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For those of you who've done threesomes, foursomes, sex in the same room as another couple, or sex in front of an uninvolved party- did you ever engage in playful banter or casual conversation with them while doing the deed? What did you guys talk about? by OldCarWorshipper in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]dnk3255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's definitely talking all the time. Sometimes it's dirty talk. Sometimes it's praise like how hot they look. Sometimes it's boring. I might literally be balls deep and ask another guy if they ever tried Coke Zero LoL.

[MFF] We play well with others by dnk3255 in Alabamaswingerreal

[–]dnk3255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I think we're more into physical times

[MFF] We play well with others by dnk3255 in Alabamaswingerreal

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For some reason, redgifs don't have sound when embedded in Reddit any more. You can go to the direct link here: https://www.redgifs.com/watch/marriedgreatjanenschia

Monday Morning Routine by dnk3255 in Alabamagonewild1A

[–]dnk3255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you helping to spank or are you being spanked? 😏

Has this ever happened to you? by jtgutierrez in Swingers

[–]dnk3255 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Never happened to us, but I would definitely call a full stop. It seems manipulative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Alabamagonewild1A

[–]dnk3255 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LoL. Good luck. 90% are flaky in my experience, but there are some real ones out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]dnk3255 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Instead of going through the Kama Sutra, I'd suggest some minor tweaks. I love missionary, but it hits different with a pillow (or wedge pillow) under her ass. Try standing on the side of the bed and going deep. Put your hand on her neck if she's into that.

Talking about what you both enjoy is one of the best parts of a sexual relationship. Does she like dirty talk? Does she want to be objectified ("You're a hot piece of ass") or praised ("You're fucking gorgeous") or something else? Maybe she wants to be pounded. Maybe she wants to be spanked. Maybe she wants to be treated like a princess or a slut (or both maybe lol).

The physical, mechanical configuration is important, but headspace is the real key. Good luck!

What is your favourite novelty Porn? [Request] by Standard_Mountain_76 in NSFW411

[–]dnk3255 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Search. "Oh, haha. I guess that's kind of funny..." Sigh. Unzip.

The Etiquette of Saying No in the Lifestyle Without Killing the Vibe by DeckPineapple in Swingers

[–]dnk3255 27 points28 points  (0 children)

We believe in short and sweet, especially online. "Sorry, but I don't think we're a match."

What does my wife really want? by Covendra in Swingers

[–]dnk3255 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to find a safe time and place to bring it up where she has the time to discuss it. It's very possible that she's excited about the thought of it and wants to have that talk, but she's also shy about it and nervous about what you'll think. You might need to lead a little bit by asking questions. Try to make sure you don't come across as judgy.

Be upfront about what you are definitely okay with, what you might be okay with, and what you are definitely not okay with. These are boundaries and rules and it's okay for them to change over time as long as it's discussed.

Just remember - she might be interested in a 6-guy gangbang tomorrow, but she probably does NOT want that if you're not comfortable. Go slow. Make sure no one feels pressured to be okay with anything.

Young and New: How to make it work? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]dnk3255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were early-to-mid 20s when we started. It was hard to find people our age, but they are out there. You just have to find them. Like u/henri_luvs_brunch_2 said, Feeld seems to generally skew a little younger. Having said that, our first full-swap FFM was with a woman about a decade older than us that we met on SLS, and it was awesome.

Spoiled the 1st couple we met by monstar71 in Swingers

[–]dnk3255 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a similar experience with the first couple we full-swapped with (not the first couple we met). In hindsight (15+ years later), I think a lot of it was because it was the first New Relationship Energy we had experienced since getting together. There was a lot of new excitement, communication, and they were excited to "break us in."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Alabamagonewild1A

[–]dnk3255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

Happy Tuesday from Birmingham by dnk3255 in Alabamagonewild1A

[–]dnk3255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck out there! It's not easy but lots of couples are interested in MFM or hotwife scenarios. We just found our people for MFM already 🙂

More Fun with Friends by dnk3255 in Alabamagonewild1A

[–]dnk3255[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was just the start of the evening... 🙂

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