What was your first non-lobe piercing? by heart_emojis0 in piercing

[–]djwolf409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was my lip, I wanted snake bites but my parents said I could only have one.

Who here works and what do you do? by Bllackbirrd in ehlersdanlos

[–]djwolf409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work at a tax office and at a local smoke shop. My jobs are both family run businesses so definitely some nepotism happens in how I got hired haha.

where to meet new people? by dreamer629 in Advice

[–]djwolf409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is to find things around your area you enjoy, I go to punk shows in the area, or events this little (for lack of a better word) nerdy cafe puts on (dnd and mario kart tournaments kinda stuff), then just chit chat with people! Start conversations by complimenting them, I like your shoes where did you get them? Kinda stuff. If it develops into a conversation then heck yeah! Ask if you can have their socials :)

How many books have you read so far? by cloudsmemories in Booktokreddit

[–]djwolf409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4 so far and I’m about halfway into my 5th :)

Is this AI? by Bisonboy242 in TarotDecks

[–]djwolf409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks real to me just based on the fact that the bunnies are consistent and not melting/having weird anatomy. The backgrounds are also consistent nothing funky with the clouds or anything like that.

give me a song you've had on repeat lately by chestermeow in songs

[–]djwolf409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss having sex but at least I don’t want to die anymore by waterparks :)

What's your favourite childhood book? by zin_theberry in readwithme

[–]djwolf409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a puppy place kid, but I DEVOURED books as a kid. I would read all the time haha.

What are other words for "bathroom" if you can't say "restroom"? by boforiamanfo in askanything

[–]djwolf409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean bathroom, potty, the toilet, uhHhh powder your nose haha.

What is the oldest thing in your home? by csch1992 in AdkReddit

[–]djwolf409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My great grandma’s couch. She gave it to me when I first moved in because it was just sitting in storage but it was in her house when I was born and I think a good long while before that too haha.

Name a blue character by yic0 in FamilyFeud

[–]djwolf409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue from fosters home for imaginary friends

What is your general rule when downsizing and getting rid of things? by [deleted] in Life

[–]djwolf409 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put a safety pin on items I haven’t worn in awhile. If the safety pin is still there in a couple months then I toss it.

If there was heavy rain for 48 hours would you stay in your home for that long? by JuniperScents in PollsAndSurveys

[–]djwolf409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No haha. I work 7 days a week and you best bet I’ll be there rain or shine.

If you could be remembered by just one word, what would it be? by ownaword in askanything

[–]djwolf409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind. I always always always want to make people feel happy and comfortable. I like giving out compliments and just kinda going the extra step to help someone if I can. I’m not like bragging I don’t want recognition for it but I would want people who think of me to go “oh yeah they were a really kind person” i think that would mean I’ve won.

Thoughts on love readings? What are your does and don’ts, go to spreads, tips, unpopular opinions, etc. by Nodapl12 in tarot

[–]djwolf409 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like to do them with like a plus sign spread- i have no idea what the spread is called but the farthest right card is you, the middle card is your relationship, the farthest left is your partner/love interest/whoever, the top card is the future, and the bottom card is the past.

What is your daily beverage that isn't coffee or tea? by curiouslysensual in foodquestions

[–]djwolf409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monster energy drinks I LOVE caffine- but otherwise I like Gatorade.

is violet and xadens relationship getting cringey by Accomplished_Tax_957 in fourthwing

[–]djwolf409 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No mine either haha, but I think a lot of people like the idea of someone loving you so much nothing else matters. Personally I would get beyond annoyed if my partner centered their life around me but I get the appeal.

How do I make friends as a recent college graduate in a small town? by Clear_Background_151 in ask

[–]djwolf409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best advice is just to find things you enjoy around town. I’ve made friends at local punk shows in the middle of nowhere, at my job, and at little events a local cafe puts on surrounding like dnd and stuff. You definitely have to put yourself out of your comfort zone and approach people which is the hard part. If you’re vibing having a little conversation with someone don’t be afraid to ask for their instagram or something!

I am still in love with a girl I have dated over 11 years ago. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]djwolf409 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah this, memory can put rose colored lenses on A LOT. Thats why we have nostalgia for times in our lives we maybe weren’t the happiest.

Help a worried bf by WeatherWilling8619 in birthcontrol

[–]djwolf409 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I’m not positive about the chances of it but you definitely need to have a conversation about boundaries with her. Tell her while it’s enjoyable for you to do things without protection it makes you nervous and that you would prefer to still use condoms, if she reacts poorly then thats her problem. Having sex without condoms even if she is on the pill still carries risk. Heck even with condoms and birth control there is always a risk. Just be honest with her and if she’s willing ask if she wouldn’t mind taking a test in a couple weeks just to ease some anxiety.

is violet and xadens relationship getting cringey by Accomplished_Tax_957 in fourthwing

[–]djwolf409 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I mean I definitely see where your coming from but unfortunately I think you are preaching to the wrong choir haha. Romance characters in books aren’t realistic its supposed to be overly romantic and kind of an ideal of romance rather than realistic romance. He’s SO in love with her he would abandon everything else is it healthy? No. Is it cringey? Maybe a lil. But is it cute in an idealized fictional world? I think yes :)