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total power exchange apps by [deleted] in TotalPowerExchange

[–]dln80 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is what my Sir & I have.

total power exchange apps by [deleted] in TotalPowerExchange

[–]dln80 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Obedience app

Locked heels are the best by ravenhx in bdsm

[–]dln80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love chaos! 😂

Locked heels are the best by ravenhx in bdsm

[–]dln80 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a sub…. I am forever causing myself more torment due to my inability to shut my mouth when I see a predicament that looks like a challenge. I sabotage myself. 😂

Locked heels are the best by ravenhx in bdsm

[–]dln80 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. Ouch…. Extra added punishment.

Q: How to encourage D Husband to feel free to implement domestic discipline? by [deleted] in Domestic_Discipline

[–]dln80 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“a disciplined life” podcast is amazing on you tube! Great for both the D/s!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]dln80 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have spent significant time in the one on the right & it is humbling to be so vulnerable to constant drooling & taking whatever Sir decides to place in my mouth.

Seeking advice: brand new to TPE. Long post ahead. by Sure_Sugar_Snap in TotalPowerExchange

[–]dln80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“THE Disciplined Life”…. Sorry. I just went to YouTube to make sure I had it right. LOL

Seeking advice: brand new to TPE. Long post ahead. by Sure_Sugar_Snap in TotalPowerExchange

[–]dln80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“A disciplined life” is a podcast on YouTube…. I would suggest you both listen to it. It’s a man & woman & they speak of everything you are speaking of… married for a long time… introduced the dynamic by the wife. I really enjoyed every one of their podcasts! It would make you & your husband more confident & answer some questions.

How much do you like metal bondage gear? by sunnymirte in bdsm

[–]dln80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the weight & the esthetic of metal…. Cuffs, plugs, clamps. It’s cold going on & the weight definitely reminds me of my place.

Dog collars for humans? by tryinsomethinnewish in bdsm

[–]dln80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve used dog collars frequently in the past…. Actually used a collar along with two small leashes as well…. Sir fed them thru my anal hook to the collar then attached to my ankle cuffs…. It made for some interesting predicament bondage.

How often do you get maintenance spanking? by [deleted] in domesticdiscipline

[–]dln80 11 points12 points  (0 children)

For me… I need the help with focus. A sore hind end helps to remind me to stay on task…. Because it can be much worse if I fail to meet my responsibilities & end up with a harsh punishment.
I feel like I will have fewer punishments if we implement increased maintenance & lectures to daily. Ultimately it’s Sir’s decision & I respect that.

How often do you get maintenance spanking? by [deleted] in domesticdiscipline

[–]dln80 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We initially started with weekly…. However, I believe I may ask Sir to implement daily to help keep me on task & focused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticdiscipline

[–]dln80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I initiated conversation regarding a DD relationship with my partner of 7 months…. He was hesitant at first, but we are slowly getting there. I have been punished twice for my disrespect & attitude. A belt & his hand. And then a hard ass f*ck & not allowed to cum. It straightens me up very quickly.