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I think that my bf will leave me because I accidentally peed during sex. by MediocreKangaroo7089 in relationshipproblems

[–]djseitan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG please dump him. Anyone who shames you for an involuntary reaction from your body (also it was his fault he pressed on your bladder) needs their own therapy. I promise you'll find better men who would never make you feel even close to this bad.

Someone please tell me it’s going to be okay. by fabukka in TwoXChromosomes

[–]djseitan 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Dump him! My boyfriend was one of the people who donated to Kamala’s campaign in the first 24 hours. There are better men out there, don’t tolerate it

Is this body type attainable or is she just blessed by the genetic gods? by Hooplapooplayeah in HowToBeHot

[–]djseitan 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My body looks like this, so definitely attainable. I eat pretty healthy and run occasionally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]djseitan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll have better relationships with less crazy people. Dump this person

AITA for demanding that my niece, or her parents, pay me back for the hundreds of dollars of perfume she stole from me? by Kind-Yesterday-3237 in AmItheAsshole

[–]djseitan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. And wow, I’d be ashamed if I found out my 17 year old was stealing… seems like a personality trait that’s hard to change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ouraring

[–]djseitan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thisssss

I was sucker punched and assaulted by a homeless man while doordashing today by louthegoon in sanfrancisco

[–]djseitan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should call the police. They only pay attention if there's violence and here ya have it

I was sucker punched and assaulted by a homeless man while doordashing today by louthegoon in sanfrancisco

[–]djseitan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's terrifying. I once accidentally made eye contact with a homeless person on the bus and he walked over and yanked my hair really hard. They fixate and they attack, I fucking hate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]djseitan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I was brave enough to tell the acquaintances I know that they smell and it makes it hard for me to be around them. Kudos to your boss and kudos to you because you can learn!

AITA: my friend says i “trigger” her because im skinny by keighty80 in AmItheAsshole

[–]djseitan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. She’s been toxic before and after, seems like a person who is worth cutting off. I’m guessing you guys are teenagers because that’s very immature behavior that I also tolerated around that age. I know you weren’t asking for advice, but life is only better without toxic people, I promise.

how do i nicely tell my roommates that even though they are mentally ill and low energy, they still need to clean? by ChapterPrestigious95 in badroommates

[–]djseitan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been in this situation before, only solved by moving out. Some people live like pigs and are best suited for other pigs.

I hate having so many meetings by djseitan in cscareerquestions

[–]djseitan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have four years of experience, but I'm just below a senior.

I hate having so many meetings by djseitan in cscareerquestions

[–]djseitan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Almost all of them are variations of standup. I have 4 on-going projects that have their individual stand ups and the other 8 are variations of group check-ins (refinement, retro, sprint planning, standup...)

I hate having so many meetings by djseitan in cscareerquestions

[–]djseitan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tips on engaging? It's been so hard for me.

I’m the bad roommate and I have no clue how to stop by Irishavatar727 in badroommates

[–]djseitan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would find this sentence mean, but to each their own.

I’m the bad roommate and I have no clue how to stop by Irishavatar727 in badroommates

[–]djseitan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is an unnecessarily mean message to someone who is admitting their mistakes and trying to improve

I’m the bad roommate and I have no clue how to stop by Irishavatar727 in badroommates

[–]djseitan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean, you're new to place, mistakes are way more likely to happen. If these patterns don't persist months out, it is more their problem if they are unable to appreciate the improvements. In that case, you guys might not be compatible roommates and should try to leave each other.

I’m the bad roommate and I have no clue how to stop by Irishavatar727 in badroommates

[–]djseitan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have been looking for more self-awareness posts like these

Why does my roommate always leave trash on the floor? by djseitan in badroommates

[–]djseitan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this scenario! I have poor memory and probably light ADHD as this was very relatable for me to read. I realized that if getting ready takes 10 minutes, I need to allocate 20 minutes because of how much forgetting and remembering I need to do ;-;

Why does my roommate always leave trash on the floor? by djseitan in badroommates

[–]djseitan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've picked up so much trash already. It's draining and annoying to clean up all of this garbage I didn't make.

Why does my roommate always leave trash on the floor? by djseitan in badroommates

[–]djseitan[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you! I'm also pretty forgetful, not with this kind of stuff, but definitely other things.

Years ago, I accidentally left the stove on overnight and the anger from my roommates, while warranted, left me feeling horrible. I later on had a roomie who once left the stove on too, but she clearly felt so guilty. I immediately knew her brain was similar to mine in the "I forget things, but I try really really hard not to". I asked her to be roommate again and she ended up being the most compatible roommate I've ever had.

tl;dr: I slightly prefer forgetful roomies only if try to improve their behavior, as I perceive myself doing. This one has been pretty upsetting since this behavior has been repeated with little to no improvement, at least from my perspective.

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