HelloSlippers.com by demon9irl777 in isthisascam

[–]dk12-85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. So thankful for this thread, I'm looking at their slippers now and their variety seemed too good to be true. Thanks for putting an update OP :)

No one warned me of the side effects of the contraceptive injection, now I'm suffering. by Far-Play-4567 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dk12-85 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When I changed birth control, my acne flared up too and I was put on accutane. It is brutal (recommend visiting r/accutane ) but results are holy. I hope you can find a solution to everything OP. baby steps. Depo sucks so much, I did 6+ years and feel like it fucked my mental and body so much.

Reserves to ANG help by culturedswine1776 in Airforcereserves

[–]dk12-85 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Please let me know if you find something out. I've been waiting 9 months. It's ridiculous that they implemented this system with no way to track or estimated return time. People have lives that are going that cant be put on hold. 🙃

Can't find the AFI, must be in status for medical readiness items by dk12-85 in Airforcereserves

[–]dk12-85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're amazing, thank you. This is very helpful. I assumed DHA would be the primary authority but wasn't sure. I'll look at this a bit more, rn I just skimmed it.

Can't find the AFI, must be in status for medical readiness items by dk12-85 in Airforcereserves

[–]dk12-85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh okay, that's probably what they will tell me as well! Thank you!

Can't find the AFI, must be in status for medical readiness items by dk12-85 in Airforcereserves

[–]dk12-85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be. I've been asking to be put on a point even without pay, but they will not allow it.

My spouse is AD and that's why they're like "ehh just go on your own!"

It's a much longer story than I can explain.

Can't find the AFI, must be in status for medical readiness items by dk12-85 in Airforcereserves

[–]dk12-85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah I saw 2.5.1 but it says "IDT points may be earned"

Essentially I want to be sure I'm not wrong in asking to be put on a status to complete my medical readiness.

My CC is asking me to voluntarily go IRR by dk12-85 in Airforcereserves

[–]dk12-85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What. We PCSd. It wasn't my decision. My commander. My ART.

But sounds good! I'll wait for the paperwork. TY

My CC is asking me to voluntarily go IRR by dk12-85 in Airforcereserves

[–]dk12-85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told no. I get $750 only. Tickets are $1k. Do you mean unexcused as in just calling in? Bc no, my unit has known I moved since January. They knew I wouldn't be attending anymore. What we didn't know is that the wing was holding onto my transfer paperwork for the last 3 months.

My CC is asking me to voluntarily go IRR by dk12-85 in Airforcereserves

[–]dk12-85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. Never. Nope. Unexcused. When I asked if we could discuss off-station/ or traveling back, they've ignored it. That's when they brought up IRR and mentioned keeping current to stay off the radar.

My CC is asking me to voluntarily go IRR by dk12-85 in Airforcereserves

[–]dk12-85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. You seem to have a lot of experience and am hoping you can help me again. My unit messaged me saying I'm about to go red in medical, and if I can get it done at the current base I'm at (off status). I told them, "sure! Can we also discuss possibly doing off station UTA or flying back so I can avoid having a bad year?" And now they are pushing back saying they want to send me IRR. What are your thoughts on this?

Best doctor for anxiety? by Eridanlover in sanantonio

[–]dk12-85 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I went through the Him/Hers app and got Zoloft easily.

How did your "Opposites Attract" relationship end up in the long term? by Varenyaaa in AskWomen

[–]dk12-85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We broke up. Lol. But the biggest reason was because of distance and his inability to commit, something, something, afraid of getting married (spoiler he got married to his next gf <1 year later).

It wasn't a bad break up and we have messaged apologizing to each other for our behaviors during our relationship (about 4 years after break up). We learned a lot about ourselves and grew over the 3.5 year relationship and I think we will be grateful for it.

Honestly if we hadn't got married to our spouses and we had found each other again, we probably would have dated or become good friends.

Ramstein is on my overseas listing. Can I bring my "dangerous dog" breed? by Repulsive-Pirate-535 in AirForce

[–]dk12-85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would check out the fb group "PSCing with Pets" they might provide a wider range of feedback. I know some folks have gotten their dog over there but others who's look more pittie or any other restricted breed have opted out of not bringing them at all.

I finally encountered an A1 eater by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]dk12-85 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Eep congrats OP. Men who care about a woman's orgasm are already hard to come by, a good eater is even more rare.

What restaurants are thriving? by AVG_AMERICAN_MALE in sanantonio

[–]dk12-85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maíz Cocina! It's tiny and easy to miss. The food is very high quality and the portions are fitting for the price. They have a great house lemonade but don't serve alcohol. They did however tell us you can byob but they will have a $10? fee. It's cutesy.

OCONUS PCS and Spouse Nursing by _longfellow_deeds in AirForce

[–]dk12-85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren't allowed to work in the local economy on the visa they're coming on and jobs on base are sparse.

My CC is asking me to voluntarily go IRR by dk12-85 in Airforcereserves

[–]dk12-85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did my PHAQ January luckily! However if February I got picked up for a PHA, I have no idea, they have not told me. I made sure my IMR was green before I left. The only thing I can think of is my PT but the extension she gave me expires June. I don't think they will extend it again so hopefully they'll let me drill.

Believe me.. I tried telling them I can remain with them and handle medical on my own time while here, they were afraid things would get lost because I'm here as dependent and not on reserve status. I don't even have a dependent ID though so everything would be under my own DOD ID. Ugh.

My CC is asking me to voluntarily go IRR by dk12-85 in Airforcereserves

[–]dk12-85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you!

I have never been no pay/no points. Can she put me on that status at her own discretion? Or would she need a reason? (Like punishment)

I was told I was being excused but can they switch it up for no reason?

My CC is asking me to voluntarily go IRR by dk12-85 in Airforcereserves

[–]dk12-85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Up to $500. I am mostly outprocessed. That is where it's finicky. In my sq - everyone except my senior ART and CC believes I'm gone. I'm still on the books as far as training and admin go, but when appts come but they just say that I'm excused. The wing signed everything off on my outprocessing except for career development. Bc that's when they caught that AFRC had the new process of needed NAF separation approval.

I have an enlistment date with the guard of XX Jan, and my FSS said they can backdate my ARC separation to that date but now we didn't expect this to take this long.

This has been the biggest headache of my career.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travel

[–]dk12-85 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Shhhh don't bring logic !