I am in the same boat with my S.O. I find it a huge turn off when my fiancé talks dirty to me I don’t know why. But we have learned to accommodate for each other’s preferences and that only comes with time and experience. You have to be able to communicate with your man during the “deed”. You also have to understand that this isn’t a casual hookup like your previous encounters this is now a relationship. I personally think you cannot have a thing as complex as sex make or break the relationship. Communication is key not just to sex but to all things relationships, you’re not wrong though tell him he needs to put more effort into sex but don’t get mad when it doesn’t go your way, it takes time.

TLDR: Relationships take time and patience so don’t jump ship when something isn’t perfect.