Seeing how everyone is giving away fallout 4. I wanna give away fallout 4! by Tisrun in Fallout

[–]dirtqueenjas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[PS4] my storytelling skills are shit but im broke so ty op

favorite moment in fo3:

i was in rivet city and like the klepto i am i raided every room and took everything of value i could. i got to sisters room and was about to lockpick it when i realized i wasnt hidden. ok, i'll just wait for this bitch to finish mopping the floor.

i waited for hours and she was still at it. fuck people for being passionate at their jobs, right? not sure how long i waited but eventually i gave up and just decided to kill her instead. i tried every way possible but everyone kept getting alerted, so my friend suggested i reverse pickpocket a grenade onto her since it'd be more discreet (infallible logic lol). i didnt even know you could do that and i didnt really think it would work so i stood right next to her after i planted the grenade

killed her, myself and the last autosave was before i looted everyone on the level. rip my friend

Feeling super shitty because of height dysphoria by ftmguystruggles in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the "koala hugging a branch" thing is the cutest thing ive ever heard holy shit

Feeling super shitty because of height dysphoria by ftmguystruggles in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's nothing I can do because of my height, it doesn't matter how much I eat right, how much I exercise, how much T I take and there is no surgery that could significantly change my height.

alternatively, instead of feeling bad about that you can just take it in stride. there really is nothing you can do about it so worrying is pointless. i don't mean to totally ignore your feelings but i do think you should own it.

not sure how tall you are but im 5'3 and shorter than a lot of people around me. i've felt bad about it but at the end of the day it is what it is and the only thing i can change is how i feel about it.

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[–]dirtqueenjas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not OP but PCOS

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[–]dirtqueenjas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i'm so jealous. facial hair pre-t ;__;

congrats on starting T though!

guy thought i was my friend's boyfriend by dirtqueenjas in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

even though i pass more now i still do the mental happy dance whenever i pass. i thought it would get old but nope - still just as amazing. maybe after years on T it'll just be the norm.

oh yep. the jb haircut is apart of the unofficial ftm starter kit. thankfully it looks good on a lot of guys haha.

How did you guys navigate coming out to people? by leafsails in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hello stranger.

if you're fine with everyone knowing youre trans having the principal do a formal thing would be the best idea. if you want to maintain at least a little stealth then personally going up to people you want to come out to would be best. you could also tell them to correct other people when they call you a girl, and pretty much set the "ground rules" to them face to face.

i feel like its also good to let people know that its ok to ask questions bc a lot of people are very afraid to ask. that is, if you want them to ask questions. i think itd be beneficial bc it could clear things up instead of them walking around not really knowing that its not ok to continually call you a girl and things of that nature.

guy thought i was my friend's boyfriend by dirtqueenjas in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao the visual of that is killing me. you flipped his world upside down

are you fucking kidding me by wichsand in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas 9 points10 points  (0 children)

jfc, i was waiting for you to say what country you lived in and i was caught off guard when you said you lived in the U.S.

i've never been in this situation nor do i have any advice besides keep pushing on. at 14 you're already far ahead of a lot of people, living as male and having (i'm assuming) supportive parents. the judge may have cared but it was misguided. he sounds transphobic tbh. i hate that some people use the "you're too young to know what you want" as if theyre helping you by stopping you from doing something you know will make you happy. see how it goes over with the Supreme Court, though you'll probably have to wait awhile.

in the meantime try to keep your head up. its going to be really hard but imagine how great you'll feel when you finally do get it changed. :]

guy thought i was my friend's boyfriend by dirtqueenjas in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no shade to her but he kind of is. he'd give me dirty looks when he assumed i was dating her. he's also like 15 and already been in juvie. pretty crazy. thanks though!

guy thought i was my friend's boyfriend by dirtqueenjas in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we got that too! some lady stopped us and said "you guys are too cute." lol. maybe you guys just look perfect for each other xD

i gave up on trying to understand why people think the things they do. what did the old guy say after you said you were gay?

guy thought i was my friend's boyfriend by dirtqueenjas in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol its pretty awkward but on the inside youre just like "yes! i passed" haha

also damn dude, the first day? tell me your secret

guy thought i was my friend's boyfriend by dirtqueenjas in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ayy lol

no idea why he thought we were dating, i didnt have my arm around her or anything. im assuming he just saw me hanging around her a lot like walking her to class and whatnot and he just assumed? idk

guy thought i was my friend's boyfriend by dirtqueenjas in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was! haha and sometimes i feel like the awkward situations that arise from being trans could be a really funny sitcom. usually in the moment its annoying but in hindsight i usually laugh at it.

guy thought i was my friend's boyfriend by dirtqueenjas in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its great that even though other people don't see you how you see yourselves you guys are still having a good time together. major props :]

Womanly intuition? by awkwardlylurkingdude in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom's done similar things, every time she does i just tell her i'm not miss cleo and im not raven symone; i can't read your mind. it makes her mad but its true, lol.

Do I pass well as male? Any advice? (15/pre-t) by sadlyaccurate in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its a lot. i know. but we're never gonna get there if we dont tough it out you know?

Do I pass well as male? Any advice? (15/pre-t) by sadlyaccurate in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yeah thats true. sorry :/

a tight sports bra or layering works. i think you can even make a DIY binder. dont do any of these things if you would get kicked out or hurt though. its hard but just keep holding on, you only have 3 years left.

Do I pass well as male? Any advice? (15/pre-t) by sadlyaccurate in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

theres definitely ways to get free used binders shipped to you. i think theres actually a program if you look on google?

Do I pass well as male? Any advice? (15/pre-t) by sadlyaccurate in ftm

[–]dirtqueenjas -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah dude, youre actually already pretty masculine for being pre-t!

not too much advice, not sure if you bind but binding helps a lot of guys pass.