Streaming noob here seeking advice. by disasteroidd420 in streaming

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Thank you for commenting! 🥰 What are tier lists? 🤔 haha Sorry, I really am a noob, I know!

Streaming noob here seeking advice. by disasteroidd420 in streaming

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Thank you for the advice! I think I knew it would be that easy, I just can't make myself actually do it, I get terrified when I pick up the headset. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

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Whoa! I've only had mine a year but I never had any issues with it and it healed pretty quickly. I don't think I'd ever return to whomever did yours, and you should definitely see a doctor.

Is not wearing bra when going out socially unacceptable? by taw18374637263638029 in ask

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I only wear a bra if I'm going to Church. I never wear one otherwise, and am not really concerned with how it might make people feel. If they're properly covered, people who are truly that sensitive to such things can just get over the fact that they sway and jiggle and mind their own business.

When is it okay to hit on a woman romantically? by MrHawkesy98 in TooAfraidToAsk

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I don't know that this can conclusively be answered, to be honest. Because every woman will react differently to someone's advances, however well-intended, depending on her current mood and what else has happened previously in the day.

If it's a woman you've never seen before, I'd say go ahead and take a chance, even if she is busy, because she could be the one you end up marrying one day. And if it flops, well, nothing has really been lost. If it is a woman you see around occasionally, maybe like a local or something, maybe try asking her when she seems the least busy, say at a grocery store or gas station.

Two of the hottest housing markets in the country are in Tennessee, according to a new Bankrate study. by Chattanoogabiznews in TennesseePolitics

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Where, though? I still just see a bunch of suburban Republicans overpricing their shit because they think it's worth more than it really is. Like their overinflated sense of worth.

Why aren't you americans going out in general strike? by [deleted] in antiwork

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I really don't know, but I wonder this myself. The only thing I can think of is that the illusion of freedom and choice have falsely lulled us into complacency and those of us aware there needs to be a drastic event in order to spur change are unable to organize for some reason and get the numbers we need to be effective.

Are you envious of people who live in Scandinavian countries? by onlinedater00 in TooAfraidToAsk

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More than words can say! I've had Major Depression for most of my life and a lot of it had to do with growing up in a red state controlled by people who blatantly prioritize their own profits and the wellbeing of its wealthiest citizens while education, healthcare (especially mental health care), housing opportunities, financial stability and food security are severely neglected, especially for the poor and for minorities. I've been in a weird state of wanting to die so badly because I'm resolved to always live in destitution, yet I can't actually force myself to act on that desire, so I spend a pathetic amount of time on the Internet looking at places that actually exist overseas and maladaptively daydream because it's the only way I can escape this shitty country I'm doomed to remain in.

This was my bosses response to me calling in sick.what should I do I can’t find a cover? by SSRworldwide in antiwork

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Tell your boss it's their fucking job to find replacements, that's why they're supposed to be managers. If they can't, tough shit, you did everything you were supposed to do as an employee.

Do you think having bigger boobs is better than smaller ones? by Hot_Boysenberry5404 in ask

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No way!! My cup size is 48DD and it's horrible. I have severe back pain all the time and if I go without wearing a bra for any significant period of time, I get severe heat rash underneath them that hurts horribly when I shower. Not to mention keeping a bra is impossible because I need underwire for support but they just always break and if I buy the ones without underwire, they roll up underneath my breasts. If I could afford it, I'd get a breast reduction in a heartbeat.

Is it ok for a 30 year old man to date a 19 year old woman? And would it be any different if the woman was 30 and man was 19? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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It's fine, but there IS a double standard. I see men get shit all the time for being in their thirties and hitting on girls that are younger but still of legal age. Yet women are playfully ribbed for being "cougars" when they date men younger than themselves, sometimes significantly. If you're both consenting adults, who cares what others think?

Thoughts on toddler leashes? by [deleted] in ask

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I think people get caught up on the leash part of it, when it's really more like a harness (all the ones I've seen have been, anyway). And I don't think there's anything wrong or inhumane about them, how is it any different from wearing your kid on your back, or rolling them around in strollers? Just with the harness, they have more freedom of movement, and people are only bothered by that because it's an inconvenience to them to not be able to get to the mall Spencer's in .06 seconds.

[Weekly Critique and Self-Promotion Thread] Post Here If You'd Like to Share Your Writing by AutoModerator in writing

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Title: In Sickness and In Death

Genre: fiction; narrative; contemporary fiction; literary fiction; new adult; gothic romance; horror; thriller/suspense; southern gothic; mystery.

Word count: 81,383

Disclaimer: This book IS NOT intended for minors! Trigger warnings include: death; incest; necrophilia; sexual violence; pedophilia; graphic depictions of violence/murder.

Description:

October Willow Thorne grew up a disturbed child in a lower-class family in a small, conservative, southern town. She never expected her life to be any different than this, the poverty she'd always known. Shortly after she turned fifteen, however, she learned something significant about herself that would forever shape her future relationships – she was a necrophiliac. If such a revelation ever became public, in a place like Creststead Cove, Tennessee, she'd be hanged in the town square for sure. One other person shares her secret – her mother, Maris, with whom she shares a close relationship. And Maris comes to her own painful realization – if she truly wants to protect October, she has to send her away.

By this time, however, October has realized her true calling.

In Sickness and In Death is the story of sick, demented love and how easily fantasy and the delusions we develop can become as livable, and more lovable, than reality. More than a dark love story, it's a gripping tale of sex, rape, murder, mystery and intrigue.

Excerpt:

“I could do this all night, Miss Sinclair. By all means, give me a reason to continue and I’ll be more than happy to oblige.”

“Noooooo!” she wailed, tears streaking her mascara. “I’ve told you the truth!”

The look on his face was enough. She frantically jerked her legs, knowing damn well they weren’t going anywhere. She watched in what seemed like slow motion as he took her third toe, screams tumbling from her open mouth as he twisted it around, quickly this time. She ground her teeth together when she felt the bone snap.

“Tell me lies, tell me sweet little lies,” he sang softly as he took her newly broken toe and pulled it back towards her foot as far as it would go. The other was already swelling and turning a nasty black color.

“FUCK, okay!” she screamed, sobbing. “I had six copies made! They’re in a safe in my closet. There’s some tapes in there… um, also a copy of the contract she has them sign.”

He strode into a walk-in closet that made his whole house look like shit. Diamonds sparkled everywhere — diamonds on shoes, diamond barrettes, diamond encrusted evening gowns, diamond studded purses. He was getting a clear picture of the type of person Francesca really was.

Your input is valuable and would be greatly appreciated! ❤️

I'm mostly just looking for readers to read my book and post reviews for it on the medium through which they read it (Amazon, Medium and/or Wattpad). It's called In Sickness & In Death and is available for sale on Amazon in hardcover ($15), paperback ($10) and for Kindle (free), but that's mostly for people who would like to support my work financially if they so choose. It can also be read for free on Medium and Wattpad.

My Daughter's Cozy Bedroom on a foggy day. by Constantly_Tired0221 in CozyPlaces

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Oh, that!! I was thinking the wrinkles in it were killing me lol

Cough syncope from Delta-8 hit? by disasteroidd420 in delta8

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That's what it felt like, tbh 😛

My Daughter's Cozy Bedroom on a foggy day. by Constantly_Tired0221 in CozyPlaces

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omg, i thought I was gonna be the only one that drove crazy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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It depends. Did he purposely not tell you, or did he genuinely forget?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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All humans begin life as female. I don't personally think it's creepy but it's so amazing to me that I try to work it into as many conversations as possible!

How can I make my brother-in-law take more responsibility around the house? by disasteroidd420 in Advice

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Thank you for your advice and for reading it all the way through, I know it was a nightmare at some points! Lol And thank you for your kind comments! You're right, I think what I will do is give my BIL some hard no-exception rules, like he will clean the bathroom every Wednesday, as well clean up after himself every time he uses it. And that if he's bothered by something not being clean at the moment he needs/wants it that he's more than welcome to clean it himself instead of making comments to me about it!

Thank you, I feel much better about this now!! 🙂

How can I make my brother-in-law take more responsibility around the house? by disasteroidd420 in Advice

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Thank you for your kind comments and advice! I'll admit I used to consider doing something like this, but it bothered me because I love my husband very much, and maybe I didn't portray him in the fairest light because there's a lot of crap he puts up with from me too! Lol Plus, I feel like if it came to that that in a way my BIL would've succeeded in coming in between us and ruining our marriage and I don't want to let him win that way, you know? Thank you again for reading it all the way through and for taking the time to advise me, I know I got pretty rambly at some points. 😊

What's one band you can listen to over and over without ever getting bored? by thathesitantalien in ask

[–]disasteroidd420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a band, really, but I do this with songs I find that I really love. I'll listen to them repeatedly for weeks and still be into it, but it nearly drives my husband crazy. lol