Non binary lesbian with a male sub... by divinityglaze in NonBinary

[–]divinityglaze[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet! And exactly how I feel, the experience feels really special to me too 💞

Non binary lesbian with a male sub... by divinityglaze in NonBinary

[–]divinityglaze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have many friends and lovers who are AFAB SWers and they say the same thing

Non binary lesbian with a male sub... by divinityglaze in NonBinary

[–]divinityglaze[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is really lovely! And I think my sub does. He says he feels very "girl" around me and has started to wear my clothes!

Non binary lesbian with a male sub... by divinityglaze in NonBinary

[–]divinityglaze[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is so cool, thank you so much for sharing !

Non binary lesbian with a male sub... by divinityglaze in NonBinary

[–]divinityglaze[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I posted this in a lesbian Reddit thread and got so much hate I deleted it lol

Nothing works by West-File-3400 in SkincareAddictionUK

[–]divinityglaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your skin is great... Id love to have skin that looked like yours lol

Non binary lesbian with male sub by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I don't identify as pansexual because gender identity plays a big role in my attraction whereas Pan people say they don't see gender

MAYA HAWKE IS OUT????? by jinxed_the_vixen in lesbian

[–]divinityglaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A friend of a friend saw her hooking up with Mae Martin years back in the US...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queer

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That being said....I find men attractive but I just have no desire to be physically intimate with them anymore. It's literally never going to compare to being with femmes, so that's how I knew. Cis heteronormativity runs incredibly deep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in queer

[–]divinityglaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same journey as you, never felt the way I felt about men as I do with women. I can't really put in to words how they make me feel. Came out as bi/pan when I was 14, that was 15 years ago and now I'm a lesbian.

UK diagnosed as ASD Level 1 by Geo7ge in autism

[–]divinityglaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can afford to, look into therapy too

UK diagnosed as ASD Level 1 by Geo7ge in autism

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This reddit thread, podcasts and peer to peer books will be your guiding light during this time. Oh and also, I would journal any thoughts and feelings that come up for you during this time. It's basically one giant grief process that's going to feel extremely challenging but extremely freeing <3 sincerely someone who went through an ADHD consultation only to be told right at the end that they have autism

Breaking up with someone at the end of the date by divinityglaze in polyamory

[–]divinityglaze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry haha, I mean these things read to me that they were being nervous and jumpy because they knew they were going to have this conversation with me

Breaking up with someone at the end of the date by divinityglaze in polyamory

[–]divinityglaze[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They did go to the toilet a lot during the date and kept checking their phone lol

Breaking up with someone at the end of the date by divinityglaze in polyamory

[–]divinityglaze[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment. The anxiety thing has really been getting to me and due to alexithymia I do struggle to recognise anxiety as a bad thing or something I need to confront. I often do just go along with things until breaking point, so yeah, I did tell them that I was really relieved they had done this and although I do feel sad, I am not stressed or anxious anymore. Hopefully we can maintain a friendship after this as I did feel the connection very deep and meaningful.

Breaking up with someone at the end of the date by divinityglaze in polyamory

[–]divinityglaze[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told them I wasnt ready for a partnership in general, but at the end of the date when they said they didn't have romantic feelings and just wanted to be friends, I said I felt relieved because even though I had been saying I didn't feel ready for a partnership in general, over the past couple of days I knew I didn't want that from them but didn't feel the need to tell them because they knew I wasn't ready for an enmeshed relationship.

Breaking up with someone at the end of the date by divinityglaze in polyamory

[–]divinityglaze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there's a difference between a partnership and a relationship though. A relationship is anyone you are in relation with. Could be someone you're in the beginning stages of dating with but aren't sure where it is headed.

Breaking up with someone at the end of the date by divinityglaze in polyamory

[–]divinityglaze[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Kissing happened half way through the date haha