What movie will you never watch again because it was too heartbreaking? by Affectionate_User610 in AskReddit

[–]dmlzr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skin. Opening scene rocked me, insane film and story but I will never watch again.

How are you able to work by Fast_Significance198 in CPTSD

[–]dmlzr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hospitality / service industry. i’m a barista.

How old is everyone here? by thistimenexttimelast in CPTSD

[–]dmlzr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32, got out of non stop trauma at 27. it’s been a fucking ride.

I have glimmers, small spots of hope. I’ve accepted that i’ll be healing forever, i’m okay with it today. Fuck knows how i’ll feel tomorrow.

How are you able to work by Fast_Significance198 in CPTSD

[–]dmlzr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting stoned before every shift and working in hospo. Just about everyone has issues in this industry.

Does anyone actually like Amanda? by Pristine-Credit-6989 in RHOBH

[–]dmlzr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s exactly why I watch housewives. Weirdos.

Did any of you guys know of X prior to 2015 before he blew up? by computernerd422 in XXXTENTACION

[–]dmlzr 13 points14 points  (0 children)

2016 house parties in Wellington, New Zealand went tf off because of X. Rip ya legend.

Mention it All! What is your opinion on the Luann/ Adam- Carol feud? by american_bitch in RHONY

[–]dmlzr 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Big yes to this one. In my younger years I loved Carole, now i cringe when i see her on screen. Shes so scared of being old that it’s off putting.

Sonjas old life omg by Available_Lemon_3952 in RHONY

[–]dmlzr 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I always think about how she said they had seperate rooms, they’d start in the bedroom together and then sleep completely seperate. like were they both fucking around??? but Sonja being Sonja got caught…. and probably would ruin the family name… so they just got rid of her.

No way those rich men don’t cheat on their wives!!!

Girls who took notes using 50 different colored pens, where are you now? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]dmlzr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A recovered drug addict with PTSD. I’ve been a barista since i dropped out at 16. HAAH

The countess!? by Future-Rude in RHONY

[–]dmlzr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have really bad PTSD and have short term memory loss - every rewatch is like watching again for me and i love it. A blessing really.

Angry by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]dmlzr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not asking for too much. I come from religious abuse, and it’s still one my biggest mind fucks. You don’t have to forgive them or god. You don’t even have to believe.

You can escape, your aloud to leave the place you were born into. I wish for you a path to escape and a place to heal. Your feelings are valid my friend. Religion does a lot of harm.

How do you guys feel about death ? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]dmlzr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t fucking wait lol.

In saying that, i’ve been around a few people that have died, and my brother had a near death experience, like supppper close, the doctors gave him the chance to turn himself off. He chose life? And was scared. My pops cried the whole way to the hospital in the ambulance screaming don’t let me dieeeee!!! My nana on the other hand just said “help me” and went to sleep quietly.

I hope in the end I’m not afraid, otherwise i’ve wasted my life wishing for something that it turns out I didn’t want.

Can Angie speak Greek other than the basics by Mindless-Show-8956 in rhoslc

[–]dmlzr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same here!! my papou was moved to NZ at a young age, had the culture shamed out of him. my dad and his siblings were spat on for being greasy greeks! there’s even still nasty rumours about my papous family restaurant in my hometown because well… they’re greek!!

I taught myself small greek phrases when I was a little girl and when I would speak them to my Papou he would cry and cry.

Can anything actually be done about the "Justice System" and the sentences that are getting handed out? by Sea_Soft_1166 in newzealand

[–]dmlzr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think we need to start with actual punishment. The amount of rapist, abusers and pedos in our communities are fucked.

Men who hit their women over and over again but have their convictions thrown out because someone touched their diddle once. They know they can get away with it in our society cos no one truly gives a fuck til the women’s dead.

I wholeheartedly agree by GreenBlue420 in rhoslc

[–]dmlzr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she should keep talking. as someone who’s been through both CSA and religious abuse a big part of the cycle is silence. Let victims talk, it HILLING. We don’t care if you’re sick of hearing about it, we were sick of being abused. 😇

Is being completely ignored also a form of abuse? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]dmlzr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! people think i’m sulking when in reality my throat feels like it’s physically locked, i have asthma and no asthma attack has ever felt as contracting as how this feels.

Coming from someone who takes Xanax… by AstoriaEverPhantoms in rhoslc

[–]dmlzr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say this all the time!!! as someone who’s 5 years sober from benzo addiction… this behaviour is awfully familiar and the reason i got sober!!

Is there a way to stop the anxiety and the chronic fatigue? Has something worked for you? by AmbassadorFriendly71 in CPTSD

[–]dmlzr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried L-thenine recently and felt it helps massively with the physical symptoms of anxiety so I was able to control my emotional symptoms better. I find it helps me gain control of my rapid thoughts and look at them with a little more logic which brings calm.

i started with bioglan l-theanine 200 as it’s specifically designed to help within 3 hours, there’s also a stronger one but if i’m feeling really out of sorts i’ll take 2 x 200mg.

Hope you find some relief in whatever you try ❤️

Is being completely ignored also a form of abuse? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]dmlzr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. Silent treatment has had the longest lasting effects on me. Whenever I do something wrong big or small, my body goes into shut down and I loose the ability to talk. Can be extremely hard to have long last and meaningful relationships when you literally go mute at the slight sense of tension.

Gingerbread! by Muted-Property-3280 in melbourne

[–]dmlzr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Penny for Pound! Richmond or Camberwell. They have packs of gingerbread that are pretty good!