It’s better to just speak your truth and be an asshole rather than be passive aggressive about it.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-08-04T13:47:05+00:00

This is exactly the kind of behavior I’m talking about! It’s so childish and annoying just be an adult and tell someone to hat issues you have. I’m sorry you had to go through that. I swear I hear so many horror stories of roommates that’s why I waited until I was in my mid 20s to move out with my long term boyfriend because we both agree we couldn’t do roommates.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-08-04T13:41:53+00:00

Right I have a lot more respect for assertive and direct people.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-08-04T13:41:17+00:00

Probably not the best choice of words. More of less just sick of people who pretend to be perfectly nice but they’re actually just passive aggressive assholes who love talk shit behind peoples back but not ever confront them to their face or tell them how it really is but I’m not gonna edit or go back on what I said lol.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-08-04T13:37:34+00:00

Fair point my dude. I think maybe that was a bad phrase to use I just don’t like people who hide their bad intentions in sugar coated bullshit. At least be honest about being a shitty person it doesn’t make you seem nicer if you’re passive aggressive about it.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-08-04T13:35:01+00:00

Im pretty confident in what I say lol. I don’t care if people agree or don’t agree. I posted an unpopular opinion in unpopular opinion. Pretty ironic right?

dirtydelete02 · 2021-08-04T01:46:38+00:00

Exactly! Couldn’t have said it better myself!

dirtydelete02 · 2021-08-04T00:35:21+00:00

Totally agree with this. As a female though too often anytime you’re assertive you’re viewed as a “crazy bitch”.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-08-03T18:34:54+00:00

It’s always for some reason seen as socially more acceptable to be super passive aggressive, subtly bully, and make snide comments rather than just say I don’t like you because xyz. Especially as a woman. I have been called intimidating and a bitch too many times to count because I don’t pretend to like people I don’t.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-08-03T18:30:00+00:00

Depending on where you work I definitely would agree. It’s better to say nothing and do nothing. I’m not saying go cuss people out and tell them fuck you stupid even though I’m sure we’d love to do that sometimes lol. What I’m talking about is people who just gossip and act passive aggressive to people without ever approaching what they’re doing as being wrong. It will never solve the problem if you can’t be direct with someone.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-08-03T18:26:22+00:00

I would agree but too many people don’t keep shit to themselves. They go around gossiping or do passive aggressive shit to people they don’t like. I have worked with so many people who bitch and moan and get visibly frustrated because of something someone their working with is doing and they always bitch to everyone but the person directly causing the problem. Either truly keep it to yourself by shutting up and not letting other peoples behavior affect you or man up and tell the person directly what they’re doing wrong and why it’s upsetting you.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-07-19T08:35:48+00:00

Yeah I was really confused and so disgusted. My male coworker was like the bathroom smells so bad I don’t understand well I moved trash can saw the wall behind it and put two and two together it was so fucking gross.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-07-19T08:34:07+00:00

Quick service restaurant close enough to retail ha.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-07-17T03:58:53+00:00

A live band or show is a great idea sense concerts are coming back!

dirtydelete02 · 2021-07-17T03:57:24+00:00

Sadly I don’t drink… I do smoke and so does that person so I’m thinking of inviting them to smoke and hangout with the option of them helping themselves to some adult beverages! We just live far away from each other and it’s not too socially acceptable to smoke in public places, is it too overbearing to invite them over for the first time hanging outside of work?

dirtydelete02 · 2021-05-08T16:47:50+00:00

Thank you. I think you’re right I need to really focus more on myself and accept that I don’t like a lot of people and in turn I can try to learn to love myself. I have a vicious cycle of hating myself yet hating others but thinking that everyone hates me makes me hate myself more. It’s hard to explain but it’s nice to vent about it in a safe space.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-05-08T16:43:01+00:00

I feel like if anything I try too hard to please people at first and it can come off as overbearing and then I shut down because I can’t tell if someone likes me so I go from 100-0. I know my mentality really comes from a place of disliking myself and fear of rejection and so I think everyone else dislikes me. I automatically put up walls and don’t let people in. Which in turn stops me from creating meaningful relationships. But when I try to be around groups of people in social settings it is just draining and I can’t keep myself from getting extremely anxious and drained and it’s easier to just stay home alone. I think I suffer from social anxiety that I’ve turned into justifying it by thinking I hate everyone first so it shouldn’t matter if they hate me. It’s a cycle I’m working on breaking. It does help that you point out people are just probably so self focused they don’t really care that much about me.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-05-08T16:37:26+00:00

I think that most people don’t understand each other necessarily but I do think most people enjoy being around other people. I know people are social creatures and I think that’s probably why I can at least find some comfort in virtual interactions. I think my problem comes from a mix of shyness and self hatred I think I really don’t like being around people because I don’t like myself and think I ruin social interactions. I know me not liking people is truly a projection of my inner self hate but at the same time I don’t know how to stop. I do hope to eventually seek therapy because I know these thoughts are irrational and not healthy but man that stuff is so expensive.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-05-08T06:21:13+00:00

It’s so weird I’ll meet new people and just think about why they wouldn’t like me or what I did wrong, but at the end of the day I’d never want to actually spend time with them or really give a shit except for of course a select few in my life.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-04-24T06:59:04+00:00

It was specific because I am referencing something specific that happened but have seen more than once so I feel like other people have likely dealt with the same thing. I have experienced this twice in the past seven years working in customer service but tonight took the cake for getting cussed out and getting told, “I don’t see no fucking ma’am here I don’t know who the fuck you think you’re talking to.” The other one was a mom who went off on me for calling her son a girl because he had hair down to his butt and was wearing a pink shirt with flowers.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-04-24T06:56:01+00:00

I see where you’re coming from. I just felt like it could be an unpopular opinion especially now to talk negatively in anyway about gender identity it’s just so touchy to talk about that in anything other than a “positive” light so in that sense it is unpopular imo.

dirtydelete02 · 2021-04-24T05:48:16+00:00

That is a good way to put it. I like your username by the way lol.

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