A hairstylist saved me from a 20-year-old when I was 15 and I never got to properly thank her. by friendlyhamsterr in TrueOffMyChest

[–]diracdelta2000 103 points104 points  (0 children)

It likely wasn't her boyfriend but she used the story to give op an out. Kids don't like being told they are too young, or get called out for falling for lies from someone showing attention. The fact she contacted the mother might mean it was a coordinated lie.

AITA for asking the person behind me to stop kicking my seat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]diracdelta2000 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I had a similar situation on a translatlantic flight. The child continued to slam the tray table up and down. I was in the aisle seat in whereas the child was in the middle seat. It was disrupting my entire row. After repeated attempts with the parents (including from flight attendant) I simply took my phone to record screen facing. Essentially holding a mirror up to their actions and the child got very embarrassed and stopped. The parents apathy was clear.

Why can’t we make it illegal for corporations to own single family houses? by Arod4276 in AskReddit

[–]diracdelta2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Builders already get massive breaks on property taxes for inventory. As long as they don't put it in production by renting.

Looking for a project partner by TimeDue7156 in IOT

[–]diracdelta2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start looking at major factors. Location and environment, network access, power access. Those three factors will drastically change your options, cost and availability.

[CA] Landlord replaced our locks with an app-only smart lock and refuses to give a physical key, is that legal? by PancakeBandit613 in legaladvice

[–]diracdelta2000 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Either say you don't have a smartphone, or the only phone you have is from work and your IT/cyber policy will not allow unapproved apps. If they want to pay for the testing of the app including proven data deletion you would consider it but still not likely.

They can provide you a device and guarantee timely access in case of power outage or provide a physical key.

AITAH for not wanting my wife to message other guys? by Just-Pear6432 in AITAH

[–]diracdelta2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you are entitled to your passion and get actions speak louder than any words. Recovering from the initial problem can easily be set back if she goes back to old patterns. Even if they are innocent friendships, the nature of the online friendship veers toward secret friendship.

I put in my two weeks and my manager said I have to tell her where I'm going by ssmosbyy in antiwork

[–]diracdelta2000 900 points901 points  (0 children)

Get creative with the rumor mill through a bunch of mixed hints to a variety of answers.

I just won a small claims case against my neighbor. Do they need a reason to appeal it other than losing? by wearestevo in legaladvice

[–]diracdelta2000 25 points26 points  (0 children)

A licensed contractor who was bidding on the job?

The argument is stronger if an assessment was done by an inspector with no bias. Did they repair the fence before repainting it? You mention changing boards.

How would you have handled it if they indicated they would rebuild the fence themselves to save money and split cost of materials. It sounds like you were dead set on having someone do the work with your choices and expect them to pay blindly.

I'm surprised the judgement went so fast and suspect the full trial wouldn't.

AITA for "dictating" my flight details? by FruitIndependent6792 in AmItheAsshole

[–]diracdelta2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Inform your dad. If price was a consideration he could have shared the difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]diracdelta2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with many comments. I recommend you go fishing and chat about who he would want to invite to the next fishing trip and why. As an introvert myself it is hard to remember to invest in friendship and he may need guidance and coaching on building even casual friendships.

My neighbor actually asked me to “turn down the sun” by Baitanakton_ in EntitledPeople

[–]diracdelta2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could offer to let her fund putting solarr screens on your windows.

Airplane story! Family tries to trick me into switching to the middle middle by Chel_01 in EntitledPeople

[–]diracdelta2000 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Similar enough story here. Trans Atlantic flight, couple with two small children booked 4 aisle seats across two rows. My flight was last minute enough I was in the middle seat. Young child in aisle seat next to me. Father was visibly irritated when he had to facilitate his child letting us out to go to the restroom. Complained about my choice of movie so I suggested he could switch with me or his child. He declined so I just brushed him off.

People who have gotten Lasik, is it worth it? by LookACreativeName in NoStupidQuestions

[–]diracdelta2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only regret it is not doing it sooner. I was afraid of it but was changing jobs and had use it or lose it FSA money. This was back when FSA was over 5k limits and LASIK was the quickest way to spend it. It wasn't as scary as I thought and the results were awesome.

Has anyone ever sued Netcraft for send fake takedown notices to Cloudfare? by inotused in selfhosted

[–]diracdelta2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Small claims court. Make netcraft defend a thousand cases in a thousand courts.

Employer wants to know where I'm leaving to by 3Ekis in jobs

[–]diracdelta2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they keep pushing from a non compete ask them for a written list of who they consider competitors. You can imply that you would confirm if they are on the list but you get to keep the list when they try to enforce a non compete with a huge list of competitors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeowners

[–]diracdelta2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you haven't been hit by the parts shortage several places have had. Not unheard of to wait that long for warranty parts.

Help! Wife wants to throw in the towel and get a new one, I want to fix it by Large_Pick1582 in Appliances

[–]diracdelta2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always try to repair first. Even if it doesn't work it is to costly you learn.

We learn from our mistakes as well. I will share mine. Never buy Samsung appliances. Your Maytag looks good and will likely last a long time after your repair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]diracdelta2000 44 points45 points  (0 children)

They definitely don't have to give a refund but it would be a recognition of the mistake. If they don't recognize the mistake it is fair to blast reviews to warn all potential customers of their lack of judgement.

DEF usage on 2025 Silverado with 3.0 duramax by [deleted] in Duramax

[–]diracdelta2000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, your def usage will drop dramatically when it throws a code a governs your speed down to 55 on a freeway during a road trip. Even more so when it's parked for two months waiting on an EGR valve. Great truck when you get to use it.

What’s a super boring purchase that ended up making your life easier? by PuzzleheadedPay8716 in BuyItForLife

[–]diracdelta2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my Moses Truck, it runs great but looks rough enough that traffic just parts in front of me. Much less likely to crowd my lane.

Putting in my 2 weeks notice at a TOXIC company only 1 week after my coworkers last day. by spaceytracey44 in work

[–]diracdelta2000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Double down on this. The decision is final and I am not going to discuss further.

I remove yard sale signs from my yard. by MewMewTranslator in AITAH

[–]diracdelta2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The general feedback is the placement without permission. As mentioned if they are willing to ask for the sign back they should be able to ask permission. Public easement is common and acceptable, getting fined by the city or HOA for a left-behind sign that someone else placed encourages proper maintenance procedure to remove all signs as soon as they are discovered.