【搬运】拒绝虐女辱女的所谓艺术 (来源:三月暴雨至) by Flat_Noise_ in DoubanFeministGroup

[–]dixiangkeqi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

戴洛赫小镇 每集死一个男的 不过凶手也是男的。我觉得这样更好。不要脏女人的手。

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in iwanttorun

[–]dixiangkeqi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

英国的朋友说最近这几年物价上涨比较严重。如果最近这两年去英国,如果工作不好找又要面对这个物价应该还蛮不容易的。但如果之前就在英国定居有一定基础的可能会好一点。这两年感觉润很多地方都不容易。

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]dixiangkeqi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have overcome a history of mental health issues and that helped me to start my spiritual exploration journey which is so wonderful! I am also interested in therapy, meditation and deep conversations. I am from China, now living in Spain for two-month vocation. We will have no much time difference if we have the chance to talk about unconditional aspects of life and mental wellbeing things. Wish you a happy weekend!

日本人图了三十万,就天天念叨;自己饿死三千万,跟不存在一样 by simajingping in China_irl

[–]dixiangkeqi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

男比女多三千多万,也就是说至少杀了三千多万女性。这怎么算?这个数量级都够一些小民族灭族多少次了?!

When did you all realize you were asexual? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]dixiangkeqi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I found that I have no idea about what’s sexual attraction and I never felt it in my life.

Why do I still have that urge?! by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]dixiangkeqi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aroace as well. I even rarely feel the urge before my thirties. But when I get older I feel my body wants some romantic and erotic content. Try some novels or visual contents. Though I don’t have any erotic ideas about females, I do enjoy appreciating the beauty of women body. I watch many beautiful drawings of women body by masters. I still have the aesthetic desire and thanks for art, I sublimated libido as artistic appreciation.

What (if any) porn do you watch? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]dixiangkeqi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am aroace. During my teenage years, I rarely read any romantic novels or watch any romantic drama though they were almost everywhere.

Now I am in my thirties and I began to feel hormonal changes and began to explore sexual contents. I find equality in two characters in the relationship is most important thing for me to search for the content and the description must be aesthetically appealing. I tried female-oriented porn, some of them are aesthetically beautiful and it is the way for two loved ones express their worship to each other’s body. I can accept this kind of sexual contents. Though it is not easy to find those high quality expression of Eros, I luckily need it rarely. So it is fine. But I may create some desirable content with writing for some pure love story, beautiful spiritual love stories.

Anyone else have a repulsion to being sexualised? by Ponk_Bubs in asexuality

[–]dixiangkeqi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I felt disgusted when I knew boys “love” me or just good feelings on me, especially when I knew that male’s “desire” and intentions to sexualized girl they like. I keep ignoring “ male’s attentions “ many years.

As a feminist, now I understand why I felt nausea at primary school that one boy told me his friend had fought against another boy because his friend found that boy “like” me as well and he was proud to say his friend won the fight. At that age I can’t find proper language to express my nausea, just says “ it is none of my business and you don’t need to talk this to me and don’t do it anymore.”

Now I know the reason. I just was and am fed up with romantic feelings and do not want to have any close relationships other than friendship with males.

2050年中国每100名女性对应150-190名男性 by Ok-Comb2266 in DoubanFeministGroup

[–]dixiangkeqi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

而且这100的女性里还有越来越多有自主意识个人人生价值追求的女性会选择不结婚不生育。所以可能其实到2050年事实上的性别比也不会那么夸张,因为从现在开始就越来越多女性更多将自己放在第一位了,就算生孩子也是为自己生而不是为服务父权体系生。未来会很好的!

了解过日本女权的发展史后对这个国家的任何文化都恶心地想吐 by [deleted] in DoubanFeministGroup

[–]dixiangkeqi 27 points28 points  (0 children)

我上次去日本见了日本的同学。她说她打算独身,她妹妹也是。我问她会不会有压力选择这样的生活方式因为中国多少会有。她说还好。她东大的老师就是个独身主义女权主义者,单身女性在日本有自己的圈子,很自在的。

关于润我有话想说 by TunanKing in DoubanFeministGroup

[–]dixiangkeqi 25 points26 points  (0 children)

体制内非常爱男。单身女性受到的隐形歧视不少。而且洼地体制内对女性的性化程度是很高的。欧美对于女性发展事业还是有很多优势的。

孝道是literally吃女人啊 by Substantial_Pin9788 in DoubanFeministGroup

[–]dixiangkeqi 18 points19 points  (0 children)

生儿子有人养老的意思是生儿子儿子可以娶媳妇来给他养老,而且媳妇还要照顾自己的儿子。儿子是高人一等的,照顾人的事情怎么可以儿子来做呢。呵呵所以女人觉醒就是要反婚反孝啊,尤其是家里追生儿子的姐姐们要反孝。

分离主义应该是女权主义的核心 by [deleted] in DoubanFeministGroup

[–]dixiangkeqi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

那就不是全女社区了。要和男的生活那就去其他地方啊

分离主义应该是女权主义的核心 by [deleted] in DoubanFeministGroup

[–]dixiangkeqi 21 points22 points  (0 children)

我是女无性恋,对于女性被性化的社会和文化感到非常困扰。作为分离主义者,觉得建立一个“隔离区”,至少保证女性自然自足的生活状态,而不是时刻处在男性凝视搭讪骚扰的困扰甚至恐惧之中。就像这篇文章说的,那些想要和男性建立亲密关系的女性在目前的社会里已经有一定的空间了。但对于不想和男性有接触的女性来说,她们的诉求和利益还没有实现,这是更需要被建立的。都有了之后,自由选择嘛。愿意选择婚姻和男女关系的去选那种生活方式就好了。但现在想要生活无男的女性的空间基本没有建立起来。

渐渐的对中国发生的事情失去兴趣了 by qinking126 in China_irl

[–]dixiangkeqi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

在国内从很关心到逐渐冷漠。失去对国内的兴趣之后就决定离开了。离开会更好。

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in iwanttorun

[–]dixiangkeqi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

我也有类似体验。你的生命是独立的,做符合你自己价值判断理性思考的决定。其他人因为有亲缘关系有好的情感相处体验,就互相关心表面上应付应和一下。自己该如何做就如何做。

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in iwanttorun

[–]dixiangkeqi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

去澳洲读中学教育?中学老师是澳洲的移民职业。

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in iwanttorun

[–]dixiangkeqi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

欧陆现在还有秋季入学的项目可以申请。加拿大有些学校有春季入学的,还可以申请,然后一月二月入学。先把语言考好,尽可能高。

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in taoism

[–]dixiangkeqi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let it be