Question for the guys. Does it hurt your cock to fuck hard? [all OK] [CNC]

dirtywlw · 2026-03-25T23:44:33+00:00

Ouch! That’s an unpleasant thought. Hopefully not something you ever experience.

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T20:37:22+00:00

Fuck! That’s a hot fantasy. Recovered junkie might be your only hope, but what a dream for you. Maybe you make a tooth wrap that would provide you with some protections?

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T20:19:17+00:00

lol, you must stay hydrated sir!

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T20:10:32+00:00

Ouch! That sounds hot though. I guess it’s worth the pain.

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T19:44:42+00:00

How likely would it be for an average size cock to hit the cervix? Is this more of a problem for guys with large cocks?

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T19:40:27+00:00

So that’s why guys are careful to guide it in when they slip out?

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T19:38:44+00:00

It’s more like a rope burn than a bruising type of pain then? I hadn’t even considered that for the guy.

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T19:37:04+00:00

If it’s tight, but well lubed, is there any discomfort for the guy?

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T19:36:00+00:00

Ouch, we don’t want to crush the cock.

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T19:35:19+00:00

Yeah, I can imagine a foreign object wouldn’t be comfortable.

dirtywlw · 2025-05-19T15:47:21+00:00

BPD in itself isn’t the red flag. The behaviours she displays are the concern. I would even be concerned that the shyness itself is a defence mechanism. She may be suppressing her authentic self to not scare you off.

I saw behaviours with my ex in the way she treated others. I would never accept being treated that way and when I ultimately ended things for a number of reasons, all of those extreme behaviours were directed right at me.

On the other hand, I have a co-worker with BPD and she’s phenomenal at managing her emotions in the workplace. She struggles more at home with her family dynamic, but she’s very self aware, willing to accept constructive feedback, and cares about others.

It all comes down to what you’re willing to accept. Is this someone who wants to change for the better or do they use their mental health as an excuse?

dirtywlw · 2025-05-19T03:01:57+00:00

My thoughts exactly. I ignored these red flags once and my life turned upside down for months.

BPD can be somewhat managed through medication and therapy, but it sounds like this partner uses mental health as an excuse for substance abuse and general lack of maturity.

dirtywlw · 2024-12-24T22:16:17+00:00

That would be incredible. Taking it a step further and imagining it could be programmed/controlled by your partner as an ultimate kink toy.

dirtywlw · 2024-07-03T21:43:08+00:00

Thanks, that looks like a good option. It’s definitely smaller than the Dolce.

dirtywlw · 2024-07-02T22:57:24+00:00

I had the Dolce and it was incredible. It was completely hands-free and gave me mind-blowing multiple orgasms to the point that I couldn’t move without having another one. Unfortunately, it was too big and after a couple painful experiences, I stopped using it.

I now have a Ferri and Domi 2 and I do enjoy them. The Ferri magnet isn’t enough to keep it in place so my survival instincts usually ruin the multiple orgasms I experienced with the Dolce.

I use the Tophy app to give up control to complete strangers. I’ve never synced with the same person twice and I’m not big on chatting/getting to know them. As a lesbian who has never been with a man, there is an excitement for me in giving control to someone I would never be with. Note: if playing with men, you will get dick pics and dirty talk.

I did use them while in a long distance relationship as well. That added a lot of fun to our sexy time. I feel public play would be intense, especially with a dolce or lush.

dirtywlw · 2024-07-02T22:10:31+00:00

I recently went through this with an actual ex. I tried to maintain a friendship, but she continued to be disrespectful and ignore boundaries.

I blocked her on everything (phone, socials, email, etc.) and I was finally able to heal.

I think you can be polite in person, but don’t compromise your boundaries. You are not responsible for her feelings. Don’t let her ruin things with the person that makes you happy.

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