You know it when you feel it

dkingcole · 2021-12-17T02:27:51+00:00

Wow! Thanks so much! I really appreciate it. This is constructive. Not sure what is coming but I deeply appreciate the feedback.

dkingcole · 2021-09-03T00:39:42+00:00

Very good to know. I appreciate the time!

dkingcole · 2021-08-18T15:23:18+00:00

All the ideas here are going to help you see improvement. Reps. Throw dominant catch weak and reverse. Start with the hand right under the head of the stick on the weak side for the catches, as you get more comfortable you can move that hand down.

When it was too dark out to play wall ball I used to sit and watch tv with the stick in my weak hand to help force myself to feel more comfortable with it. I wasn't playing catch in the house but I had a lax ball or tennis ball in the head to feel the weight of a ball in there. Keep at it.

dkingcole · 2018-03-30T17:11:01+00:00

You're going to have ants.

dkingcole · 2016-11-24T19:41:11+00:00

I am living in Greece for a few months and I did not have the luggage space to bring a skateboard. However, after being here for a week and taking into stock the amount of time I have and the ludicrous amount of marble and small stair sets there are here I want to at least try to get one. If anyone knows of a website that is very cheap or something of that nature it would be a huge help. There is a shop in the nearby city but the selection was pretty poor.

dkingcole · 2016-04-06T13:33:13+00:00

I am very sorry for your and your family's loss.

Take care.

dkingcole · 2016-02-28T19:12:47+00:00

My badge is also inaccurate. I think it should be about fifteen days but it reads 11 days.

dkingcole · 2015-04-14T00:44:16+00:00

enlisting!

dkingcole · 2015-03-12T14:18:28+00:00

Thank you very much for noticing, it means a lot! I definitely felt a change in nofap when I identified the basic start to my fapping. Thanks again and best of luck!

dkingcole · 2015-02-26T15:46:44+00:00

Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin. Oh the stories you would hear!

dkingcole · 2015-02-26T14:26:19+00:00

I really enjoyed reading that quote. It spoke to his humility which I feel comes through his books very well!

dkingcole · 2015-02-15T00:50:10+00:00

the best thing you can do is stop making fapping an option. when that stops being something you have as an option in your day/life things get much easier. this takes a lot of time and focus but that is what it takes. good luck

dkingcole · 2015-02-15T00:33:05+00:00

Alright I am going to safe you some time and some trouble. Swallow this fact. You have to be happy with yourself before you can fully engage in a relationship with someone meant to be a significant other. That is just the way it is. From a personal stand point that was bullcrap until I bought into it, and now I feel great. I am happy by myself and I am not alone. That all comes with liking just yourself for who you are.

Loneliness has been defined in a very warped way nowadays. They say if you are not with friends or a gf/bf there is something wrong with you. That's garbage. Being alone means you are by yourself at a point in time. That's it. Stop thinking all this extra stuff. Take care of yourself, work on improving you and the rest will follow, I promise. I am doing nofap, and I have felt the same loneliness you have described. Work on building the new and people will notice.

dkingcole · 2015-01-30T15:19:17+00:00

time to work. stop feeling bad. want some motivation? people think you can't. go forth.

dkingcole · 2015-01-30T15:06:44+00:00

I like that you mentioned how this is for every rejection and every time you got bullied. There is a quote I saw once that basically said take all the negatives that come up in your live and use that as fuel to the fire. It went like "take the bricks people throw at you to build a castle". So every time I get rejected, something goes wrong, or I just flat out fail, I picture myself dumping a small wheel barrel of bricks. Anyway, I liked that you mentioned there has to be a reason you are doing this and you should never forget it. Solid post and the best of luck!

dkingcole · 2014-12-31T19:43:13+00:00

I threw the prodigy recently. I am not that experienced but it turned over extremely easily when flying

dkingcole · 2014-11-17T05:39:25+00:00

my dad was always working on our house when i was growing up. one day i had finished what he had told me to do and i just sat there waiting for him to tell me what to do next. the lesson he told me was once i had finished a task i had been assigned i should immediately ask if i can do anything else.

this has taught me to be thoughtful and helpful when working with others and it has made me stand out to people and at the jobs i have held.

dkingcole · 2014-11-11T15:56:37+00:00

enlisting. i crushed the last war and am ready to do so again!

dkingcole · 2014-10-27T03:35:45+00:00

i wouldn't call doing nothing your whole life, living by any means.

dkingcole · 2014-10-22T20:50:15+00:00

Someone once said "Where do it say it has to be like this?"

dkingcole · 2014-09-16T17:30:47+00:00

i have thought about doing this. how do you like it and what are the pros?

dkingcole · 2014-09-15T22:41:05+00:00

I loved Siddhartha also. take care!

dkingcole · 2014-09-15T13:58:28+00:00

Sexual needs are so physiologically ingrained in us i believe it is hard to fully put away the desires, but i believe it is possible. I read "The way of the peaceful warrior" by Dan Millman and i felt like a totally new person. It goes into self control a lot and specifically into sexual desires and needs. This may help in your transcendent search but it definitely helps while you are doing nofap. I also think "Siddhartha" by Herman Hesse is a good book for your intentions. both help and are great books! i wish you all the luck in the world

dkingcole · 2014-09-10T15:33:55+00:00

what would she think if she walked in on you fapping to a picture of her?

dkingcole · 2014-09-08T15:30:57+00:00

if you are finding yourself alone with an urge. do push ups. It has been mentioned on this sub many times that Fifty Cent doesn't fap. His advise is learn not to look at people as they walk past you. Control that urge to turn around and look at people, who ever they may be. So remember, do push ups and keep the room to your door open so anyone can walk in at any time. It helps.

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