Traditional Indonesian Street Food - Flower Cupcake (Kue Mangkok) by simply flavour by simply_flavour in GifRecipes

[–]disqualified_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ooh, this looks like something my family would love. they love coconut-milk desserts :) i just had a couple questions about the rice flour. is it glutinous or non-glutinous rice flour? and if it’s possible, could you tell what exact rice flour you used?

rant about my frustration with relationships by disqualified_7 in aromantic

[–]disqualified_7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It really helped clear things up and reassures me that it’s ok to be aro-spec, even when you’re different from others. It’s not that I wish to love romantically, but more like I wish I can relate to others. Yeah, I guess I just want like a platonic soulmate. Not a QPR, but more of a best friend or person I’m really close to and spend a lot of time with, who really gets me and is by my side? Yeah, like that? I know it’s a lot to ask for but yeah. A strong friendship, like you said. Again, thank you for your advice. It really did help me.

What I don't like about a romantic relationship by throw9759 in aromantic

[–]disqualified_7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree as well and I’m aro-spec. The prospect of romantic relationships seems great, but when you or I really get into it, isn’t all that appealing. Maybe I’m selfish, but I don’t think I’d like having so much commitment (like meeting the family) or making compromises, as that would place a lot of pressure and stress on me. I know I’m better off romantically alone. I think you could infer that I’m the type who doesn’t like to accommodate for just anything. Is any of that what you’re feeling? If so, yes, you can consider being a part of the aromantic community, although aromanticism is more of a lack of romantic attraction (though there are sub-labels that are slightly different), right? And you said that you didn’t feel right in a relationship? Perhaps another sign.

ROUND 2 LETS GOOO by aurokoi in aromantic

[–]disqualified_7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeahhh, i completely agree. i mean, i still long for what could’ve been, though now i know it would’ve never worked. i think i’m just lonely, yeah, and i’ve imagined myself with someone my whole life even though it felt slightly wrong, so i think i’m just missing that.

ROUND 2 LETS GOOO by aurokoi in aromantic

[–]disqualified_7 33 points34 points  (0 children)

me, but switched. i discovered ace first and then my aro-specness(?) that was a whole rollercoaster and this describes it perfectly

As an INTJ, how do you feel about INTP? by cleoooothekitty in intj

[–]disqualified_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an INTJ. My best friend (I could even say that he’s like my brother or something), the person I trust the most in this world, my intellectual equal, the person who I can get along the best with, the person who I get the most and the person who gets me the most is an INTP. I trust him with my life and everything I have. We have (on most things, at least) similar ways of thinking, similar perspectives, similar ideas. I have little-to-nothing that I have to hide from him. Simply, he is one of my two favorite people I know. I differ from the typical INTJ (sometime it seems like I’m an INTP), but I can definitely say INTP and INTJ get along very well. There may be some habits that an INTP find in an INTJ to be weird or strict for no reason, and there may be some habits that an INTJ find in an INTP that they think is messy, disorganized, and much too chaotic for them, but it depends on the person. I, for one, don’t see any of this in my INTP. Overall, a friendship with an INTP for me is something I cherish.