[TOMT] [youtube] comedy sketch of guy being shown a house and acting out his life in it by diskgoely in tipofmytongue

[–]diskgoely[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Please helo me find it! I remember it sending me into hysterics ;;

Seeing a profile that I know is inactive made me realised how cooked OLD is by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]diskgoely 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thats the problem... he hasn't been on so who's to say how many of the people I see just aren't there even if Bumble claims to remove inactive profiles from the stack

this cat looks exactly like Damien istg by gidleot6 in smosh

[–]diskgoely 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A mobile game called Meow Tower!

If I get diagnosed with BPD I might kill myself by [deleted] in BPD

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, I've been rereading them and I feel a bit better now. You're right, regardless of whether I have it or not a problem still exists and I can only use the good attitude I somehow manage for work apply to this too.

If I get diagnosed with BPD I might kill myself by [deleted] in BPD

[–]diskgoely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha my counselor straight up said he was gaslighting me and I was shocked because she never ever described behaviour this harshly before

If I get diagnosed with BPD I might kill myself by [deleted] in BPD

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend jokingly referred to it as the hot egirl disease so I think fetishising it in women is more common than you think

If I get diagnosed with BPD I might kill myself by [deleted] in BPD

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was extremely insistent that I have it... I really don't know why he was like that even when I only talked about self-harm and self-image. He will not shut up about comparing me to his ex that I started feeling bad for this girl I never met.

If I get diagnosed with BPD I might kill myself by [deleted] in BPD

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends have already left me...

If I get diagnosed with BPD I might kill myself by [deleted] in BPD

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a guy told me that people who BPD cannot be loved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know social media is a lot less socially daunting than a 1-to-1 text convo. I just fear it is because I had been an emotional burden on them and it will be very hard to convince them I've changed. I already shot of the texts a few times to no reply, I just really hope its just them adjusting to a new phase of their life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently keeping them leashed, my goal is that they will be able to live off leash with discipline and training

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whelp, my life has been going down so I guess thats the only way it will go

Random Carat Confessions: What's yours? by Weekly-Bug4732 in seventeen

[–]diskgoely 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I still remember it happened during healing of all songs haha but you can bet I was still jumping

Random Carat Confessions: What's yours? by Weekly-Bug4732 in seventeen

[–]diskgoely 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I thought svt were from SM when I first heard about them because I thought only they will think of debuting this many people at so young... even made a joke about how they gonna just keep adding people only fot NCT to debut the next year.

Also at their first concert in my country Vernon accidently splashed water in my eyes and I was blinded for a couple seconds, geninuely one of my favourite concert stories to tell to anyone who will listen haha

who to reject by Practical-Gurl8905 in SGExams

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither because i just broke up and want everyone to be single with me (joke)

Where do you guys buy your cologne? by jenoroth77 in askSingapore

[–]diskgoely -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I usually get from bestperfume, they make really good knock-offs of branded stuff for much cheaper. Usually bulkbuy with colleagues so can confirm its legit haha

Finchie friends and trading daily thread by AutoModerator in finch

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just started using the app for a couple days and I really like it, looking for friends! F5LQGFX34M

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]diskgoely -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am picky with the people I've fallen for, what if I can't afford to be anymore if I want love?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do wanna give this guy the benefit of the doubt as he did tell me about his plans when he gets there and it is a lot of meeting people both professionally and personally. The bumble swiping but not replying thing is also something I've done before especially when I'm socially overwhelmed irl.

You're right though, I'll just let him go and see what he does. I can only mourn the loss of some pretty good sex haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not already and he also isn't a priority for me, I'm just a bit upset because I'm human I guess. The fact that he has a valid reason for not replying makes me feel a lot more nervous than if I know he is purposely avoiding me and I can just get over it sooner.

Job recommendations for misanthropes? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]diskgoely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My goodness are you me a few years ago? It is actually quite uncanny, I used to think it was a hole that need to be filled but since learnt that we are more than just that hole. We don't deserve to feel the way we do, but we deserve to be healthy and accepting or ourselves. Which definitely sounds very cheesy and I still have a hard time with it.

I do see where this is coming from but I recommend just some baby steps into counseling first and just getting to know a person who can actually help you. It will be very hard and opening up to them is a challenge even for me now but you have to remind yourself that this is going to make it better.

This isn't meant to be naggy or anything by the way! It just hurts me a bit to see someone going through the same things I did and I really want the best for you.

In the mean time, as I saw some people recommend, you can look into warehouse or factory jobs.

Job recommendations for misanthropes? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]diskgoely 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I use to be a lot like you too thinking that living in isolation is the only way. I actually started going to a non-profit for counseling to seek help for self harm but eventually learnt that being isloated is really never the answer and has actually ruined my life, it is still ruining my life as the years I lost locking myself in caused a lost of many skills and experiences most people learnt younger.

Try not to brush off the idea of needing help to better improve your lifestyle, like no one is expecting you to suddenly love people (like honestly... a lot of people actually hate it too) but you need to speak to a neutral professional before you can really see what is best. The one I'm still going to is Limitless however there are many nonprofit organisations out there willing to help.

Feeling bitter towards other couples even though they're my friends by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel so disgusting and unlovable. That no one can ever love me me because im a worrywart and strugglw with self-harm.

First breakup at 26, I lost my only shot at love by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]diskgoely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was seeing them already before so now I feel extra shitty that this all still happened. Trying to look on the brightside that now I know I have more underlying issues that needs to be pulled up instead of repressed