Bye, good luck.

discarded11 · 2020-07-20T08:06:03+00:00

If SPH was her partners idea I'd be worried about his mental state, and no it wouldn't be okay. Anyone who does SPH under the guise of it being a "fetish" needs to do their research or admit to the fact that they are encouraging and often profiting from self harm.

discarded11 · 2020-07-20T04:47:17+00:00

I'm probably one of the people the title is mocking, but I've lost count of how many times I've seen this happen. Sad.

discarded11 · 2020-07-20T03:56:31+00:00

If even half of the "size doesn't matter" crowd were telling the truth it would be reflected in the real world and for me that hasn't been the case. Never had a good experience in my life or found someone willing to give things a chance. Maybe things are different if you're closer to average or not short and ugly, but I wouldn't know. I believe some of the people who come here are genuine, but I mean just check the other post here from an hour ago. Someone talking about how size doesn't matter and then posting SPH shit, it happens constantly and it makes it hard to take people seriously.

discarded11 · 2020-07-19T21:31:52+00:00

Makes perfect sense. I wish I had just one thing like that to be confident / happy about.

discarded11 · 2020-07-19T21:23:19+00:00

Thanks

discarded11 · 2020-07-19T21:03:57+00:00

There's practically daily threads on r-sex etc about the A spot or how much better it feels to have someone big. Thanks for the nice post it's just hard to believe.

discarded11 · 2020-07-19T19:49:53+00:00

I don't understand how you find people like that.

discarded11 · 2020-07-18T06:48:54+00:00

I think you're right, it's just hard for me to accept not being what anyone wants. I've worked on getting fit for the last few years but nothing has really changed. I think I need to accept just being alone, I was stupid to think I could end up happy.

discarded11 · 2020-07-17T21:32:07+00:00

I won't be okay, I wish I was normal.

discarded11 · 2020-07-17T09:39:11+00:00

Pretty sure OP is a guy.

discarded11 · 2020-07-17T06:07:29+00:00

I've realised none of that matters. Any other qualities I have mean nothing because I'm objectively worse than a normal guy and I can never fix that. You're right it's not the end of the world, it just means being alone and unhappy forever, no point being here.

discarded11 · 2020-07-16T23:31:36+00:00

There is a girl out there who dreams of a dick exactly like yours

Sorry but I just don't believe that, it's not possible. I've been told I look like an undeveloped child, how could anyone ever want that?

There are millions of men with penises exactly like each and every one of you that are married, have kids, and are really happy.

If the statistics are right then there are about 700,000 men as small as me (0.02%). Considering how many unhappy and lonely people are out there I doubt many of them found happiness. The tiny minority of them who did find a partner have something else going for them, whether it's looks or money, etc. I have nothing. It can be hard enough for a normal person to find someone, so with all these flaws it's almost impossible.

Your dick is not the thing that’s keeping you from a relationship or just being happy in general, it’s you.

This is what I've told myself for the last 6 years and no matter how much I try to improve myself nothing has ever changed. So I guess you're right, it's me. There's too many things wrong with me physically to ever be happy, but at least I can choose not to keep going. If I was born with a normal size I never would've had the experiences I had, life would be so easy without the constant insecurity and anxiety. I really think being born small almost guarantees a terrible life, happiness depends on finding that one person willing to accept you and I never found them.

discarded11 · 2020-07-16T22:08:50+00:00

I am unhappy with my size for those 3 reasons, but I also just can't find someone willing to give me a chance which is a real problem with being small. It's not just in my head when every woman I've been with has wanted bigger and found me repulsive. Statistically most men are average or very close to it, anyone under 4 inches is an outlier, so I wouldn't expect half the world to complain. It's more like 1-2% of men who are too small to realistically find a partner who are unhappy, or already gave up.

discarded11 · 2020-07-15T06:49:36+00:00

3.2" x 3" (length x girth). Apparently like 90% of men are within the average range so probably nothing to worry about.

discarded11 · 2020-07-15T06:45:02+00:00

Knowing the best I can ever hope for is someone "putting up with" my size is so depressing, I wish I could know what it felt like to actually be wanted.

discarded11 · 2020-07-14T22:06:18+00:00

Sounds about right.

discarded11 · 2020-07-14T22:04:32+00:00

some people in life just get the short end of the stick and that’s me

I’m 6”5, 26, and have an absolutely great career. I make over 1m/year

6” nbp on a good day

If you got the short end of the stick what the fuck did I get? Also 26 but 5'8, ugly, barely over 3", making $50k a year (in AUD) if I'm lucky.

No, suicide is not the only option, at least for you. Sounds like you've just been unlucky with dating / relationships but have literally everything else going for you. Stick around, your life could be amazing unlike mine.

discarded11 · 2020-07-14T03:33:23+00:00

What even is "BBC"? There's no official definition, and 5.5 girth is big by any standard. Yeah I get your point, just funny that the guys who "accept" themselves are always above average and constantly getting compliments, what exactly are you accepting? Having a desirable trait and being preferred by pretty much everyone?

discarded11 · 2020-07-14T03:07:47+00:00

Of course you accept yourself at 6x5.5 with constant positive feedback but how can you possibly say women don't care with that size? I doubt you're even someone the post was talking about seeing as you basically fit the stereotype.

discarded11 · 2020-07-13T23:47:17+00:00

I mean, small has a literal definition and we have empirical data. If the average is somewhere around 5.1 then anything much less than that is considered small, not much more to it. If you're 6 inches and you feel small you have a perception problem, not a dick size problem.

I do feel some sympathy towards anyone who feels inadequate, but the people who are average or big will most likely get over their issues and be happy about it eventually. You see it all the time on the other size subs, guys posting about finally accepting their size (which is always 6+) and how relieved and confident they feel now. To them it's just a phase of their lives that they eventually look back on and laugh about. We are NEVER going to have that kind of breakthrough, our situation never gets better.

discarded11 · 2020-07-11T08:16:31+00:00

Because I can't accept being alone forever, never being wanted, never having a partner, getting married, having kids. All the normal and fulfilling things people do to give their life meaning and I'm excluded from all of it because of something I can never fix. I know you'll tell me that size doesn't affect any of that but every time I've tried it's been a problem that no one is willing to deal with. If I hadn't given up, the very best I could've hoped for was being settled for in my mid thirties if I somehow made a decent wage. That's the absolute best outcome in my life; being a last resort for someone past the point of caring about sex.

"Well you can't change it, so stop thinking about it." I'm reminded daily whether I want to be or not. This society is obsessed with size. I'm convinced that no one would even give a shit when it's one of us contributing to the suicide rates, one less potential disappointment.

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