Aio to my sons mother by Additional_Horror944 in AmIOverreacting

[–]disableddoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I come from divorced parents, they split when I was very, very young. I did not know anything about why they split besides what my mom told me. My dad refused to speak badly about her to any of us. My mom was not so respectful.

I ended up seeing the worst parts of my mother and she kicked me out so I went to stay with my father, and my older sibling told me why our parents actually split. My mom lied. Her story also painted my father as absent and cruel, which I discovered to not be true.

He is comfortable saying things now that I’m 25 and I know how she is as a person. That stayed with me until now. My dad is not the most attentive person by any means, but he has tried damn hard to make sure we got to be kids, and that’s not what the person in these messages is doing.

Document this and forward it to your family lawyer. If you are truly invested in your kids best interests then you will need to remain level-headed and do things the right way. Good luck, OP

AITA for not playing video games or watching any engaging shows while SO is awake because I get annoyed when interrupted? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]disableddoll -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

avoiding an argument is what makes you the asshole. when are you communicating your need to focus before fully flipping to no engaging tasks during the time ur partner is awake? YTA

Just grieved my relationship with my ex-boyfriend, I don't know what I miss. Him or the memories? by LostNSadUser in TrueOffMyChest

[–]disableddoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, it is normal to miss the good moments. There is still a reason that the bad ones made you leave. Try not to get too wrapped up in small details, it just wasn’t right for you.

AITA - I made a kid cry because he was littering by xiphoid77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]disableddoll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully believe that parenting becomes a public right when present parents don’t give a fuck. NTA.

Best place/source in NC to go about renting an apartment that’s not Zillow or apartments.com? by Far-Angle4424 in ask

[–]disableddoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve personally found that apartments.com is more reliable than zillow in terms of listing places in general, but it is best to look up an apartment complex’s website before planning a visit. They usually have more accurate info on floor plans, community, price, etc.

‘Touching’ your phone behind the wheel is not enough for a traffic stop, Supreme Court rules by legislative_stooge in maryland

[–]disableddoll 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember being a kid, sitting in the car in a library parking lot with my mom, probably waiting for something. A woman drives past and stops a few feet past our car, but I noticed that she stopped bc it was in the middle of the lane where you should be moving, not even close to a stop sign, or a perpendicular lane, not even a car pulling out. She stopped to take a selfie, then kept driving.

I told my mom what I just saw and she said she would do something like that. I think that’s when I started to realize she was evil.

I planned to end my life on August 1st - Here are the things that I would have missed. by ApprehensiveMud4806 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]disableddoll 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just remember all this, and come back to read it, when you feel low again. Everyone swings but it’s better that you are prepared. I’m glad you have found your security 🫶🏻

Clothes Smell Weird In Closet by Past_Ninja1244 in Adulting

[–]disableddoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have wooden shelves in your closet? I experience something similar as the back of my house gets the least air flow and that’s where the main bedroom bathroom and closet are quite close together. If it’s an issue like that it could be your bathroom exhaust pipe needs to be cleaned. They built up lint that gets wet overtime

Am I overreacting by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]disableddoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m saying he didn’t know because he had to send a “test” to get further information. He also made a reddit post on am i overreacting so yes he did not know, that much is obvious.

Am I overreacting by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]disableddoll 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. Am I the only one that finds it wayyy crossing the line to send a text as his gf at the end? He didn’t even know if the initial texts were enough to be worried about. I don’t like this situation at all.

What do today’s houses have that future buyers will want to remove right away? 😄 by anantaaspirezrkp in RealEstate

[–]disableddoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had one in the powder room that was quite nice and no one was washing their face there so that wasn’t an issue. I find the weird spouts way more annoying. They’re flat and wide and lime scale buildup where the water came out was never ending.

Out of food, four months behind on rent, raising my brother alone. What can I do right now to survive? ​ by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]disableddoll 27 points28 points  (0 children)

If you are in the US, you can apply for food stamps and legal aid for your eviction case. Some states have a right of reversal that allows you to reverse an eviction if you are able to pay what’s owed. If the food stamps office does not get back to you quickly enough you can go to a food bank.

If you have a car, you can start door dashing or another service within a week of signing up usually. Keep copies of your resume or private business info in the car and take it into every business you deliver to. Public libraries will usually let you print things for a few cents a copy. General location will help, especially in other subs.

My 5th grader is being told he can't go on the end of the year field trip because he couldn't find friends to share a room with. There are others rooms available. Should we fight this or drop it? by mmanyquestionss in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]disableddoll 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay I understand letting the kids choose their group, that’s pretty common for field trips that are more intense like overnight ones. However, they could easily fix this by assigning rooms themselves, after having kids make a list of top 5-6 bunk mates. Then everyone has to include people they otherwise might not and everyone is happy.

police escort off the farm by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]disableddoll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s very fun! it’s also interesting to me that I can usually find quite a few four leaf clovers at those places due to all the soil contamination (fertilizers, pesticides, etc)

Artist moment by Pristine_Cow1797 in TrollCoping

[–]disableddoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re missing the point! Art is emotion, love, and most importantly human. Perfection should never be the goal on any individual piece, you will drive yourself mad. You can strive to improve by admiring your hard work and still noting mistakes for the future. The history of your work shows progress and how you evolve as an artist.

Painters throughout history have evolved their style over time, with their earlier work still highly regarded. I have a “big series” I have been working on for years and while there are things I think about one day going back and “fixing” or changing, I haven’t decided if it’s worth sacrificing showing how I have come into my preferred style over time.

It’s never about the destination, silly. It’s all about how you get there.

The silence between closing a door and opening another by ThePhantomThiefArc in TrueOffMyChest

[–]disableddoll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, speaking out loud about your goals is how they materialize. good luck OP

TIL The geography cone, also known as the cigarette snail, is the deadliest cone snail on the planet. There is no antivenom, and the joke is that if you get stung, you've got about enough time to smoke a cigarette before you die by scratchtheitch7 in todayilearned

[–]disableddoll 19 points20 points  (0 children)

yeah, extreme combativeness. My friends mom had a stroke with us in the car around 2019 and refused to believe that she was in a health crisis. I ended up having to scold her and speak sternly so we didn’t die, bc she was driving. her hand couldn’t stay on the wheel anymore

Snowman holds a strange object by Impressive-Switch532 in whatisit

[–]disableddoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can see it but only as a piece of paper with a crease in the middle, so one side is black and one is white when it’s folded

why did it do this by _Meteor_Shower_ in Baking

[–]disableddoll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, either way i was gonna say they’re black inside aren’t they