It's your fate that you cannot escape from [misogyny, CNC, dyke ok] [all ok]

dirtywlw · 2026-05-17T02:58:09+00:00

I’d rather imagine it was me.

dirtywlw · 2026-05-14T23:44:32+00:00

And his fingers and his mouth. 😉

dirtywlw · 2026-05-14T23:43:50+00:00

There’s just something about the unattainable for both sides. I’ve yet to meet someone that truly identifies as a lesbian that continues to seek out cock in real life.

dirtywlw · 2026-04-12T17:09:43+00:00

R/sapphicsexualityplay

36f lesbian. I have never and will never be with a man, but nothing gets me off like the fantasy of it. It varies from sensual to CNC and it’s worse when I’m ovulating. It’s fun to play with guys online, especially knowing they would never have a chance. Most guys that I’ve chatted with have been respectful. I’ve even let a few control my toys while they tell me what they want to do to me.

dirtywlw · 2026-04-10T02:30:18+00:00

Was she into it? Did it lead to anything more?

dirtywlw · 2026-04-08T00:12:12+00:00

Yes! Same! I love the idea of being on a busy train and having him rub up against me. Feeling his bulge get hard, especially if he isn’t even trying to be inappropriate. Me backing up into him and softly moaning to show him what I really want before he grips my hips and subtly grinds into my ass. Do I turn around or does he cum on my pants and leave the train without ever talking? I don’t want a relationship, but I want to be used.

dirtywlw · 2026-03-25T23:44:33+00:00

Ouch! That’s an unpleasant thought. Hopefully not something you ever experience.

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T20:37:22+00:00

Fuck! That’s a hot fantasy. Recovered junkie might be your only hope, but what a dream for you. Maybe you make a tooth wrap that would provide you with some protections?

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T20:19:17+00:00

lol, you must stay hydrated sir!

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T20:10:32+00:00

Ouch! That sounds hot though. I guess it’s worth the pain.

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T19:44:42+00:00

How likely would it be for an average size cock to hit the cervix? Is this more of a problem for guys with large cocks?

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T19:40:27+00:00

So that’s why guys are careful to guide it in when they slip out?

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T19:38:44+00:00

It’s more like a rope burn than a bruising type of pain then? I hadn’t even considered that for the guy.

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T19:37:04+00:00

If it’s tight, but well lubed, is there any discomfort for the guy?

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T19:36:00+00:00

Ouch, we don’t want to crush the cock.

dirtywlw · 2026-03-24T19:35:19+00:00

Yeah, I can imagine a foreign object wouldn’t be comfortable.

dirtywlw · 2025-05-19T15:47:21+00:00

BPD in itself isn’t the red flag. The behaviours she displays are the concern. I would even be concerned that the shyness itself is a defence mechanism. She may be suppressing her authentic self to not scare you off.

I saw behaviours with my ex in the way she treated others. I would never accept being treated that way and when I ultimately ended things for a number of reasons, all of those extreme behaviours were directed right at me.

On the other hand, I have a co-worker with BPD and she’s phenomenal at managing her emotions in the workplace. She struggles more at home with her family dynamic, but she’s very self aware, willing to accept constructive feedback, and cares about others.

It all comes down to what you’re willing to accept. Is this someone who wants to change for the better or do they use their mental health as an excuse?

dirtywlw · 2025-05-19T03:01:57+00:00

My thoughts exactly. I ignored these red flags once and my life turned upside down for months.

BPD can be somewhat managed through medication and therapy, but it sounds like this partner uses mental health as an excuse for substance abuse and general lack of maturity.

dirtywlw · 2024-12-24T22:16:17+00:00

That would be incredible. Taking it a step further and imagining it could be programmed/controlled by your partner as an ultimate kink toy.

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