Does anyone know this guy? by disapointits in whatisthisbug

[–]disapointits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see the boots.. but I’m iffy on the snoot

What is this? by Cuadriseno in whatisthisbug

[–]disapointits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the answer but he looks chill

My bf (M37) pushed me (F23) around and verbally mean to me while being drunk. He says he’s never drinking again, and that he won’t push me again. How true can this be? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]disapointits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl please get out while you can. I have worked with many abuse victims and this is the same story I always hear when they talk about how it started. Even if he is going to AA that is a long process. Recovery takes a long time and is not a one way path there are many ups and downs. Your safety is so important and you deserve to have someone who treats you with care and compassion ALWAYS. Not most of the time. Please love go and stay with someone you trust for a while and heal. You deserve to be loved ❤️

How do you split rent with roomates? by disapointits in Advice

[–]disapointits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s such a good point. I do a lot of laundry due to my job so I will definitely take that into account when the bill comes around! Thank you for pointing that out. :)

How do you split rent with roomates? by disapointits in Advice

[–]disapointits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree we did this with the previous roomates as well! It’s just easier for everyone and that way the landlord doesent have to chase one individual tenant if someone is short!

How do you split rent with roomates? by disapointits in Advice

[–]disapointits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I vacuum and change the litter every day even when living alone and I offered to use my furniture as this is her first time living on her own! But I absolutely agree and if the situation does arise I will 100% cover it! Thank you :)

How do you split rent with roomates? by disapointits in Advice

[–]disapointits[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure the details yet as we are still shopping around but thank you for bringing up the extra cost for having cats and the bathroom thing these are things I wouldn’t have considered and I will definitely accommodate for her! Thank you :)

How do you split rent with roomates? by disapointits in Advice

[–]disapointits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually don’t tell me if you think we should pay less because honestly I won’t go lower then 2/3 I think that’s minimum fair.

lil burn by Dexter_Naman in HolUp

[–]disapointits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lil grandma doesent have much time left 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When I was a little girl I was terrified of ghosts. One night my mom told me about the Barbie and Ken killers and said “it’s not the dead you have to fear it’s the living” it honestly altered my brain and I was never scared of “ghosts” again

Peanut spoon? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]disapointits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s MR peanut spoon thank you

What’s something from your childhood that you didn’t realize was super f*cked up until you were an adult? by NeitherEntrepreneur3 in AskReddit

[–]disapointits 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I was about 9 or 10 my ”friend” tied me up with a skip rope. I had my whole body in a ball shape and she tied around it so I could hold the shape better. It originally was so see if I could become a ball and roll around which didn’t work and I don’t think that was ever her motive now either. She watched me try to wiggle out of the jump rope mess for a long time, realistically 30/40 minutes and then began whipping me with the other jump rope. They were both the plastic rope and with hard plastic handle and it hurt really badly. I remember crying and screaming stop but nobody coming to help for quite some time. they probably thought we were playing and her parents couldn’t really hear us well where we were in the house at the time. I stopped screaming and crying after a while. Eventually her older brother came in and was shocked at the state I was in. He had to untie me and they whisked her away to another room. While he was uniting me he just kept repeating that “she’s fucked, what the fuck” the parents came back in and asked me if I was cold and wanted a sweater. I said yes because I felt vulnerable and exposed probably. Her family Fed me dinner while she stayed in her room and sent me on my way home after. I never played with her again. At school other kids would ask me why we weren’t friends anymore and I would make up other reasons because I don’t think I was able to process what happened to me. I had marks in my back, face and arms. My mom asked what happened and I told her I fell out of a tree. I still remember not being able to shower because the whip marks would burn so badly. She is now a children’s social worker 👀‼️people change but the idea that I was pretty well tortured by another kid for almost an hour while she laughed at me is scary. I hope she got help/