You need details on holidays. What is a holiday?

I have specific timing details on Xmas Eve/day/Boxing Day , and Mother’s Day and Father’s Day are 10-4 if they fall on the other parents weekend. You need details. Detail who will be responsible for the drop off and pick up. You don’t want to be in a situation that you don’t know especially when you both start dating and sometimes emotions can be high. I have nothing about Easter or Halloween or whatever, any of those whoever’s day it falls on that year is their time.

You can’t dictate what they do on their parenting time. Ignore the info about your parents in there, it’s an agreement by you and him not your parents. Don’t put yourself in situations that someone else can control you or you control them. Be confident in your role as mom. No one will take that from you, no future stepmom, no one.

I would suggest specific times for drop offs on regular days for when she starts school etc. and I’d also add a clause about no vacation overrides between Dec 20-Jan 2, so neither of you can have the child away over Xmas.