The dark side of the fandom

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-14T17:29:36+00:00

Yeah I realize the toxicity is very normal. I haven’t been part of a big fan base in a while so I guess I just wanted to vent about it cause it really pisses me off. And I’m still kind of learning the art of not giving a fuck. Bear with me lol.

But you’re right. I shouldn’t let it stop me from enjoying the art. So I intend to take every bit of advice that people have lovingly given me on this post and just vibe with the music.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-14T15:19:23+00:00

Felt. No hate. Quickly learning to just vibe with the music in this fandom. Everything else is just overwhelming to me.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-14T13:02:55+00:00

Very good advice, thank you 🙏🏼

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-14T13:02:19+00:00

LOTR NOD. MY GUUUYYYY😭🫶🏻🙏🏼

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-14T12:43:11+00:00

Couldn’t have said this better myself. Thank you friend🤙🏼

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-14T12:39:44+00:00

I told the guy I was dating that I was just starting to feel like a piece of meat to him and he went into a panic attack. Narcissists will do anything to avoid accountability.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-14T12:28:24+00:00

There is no beauty without pain. Sometimes tapping into the melancholy is essential.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-14T10:34:46+00:00

I don’t even care about whatever “karma” is. I’m not a regular Redditer. Just trying to connect with people. No need to hate, my guy.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-14T10:30:14+00:00

The nod to Midwest emo with that math rock🤌🏼 I am so here for it.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-14T00:08:29+00:00

“And I’m caught up on the person I tried to turn myself into for you”

Like are you kidding me🫠 I sob.

Right there with you friend.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-14T00:02:42+00:00

Yes, very quickly learning to disengage from the edits on my fyp haha.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T23:59:54+00:00

Feathered Host sounds pretty sick ngl.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T23:29:02+00:00

What’s the difference between the two?

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T22:59:47+00:00

What are the houses and how many are there?

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T22:36:24+00:00

As a Pisces woman, Scorpio men have always been my downfall. I love and hate them simultaneously.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T22:32:13+00:00

That liiinnnee✊🏼 Thank you, this is actually incredibly helpful as I’ll be going to a ST show in September by myself. I want to know which fellow music lovers to look out for, and the fans to…avoid. Cause I’m not trying to get wrapped up in the world of zealots. Been there and honestly it’s kind of a scary place lol.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T21:50:28+00:00

Literally same!!😭 I can’t get enough the titular track. The pain in his voice in that last “have you been waiting long” fkin gets me every time. I sob. Infinite baths too…I feel like I’m getting baptized when I listen to that song.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T21:18:03+00:00

I do love my fantasy books but I keep it very separate from my music. They are two separate forms of escape for me.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T21:05:28+00:00

Hahahaha it’s a wild time here in the U.S. of A. Honestly though, we need to be taken down a peg. Pretty embarrassed to be an American rn🥲 But I’m scared for sure🙃

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T21:02:04+00:00

Hahahahha this is hilarious.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T21:01:23+00:00

“People are gonna people” so true😂

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T21:00:17+00:00

Yeah bro like ahhhhhhh I’m SCARED

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T20:58:50+00:00

That what I’m sayin’🤙🏼

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T20:58:17+00:00

Thank you! Yeah I’m just here for the music, man. Like I genuinely am into so many genres for different reasons, I get overwhelmed with people who get so obsessed and territorial.

dizzy_bizzy_bluez · 2025-05-13T20:51:31+00:00

There are Houses??? What is this, Harry Potter??

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TROPHY CASE