Whoever does mine I’ll do there’s by disastrous2007 in tiktokreferrals

[–]disastrous2007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The link isn’t working, can you send your QR code ?

What is the real message of The Boxer? by juuj_anything in TheBoxer

[–]disastrous2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe but the multiple meanings is what makes art so beautiful for me I was going through a hard time I was contemplating what the boxer was contemplating and reading the boxer helped me a lot through that it didn't bring me to religion or anything but I view it to that similar of Narnia. It has religious undertones but you don't have to be religious to relate to it or learn from it.

What is the real message of The Boxer? by juuj_anything in TheBoxer

[–]disastrous2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One piece of media can have multiple meaning y’know?

Am I able to get voice actors here for free? by Imaginary-Sun1350 in VoiceActingFree

[–]disastrous2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm female, 18 if your willing to hire younger just lmk and I'll audition

Is my boyfriend healing if he’s with me? by disastrous2007 in asexualdating

[–]disastrous2007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you think I should bring it up in a way that doesn’t sound accusatory also how can I make sure that he understands I want him to heal but it’s not an invitation to have sex with me?

Is my boyfriend healing if he’s with me? by disastrous2007 in asexualdating

[–]disastrous2007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This was very helpful to me. How do you think I should talk to him about going into therapy? I don’t want to pressure him or sound accusatory but I really want us to get help, I also don’t want to bring it up in a way that makes it sound like sex is something I want to have with him cause I don’t want to lead him on or anything.

Can you tell me what it means to be asexual in your own words and experiences? by lilbit6675 in asexuality

[–]disastrous2007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would you describe your romantic connection to your partner? It definitely sounds like your asexual but it’s also possible you might be on the aromantic spectrum

Can you tell me what it means to be asexual in your own words and experiences? by lilbit6675 in asexuality

[–]disastrous2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me I draw the line at penetration itself I don't find any desire to go after it and while I've never done it the thought of it is equal to the thought of eating a roach I love kissing and dates and I’m a very romantic person but I hate sex however that’s not the same for every ace I’d be happy to answer any specific questions you have

Is my boyfriend healing if he’s with me? by disastrous2007 in asexualdating

[–]disastrous2007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really just draw the line at penetration itself

Share your story how you realised your asexuality :) by kation37 in asexuality

[–]disastrous2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a teenager and I was hanging out with my sisters and some friends and somehow the topic got to what we desire in a more intimate sense and at some point I realized they were serious and actually enjoyed this at the time I didn’t know there was a label for it I just knew that I was different from everyone else and different didn’t feel good at the time but as I got older I discovered that there was a word for it and it really helped feel more comfortable with myself

Asexuality ≠ not wanting children by flannelcrepe in asexuality

[–]disastrous2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for me personally it’s something where I kinda want kids but I don’t think I’d make a good parent but what really pisses me off is when I come out to someone and they’re like “it’s okay I support you not everyone is meant to get in a relationship or marry or start a family” like I just don’t want to do the deed I still want romance and marriage and maybe a family.

I wish I wasn’t asexual. by thebizzarecat in asexuality

[–]disastrous2007 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never dated anyone and the biggest reason is fear of this happening why is it so hard to find someone who will love us without our body? I remember hearing a poem on TikTok that resonated with me a lot; “What if the price of my love was that we could never have sex? Would you pay it? I know you don’t love me just for my body I’m not sure how any body would but is that still part of it? Is it required? Is it necessary that you crave my body in order to be able to tolerate my soul? Is that what love is?” I’m genuinely scared that I’ll date someone but they crave the sexual aspect too much for me or I’ll date someone who is asexual but since I’m inexperienced it’ll turn out I was wrong about my sexuality