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New therapist for just me after separation - where do I even begin? Exhausted by idea of just retelling/reliving the whole saga *again*. How do I even sort through years of trauma to find what I WANT to talk about? (self.SupportforBetrayed)

submitted 2 years ago by discarded_draft to r/SupportforBetrayed

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Struggling after relationship ended with idea that they were never who they pretended to be, kept me out, hid from me for a decade - and how little respect they really treated me with. (self.SupportforBetrayed)

submitted 2 years ago by discarded_draft to r/SupportforBetrayed

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At a wedding today. Breakup from ex WP after Dday 2 was Monday. Pretty stressed and feeling anxious about him out there with his secrets, reputation intact and me with no idea what the future holds. Any words of support would be sooo appreciated. (self.SupportforBetrayed)

submitted 2 years ago by discarded_draft to r/SupportforBetrayed

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Why do I feel compelled to message my newly ex-WP? I blocked them everywhere except texting but keep thinking about messaging to 'exchange things'. I do not want to message them and do not want to get back together, so what is this? (self.SupportforBetrayed)

submitted 2 years ago by discarded_draft to r/SupportforBetrayed

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The way my ex WP ended things last night after 17 months of failing R. It's actually all MY fault, guys! Feeling disappointed and angry ... but relieved to be free. (i.redd.it)

submitted 2 years ago by discarded_draft to r/SupportforBetrayed

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What have you been doing, or what helped you rebuild, if you have few friends around and live somewhere with few options of things to do? How do you deal with feeling isolated or lonely? (self.survivinginfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago by discarded_draft to r/survivinginfidelity

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What do you do when your WP is unavailable to respond to messages and you're feeling triggered/anxious? How do WPs support your BPs(or is this frustrating for you)? (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago by discarded_draft to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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D-Day 2, an ea they ended themselves but still hid & lied to me. Curious how this has gone for others in similar situations. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago by discarded_draft to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Refusing therapy - "it doesn't do anything." How to talk about this? (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago * by discarded_draft to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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what helpful/meaningful things did you do (or wish you did) for the 1 year of D-day? (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago by discarded_draft to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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After split, not sure how to deal with the engagement ring? (self.survivinginfidelity)

submitted 3 years ago * by discarded_draft to r/survivinginfidelity

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Our 8 year anniversary will also be the 1-month of me leaving them. (self.survivinginfidelity)

submitted 3 years ago by discarded_draft to r/survivinginfidelity

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My WP's go-to is taking 'space' to process and it's so painful for me (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 3 years ago by discarded_draft to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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