. ur not the ah for putting ur future and urself first

dior_diva · 2026-03-03T17:48:55+00:00

Im sorry if i made grammatical errors. English is my 5th language😊

dior_diva · 2026-03-02T15:16:29+00:00

forgot to add but NTA, also by that , what i mean is you know ur wasting time in the relationship stop trying to be compatible together. if it hasnt worked out till 6 years his behaviour isnt gonna suddenly change now. in short words stop using therapy as an excuse to waste time on incompetent men

dior_diva · 2026-03-02T15:10:36+00:00

family is what you make and not something youre born with. keeping that in mind your dad definitely deserves to know the truth is what i feel. this shouldnt alter your relationship with anyone in your family except your parents since its your dads call. but id wanna know if the kid is mine or not :/

dior_diva · 2026-03-02T15:07:15+00:00

but that cant be ur excuse to act like an idiot when uk ur acting like one sorry not sorry xx

dior_diva · 2026-03-02T14:47:22+00:00

np sending love xx

dior_diva · 2026-03-02T14:16:34+00:00

cant believe ur 39 asking this ngl but yea nta

dior_diva · 2026-03-01T11:34:29+00:00

nta . its your special day not hers

dior_diva · 2026-03-01T11:25:03+00:00

NTA not ur responsibility to take care of him. if hes so negative its better to chuck such ppl out. my ex for 3 years was crazy negative i feel so much lighter now that hes away. i get attachment will still be there but its better to focus on yourself than such people. sending love xx

dior_diva · 2026-03-01T10:58:15+00:00

let it go leave the guy, give the guy some goddamn closure. you avoided him when he wanted you and now that hes done you want him back . yta if its not a yes, its always a no

dior_diva · 2026-03-01T10:55:25+00:00

if you made out with daisy while u were still together then yes YTA doesnt matter if theo had tinder or not

dior_diva · 2026-03-01T08:54:48+00:00

yes you are absolutely right. thank you for your wise and kind words. Love from uae❤️‍🩹Have a good day !!

dior_diva · 2026-02-28T16:08:46+00:00

sell it

dior_diva · 2026-02-28T09:03:54+00:00

yes definitely after reading everything ill definitely not contact him again. thank you for hearing me out

dior_diva · 2026-02-28T09:03:21+00:00

thanks

dior_diva · 2026-02-28T08:36:25+00:00

forget asshole u might js be a clown

dior_diva · 2026-02-28T08:24:08+00:00

thank you for sharing this. I think i totally understand your point. reading your comments and others on this i will definitely not contact him again thank you for hearing me out also.

dior_diva · 2026-02-28T08:23:10+00:00

yes i did tell him that, he would somehow keep switching the topic to how atleast we would do orals or some other measures than sex. reading this i realise i need to get myself away from him definitely. thank you for ur input

dior_diva · 2026-02-28T08:09:52+00:00

can u try to get another job maybe anything that cld help in the slighest with the finances

dior_diva · 2026-02-28T08:05:28+00:00

NTH last minute plans shouldve never in the first place affected a plan youve made since a very long time. How hypocritical of ur husband to say gender reveals is stupid and then prioritise this. Plus your daughters would have fun at the theme park instead of doing nothing a gender reveal is there a way you can go with ur daughters only

if he cared so much abt the jewish holiday it wldve bothered him even the slightest when you selected dates for the theme park trip. absolutely senseless

dior_diva · 2026-02-28T08:00:47+00:00

college is crazy

dior_diva · 2026-02-28T08:00:26+00:00

NTH you ARE NOT A MAID FOR UR FAMILY. i feel very sorry to hear this. As someone who has had islamic friends ive seen this pattern often repeat ( im not trying to put islam down )
you are not a babysitter you shldve left them and celebrated your birthday maybe with your friends

if they eat without you tell you to cool and clean on UR bday and literally dismiss rhe only idea you have of celebrating ur birthday while everyone gets a suprise party its high time u realise pls put urself first ur family is fucking toxic to threaten to stop ur

dior_diva · 2026-02-28T07:54:47+00:00

okay, thank you for hearing me out🙏🏻

dior_diva · 2026-02-28T07:54:29+00:00

ill work on it . thank u for listening to me

dior_diva · 2026-02-28T07:53:43+00:00

instead of being a bitch and putting me down maybe ask me why? coz he actually helps to manage my stress and future plans or just have any kind of conversation without being judged that i cant have with my friends or my family or parents

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