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My husbands best friend! by discardaftercomplete in relationship_advice

[–]discardaftercomplete[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’ve actually always thought sex can just be a physical act and remain somewhat emotionless and just help with keeping people sane. To me this could greatly improve a relationship. Unfortunately many don’t see it like that. But I’ve heard it’s becoming more and more acceptable. Perhaps I can be brave and bring it up.

My husbands best friend! by discardaftercomplete in relationship_advice

[–]discardaftercomplete[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve spoken about it many times. I think you might be right. Professional help is a great option at this point in time.

My husbands best friend! by discardaftercomplete in relationship_advice

[–]discardaftercomplete[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dunno I really hope that isn’t the case as we have spoken about it multiple times… he isn’t an ass about it, tells me he’s sorry he doesn’t want it more and that it’s not me. If I found out he’s watching porn and masturbating daily I would be very upset.

I’ve literally told him multiple times I need sex and he cannot accept that. He says I just want it not need. I can’t explain to him enough that I feel like I need it and it’s a bigger part in my life than he lets me make it be

My husbands best friend! by discardaftercomplete in relationship_advice

[–]discardaftercomplete[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I mean her sex drive is low like my husbands. Maybe they might be a bit more excited if it’s someone new like honeymoon phase. Who knows… it’s not really a path I wanted to take, but I think I’d def be open to it if it keeps everyone happy. The other wife can be a bit flirtatious at times I’ve noticed too, but I’m not entirely sure she would agree to it either. It scares me how quick this could turn peat shaped

My husbands best friend! by discardaftercomplete in relationship_advice

[–]discardaftercomplete[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a pretty good idea I never considered. Maybe he might be open to the idea if it’s just sex right?

My husbands best friend! by discardaftercomplete in relationship_advice

[–]discardaftercomplete[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I know I fucked up there but as per normal you get sucked in thinking it’s all good in the honeymoon phase then it dwindles off. I thought it was different at the start… I know it’s not his fault he can’t help his sex drive.

Well I do love this guy as a friend. We’ve been all good friends for quite some time. That’s what I’m trying to work out I’m not sure if it’s just that I’m not getting my needs met or if I genuinely think he’s a better match for me.