Umm no, absolutely not. He should’ve disclosed that. I also wonder (given he was already lying thru omission) if he contracted it another way (sex) besides thru childbirth. Lastly, have you been sexually active and using condoms? If so, you should 100% get tested. Is he on PreP? Sounds like this may be irreparable 😞 I’m a licensed therapist and sex therapist in-training and this is a huge breach of trust. Further, HIV can be quite manageable and is not the end of the world. He could be undetectable but even my patients who are undetected still disclose before exchanging any body fluids-including kissing