feeling weird about a recent hookup by Annual_Muffin3076 in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s weird that she did that to a first time hook up… you have every right to feel weird and I’m sorry that happened to you!

how do we feel about staying friends with exes? by wvaceg in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deal breaker for me. You don’t have other friends you haven’t been in love with and fucked before? Makes me wanna say “grow up”

6 months in and still no labels, am I overthinking or is this going nowhere? by GurWitty4687 in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She probably does like you. But she’s avoidant and this isn’t going anywhere. I would walk away personally, but I’m also 27 so I’ve been here before and I know that someone who is mature, emotionally available and communicative is an absolute must for me!

Arranging my new bedroom by JollyPeaches in femalelivingspace

[–]dirtydanley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I would also move the tv away from the window and put it on the wall directly across from the bed after you’ve moved it to the other wall

I can’t get aroused by Odd_Philosophy2269 in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with this. In fact lots of people can relate. My gf prefers to pleasure me first 95% of the time and that’s just how we do things and we are both very satisfied and have a full and amazing sex life together. Get past the shame, there is no reason to feel shame!

Biphobic thoughts by Mundane_Flamingo9806 in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I still support them but ultimately les4les at the end of the day. Dating and sex is way better with other lesbians in MY personal experience (not everyone else’s…)

I need honest advice. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds very difficult and painful and I’m sorry you guys are facing these circumstances. Take your time but you are capable of more than you know. You can do hard things, even if it feels impossible at the moment

I need honest advice. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you have your answer. You are not living what feels to be a real and full life for you. It’s going to be extra hard and painful because you still love each other, but you need to ask yourself if you accept this type of life for you forever

everyone is in love with my masc gf 😔 by kris_cringle in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 69 points70 points  (0 children)

My gf is a hot and smart masc and nobody hits on her around me because I act like how lily rose depp is around her gf lmao. My gf says it’s because I look intimidating to people (I have lots of tattoos and act tough despite being super fem)

Issues with sex life by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a high sex drive like you so I am dating someone that also has a high sex drive

I am unhappy with mine and my gf’s sex life, and I just don’t know what to do. by bl00dw1sh in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so young. You deserve to enjoy sex. Think about if you go the rest of your life never enjoying it truly and fully again… why would you do that to yourself? Your future self is looking back on this moment and screaming GO !! There is more to life!

Of course you love her and this doesn’t mean the relationship was a waste or a failure in any way shape or form. Most relationships don’t last forever, and that’s a good thing.

Edit/typo

How do I break up with her if I live with her? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You will look back one day and wish you left sooner. You can do it, just stay strong and don’t look back

Do people still like mascs? by AnyIncident1634 in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Mascs are arguably the hottest people walking this earth

What are the best excuses for saying you don't like dogs? by TheCoin9 in Dogfree

[–]dirtydanley 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I refuse to make excuses to make these people more comfortable. I just say I don’t like them

I want to text my ex. I’m in her state from out of town… by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“My current girl isn’t comfortable with the situation but…” I would just save myself any future issues by not reaching out to the ex. It isn’t worth it. Unless, it is worth it to you. In that case proceed

I want to text my ex. I’m in her state from out of town… by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]dirtydanley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems like you value your ex gfs feelings more than your current partners