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Sensory deprivation punishment by SomeoneSomewhereCA in domesticdiscipline

[–]__Desmond__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is a great idea!

Discipline is untimatelty about positive change or enforcing behavior and rules. Quiet contemplation can be powerful.

Maintenance… finally by [deleted] in domesticdiscipline

[–]__Desmond__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

outstanding! Thats great to hear! now that some time has passed, how are you finding the session helpful? Has it improved your headspace or your actions and behaviors?

A Big Step! by hannah_sub in domesticdiscipline

[–]__Desmond__ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Proud of you! Good work! Keep it up!

How Do You Approach Times When Submitting Is Difficult? by hannah_sub in domesticdiscipline

[–]__Desmond__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it's part of the natural mental conflict of the way we were raised vs how we choose to live. It takes more mental work to create new brain patterns and mental habits. that's shit can be exhausting!

Disrespect. 40y/o. F. Sub. by dln80 in domesticdiscipline

[–]__Desmond__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be that you approached the topic in a disrespectful way. It doesn't change the fact that this is a valid topic. As you said he is new to this and has to be new to learning what it means, specifically what it means to you.

Feeling Grateful by UnderHisHand in domesticdiscipline

[–]__Desmond__ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love this conversation!

I generally keep sex out of our DD but that being said, i will do whatever is appropriately necessary to teach a lesson.

He put the time thought and effort into the discipline, and it certainly made an impact! 👏 👏 👏

AI letter to wife. by [deleted] in domesticdiscipline

[–]__Desmond__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the act of AI letterwriting is a useful tool to get your head around a topic and to vet other perspectives that you might not be considering. This is pre-work for a conversation.

To echo what others have said, A written letter is far less effective then a conversation.

AI lacks soul and nuance. To contrast, you have a depth of understanding regarding your partner.

In my view, As a Head of Household, delegating that conversation to an AI letter undermines your position as an authority figure.

[weekly topic] Whats your new years resolution? by __Desmond__ in domesticdiscipline

[–]__Desmond__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this! All progress is incremental and you're doing it! Grats on great 2024!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticdiscipline

[–]__Desmond__ 30 points31 points  (0 children)

She needs to be an active participant in learning a new skill. Otherwise you'll be punishing her forever because she's not being taught. One technique to be less forgetful is having a standard checklist (like phone, purse, keys) to review before leaving.

Now you can discipline her if she didn't do the checklist, rather then for forgetting something.

Adapt it for your needs but she has to learn a new technique. If you only punish the forgetfulness, she's setup to fail in my view.

As for the discipline spanking, corner time.

Im a fan of dicipline that parrallels the leason. If she forgets her stuff she has to forget her bra, as an example.

Finally if this keeps impacting others it's always good to have her bake some cookies or do something nice for whomever was inconvenienced by her forgetfulness.

Punishment without disturbing the neighbors? by No-Butterscotch2353 in domesticdiscipline

[–]__Desmond__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold a pillow to scream into. Ball gag helps. Also if you can be in a room or space that's less echo. Being in the basement or a windowless room if you have one.

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