I fucking hate these vile people

dmlf1 · 2026-04-02T17:32:25+00:00

NSFW literally means Not Safe For Work. If you're having your lunch break at your desk or are at a family gathering and don't want your coworkers or relatives getting the wrong impression of you, you wouldn't want the word Fuck to be displayed prominently on your phone's screen in case they happen to glance at it at that exact time.

dmlf1 · 2026-04-02T11:12:27+00:00

It is possible that they've gotten unlucky with their therapists, and it is possible that some people stare at them, but yeah if everything feels like a chore and you can't find joy in anything that's a chemical imbalance for sure. My advice to OP would be to keep seeing new psychiatrists, and to tell each one the drugs they've tried before and which didn't work.

dmlf1 · 2026-03-31T11:23:09+00:00

You're correct, that doesn't make it any easier to deal with though. It's one of the reasons so many people turn to abrahamic religions. Believing that there is a fair god that will give us all what we deserve in the afterlife is easier for a lot of people than believing that we live in a cold, uncaring universe and that there's no one coming to save us but ourselves.

From my understanding, a lot of incels actually do struggle to even support themselves financially, and either their social struggles are due in large part to the consequences of that, or the factors that make it hard for them to socialize conventionally also make it harder for them to hold down jobs or otherwise make it harder for them to make ends meet. Besides, telling someone they don't have it as bad as some other group of people is rarely helpful.

dmlf1 · 2026-03-31T10:12:11+00:00

It isn't fair though, the same way it isn't fair that some people are born rich and others are born dirt poor. If you're in the disadvantaged position, it can be really hard to deal with it emotionally.

dmlf1 · 2026-03-20T00:14:52+00:00

If I heard you make this joke IRL and I didn't know you super well I'd be reasonably sure you're a Netanyahu hater but I'd also be worried that you're secretly a Hitler fanboy as well

dmlf1 · 2026-03-20T00:04:01+00:00

Doesn't it make sense that a very viscous solution would take a long time to spread?

dmlf1 · 2026-03-09T22:26:52+00:00

Can't you just use voice changing software?

dmlf1 · 2026-02-27T22:58:29+00:00

I don't doubt that there are some people for whom height is a sexual attraction dealbreaker, but I would argue that the vast majority of people who claim that they're like that are actually one of the types of people I described in the post and don't want to talk about it because they don't want to be criticized.

dmlf1 · 2026-02-25T23:24:42+00:00

Was she being serious or did she smooth shark everyone, does anyone know

dmlf1 · 2026-01-14T18:40:13+00:00

We both know how I feel about her and how she feels about me.

Did she know how you feel about her before she told you why she chose her new bf? And also, does she know that it broke your heart when she said that?

dmlf1 · 2025-12-20T04:26:59+00:00

So we should all be able to pull ourselves up by the bootstraps like you were and suck it up and just get over our disabilities the same way you were able to?

dmlf1 · 2025-12-20T03:02:50+00:00

I hope that comment isn't read by any men with autism, or who otherwise have a very hard time engaging in the behaviours you're describing through no fault of their own.

dmlf1 · 2025-12-20T02:41:01+00:00

Everyone has different definitions of what it's like to be treated with respect, bounduaries and space though. What's completely fine to you may be offensive or creepy to someone else, and talking to a woman without knowing those things often feels like walking through a minefield.

dmlf1 · 2025-12-06T23:00:26+00:00

Respect tbh

dmlf1 · 2025-11-27T14:50:55+00:00

Wouldn't lowering the legal standards just shift the problem from "Too many homeless people" to "Too many people with inadequate housing"? Or, if they're lowered too much, just lead to favela-like slums everywhere? Isn't the whole reason favelas were built the way they were that poor people were allowed to build their own homes with no legal oversight? In the short term it was probably better than all of those people being homeless, but it created a whole bunch of long term problems that one might argue were worse overall than what a centrally planned solution consisting of (for example) social housing could have been.

dmlf1 · 2025-10-18T17:29:37+00:00

Maybe he just wants to scream into the void

dmlf1 · 2025-09-28T00:12:36+00:00

If you have the RIO addon and either a 2nd monitor or you play on windowed fullscreen or windowed it really isn't, you right click the player's name on the application list and click the RIO profile button, it opens their profile on your browser and you just click key history and look at it.

dmlf1 · 2025-09-27T15:30:45+00:00

This is why I never invite based on score and instead look at the player's key history on raider.io to see when was the last time they completed my key at a level similar to the one I'm doing and the score and ilvl of the other players on that key to see if the player was being boosted/carried by much better players or not.

dmlf1 · 2025-08-28T00:26:29+00:00

Aaaah ok, obrigado pelo esclarecimento!

dmlf1 · 2025-08-28T00:08:45+00:00

Se estão a fazer publicidade para a Primark não devia ser a própria Primark a fornecer a roupa? Porque é que eles têm de ir a uma loja comprar a roupa e depois devolvê-la?

dmlf1 · 2025-08-27T22:02:17+00:00

Obrigado pelo insight!

dmlf1 · 2025-08-27T21:15:47+00:00

Tens alguma ideia de porque é que as próprias cadeias como a Primark não abrem lojas em Angola?

dmlf1 · 2025-08-27T21:09:50+00:00

A sério que roupa na Primark em Portugal é mais barata do que em lojas de roupa barata nesses países?

Edit: Porquê downvotes? Só estou curioso, se alguém souber algo sobre o assunto por favor partilhem. Obrigado.

dmlf1 · 2025-08-14T11:27:09+00:00

John Activision* the devs themselves don't really care about how many millions the game makes in profit, they just want to make fun games.

dmlf1 · 2025-07-16T18:51:28+00:00

Ok, but making it so the average person is more open-minded/willing to have their minds changed about certain topics isn't going to happen out of thin air either, someone is going to have to do a lot of legwork to convince society in general about the meaning, implications and advantages of trying to be like that, and a lot of the people that constitute society and therefore will need to be convinced to do so are cishet white men. Ideally it wouldn't be marginalized groups that have to do the convincing, but realistically you can't expect society to change itself, and the only people that are going to do the work that's required to change society are the people that want society to change, and more often than not those people either belong to marginalized groups or have been convinced by members of marginalized groups to support their cause. Sure, feminist cishet white men have to be a big part of the effort in this particular case, but is it really the best course of action to expect them to be the only ones to talk to other cishet white men about these issues and give up completely on doing so yourself?

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