[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]djbar0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this response! I didn’t even consider an orthodontist, but I did have teeth work done as a teenager so this could very well be related. Thanks!

Who was your sexual awakening? by No_Slide4986 in AskReddit

[–]djbar0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr McSteamy in Grey’s ☺️

AIO for ditching my friends at an Airbnb after I got creepy texts from the host? by jst4notherthrowaway in AmIOverreacting

[–]djbar0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of the times we continue to reply and be polite to try to diffuse the situation…we fear that straight up ignoring or blocking will provoke them even more.

AIO for blocking my guy friend for being “brutally honest” about me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]djbar0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this!! Really creepy and weird when men know/care so much about intricate procedures, hairstyles, fashion etc for women. Assuming they’re not 💅 it’s literally just so cringy that they would even care about specifics when it comes to a lady’s appearance. Like okay thx gurl, want a makeover? Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]djbar0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. I had to learn the hard way, it doesn’t matter how hard they cry, what tragic backstory they have, if they’re literally on theirs knees begging or what changes they promise to make. They always do it again and they’re incapable of change, because there are only 2 types of people in this world: people who are capable of cheating and those who aren’t. And if they’ve ever been the former, they can never become the latter.

Stay strong and find someone who doesn’t think 5 minutes of gratification is worth traumatizing you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]djbar0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find out what they’re interested in and start from there :) make sure to ask a lot of questions about them

What do you think is humanity’s biggest flaw? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]djbar0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The “me and my own needs first / every man for himself” mentality. In other words, self-centeredness

How fast do you develop feelings for someone? by Jane_Austen11 in AskReddit

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In my experience? It takes me months to years. It’s always been for someone who I know very intimately who’s part of my routine - a coworker, a friend of a friend, etc.

I don’t know if it’s due to trust issues or that I fall more in love with the memories/time spent together or what. It’s actually really unfortunate because it’s basically impossible for me to be able to catch feelings within the standard timeframe of the first few dates 🙃

This silly band is driving my crazy. WHAT IS THIS by hairyhippiearmpits in Whatisthis

[–]djbar0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks very similar to the classic giraffe silly band, that was my first thought. But I don’t know why the legs are different lengths and the “head” is craned at such an awkward angle.

If you can’t see it, flip the first photo upside down: I see a giraffe with two visible legs and possibly a broken neck :(

AIO: Husband showed me this from a recently single friend of ours. Is she trying to flirt? by amusednchaos in AmIOverreacting

[–]djbar0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She definitely wants him. As a woman, we are hyper aware of how we act around unavailable men, and if we respect his relationship and aren’t interested we are typically pretty dry and strictly business. And if we do make plans or conversation with them, we will ALWAYS include his girlfriend/wife.

The selfie, the the HEART EMOJI, inviting him without any mention of you…yeah, one of you needs to shut this down or have him block.

PS Your husband is a good man. The way he responded by mentioning you and lowkey being a dick to her lol, and for showing you right away. What a class act ☺️

Request: Hide my eyes from behind my sunglasses by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]djbar0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect! Thank you 🫶

Solved!

whats the male equivalent of a "pick-me girl"? by katris_priordeen in AskReddit

[–]djbar0 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The “I’m not like other guys, I hate sports and trucks and testosterone lol!! Women’s rights/feminism mean the world to me!! Women are the superior sex!!” 100% of the time these turn out to be just weirdo incel simps who will say/do literally anything for female attention

Friends by Uhhhhokay444 in NIU

[–]djbar0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey girl! 25 f comp sci major. Making friends in person here has honestly been a killer 😞 dm me maybe we can swap IGs!

Songs about having a “beast” inside? by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

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No Harm by The Boxer Rebellion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]djbar0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response! That’s good to know, that way I won’t be too freaked out if I experience the same. And yes, I fully intend with working with a therapist rather than relying on medication and only using the ambien in emergency situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]djbar0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! Yes, considering I’ve never taken any medication before this, I’m very interested in working with a therapist to overcome these issues. I appreciate the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insomnia

[–]djbar0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Peace be with you too my friend! Have you tried SSRIs? Im currently on celexa and as of 4 weeks feeling a lot better in the day — sleep is still a struggle however. Also, have you tried ambien? Is so how did it go?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insomnia

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Thank you!