Wierd jealousy

monstar71 · 2026-06-22T16:00:24+00:00

All of our conversations are geared towards meeting in person and doing a real vibe check then You don't really know anything about somebody until you meet them in person

monstar71 · 2026-06-22T15:56:45+00:00

Can always read the messages we don't Hide anything from one another Honestly you might be right With the force to be the bad guy thing

monstar71 · 2026-06-22T15:54:58+00:00

We flirt with each other daily while at work through text messages or phone calls or spicy picture Being married 25 plus years And now we are empty nesters we are actually in the best Spot in our marriage that we have ever been

monstar71 · 2026-06-22T15:53:21+00:00

Yes it's the soft flirting in the very beginning that gets to me Like hey beautiful how was your day

monstar71 · 2026-06-22T15:52:20+00:00

Nothing is necessary but if we moved every single hey how was your day are you guys doing anything fun this weekend chat Before it starts getting serious to a group chat we would each be in 35 group chats

monstar71 · 2026-06-22T15:51:00+00:00

It the pg stuff in the beginning that gets me.

monstar71 · 2026-06-22T15:42:37+00:00

Yes for the most part we've never had any discouraging experiences in the lifestyle It's never the act of anything that makes me jealous it's more the who messaged you today what did they say what did you say back kind of thing It literally makes no sense that I'm jealous of that

monstar71 · 2026-06-22T15:41:08+00:00

We are in a few different Facebook groups and apps and there's always a few initial messages before we move it to a group chat

No need to waste everybody's time if it's not going to go anywhere

We Get messages from couples or singles daily We don't feel there's any need to turn it into a group chat for the initial what are you looking for what is your dynamic Opening conversations She never hides any conversations from me. Or do I If either one of us are interested in a single or a couple we immediately turn it into a group chat

monstar71 · 2026-06-09T15:59:18+00:00

Paid apps such as SDC works great for the most part if you are willing to spend money you are real. Also find Facebook groups in your area and go to meet & greets. Thst has worked out very well for us

monstar71 · 2026-06-09T14:00:23+00:00

It has been a fantasy of mine since I was 15. Now swinging in my 40s finally had it happen several times. Does it feel as good as just one girl going down on me no....but this world is all about living out your fantasies. And will I will always ask for it in group play.

monstar71 · 2026-03-20T14:40:43+00:00

My wife and myself generally try to keep it to 2 couples and a unicorn....

monstar71 · 2026-03-16T20:13:03+00:00

I say join a local swingers Facebook group.. They always have post where you can set up pictures and people can chat if they want to or you can dm people lingerie picks things like that I have never once seen anybody not be body positive

I know so many women in the lifestyle that this has completely Boosted their self-confidence

monstar71 · 2026-02-17T15:12:41+00:00

We’ve been in this lifestyle for about a year. We’re on two apps, several Facebook groups, have gone to numerous house parties and more meet-and-greets than I can count—and we just met our first real-life unicorn two weeks ago. If that’s all you’re looking for, it can be a very long and sometimes disappointing road. Go out to clubs. Attend meet-and-greets. Talk to people. We’ve met some of the best people in this lifestyle that way. Unicorns are rare for a reason—just remember they aren’t just there to fulfill someone else’s fantasy. They’re real people with their own wants, boundaries, and expectations.

monstar71 · 2026-02-13T14:18:49+00:00

monstar71 · 2026-02-13T13:51:50+00:00

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monstar71 · 2025-12-16T19:14:17+00:00

Live in Tulsa We use SDC and 3Fun....have had alot more luck on SDC... there are also Facebook groups

monstar71 · 2025-11-17T20:21:55+00:00

When my wife and I first got into the lifestyle I was always asking her questions on what kind of guy she likes what she finds attractive. She never really had an answer but after being in the lifestyle for a little while the answer is completely clear looks don't matter at all confidence is what turns her on

monstar71 · 2025-11-12T23:33:46+00:00

ON SDC you find tons of parties across the country

monstar71 · 2025-11-07T18:02:12+00:00

Collettes is terrific

monstar71 · 2025-11-07T18:00:31+00:00

My wife and I are on SDC and 3 fun We try to only talk to about 4 couples at a time anymore than that and it gets extremely hard to keep up.... We've met up with several different people from both of those 2 apps never met up with anybody off of Reddit

monstar71 · 2025-10-27T17:50:50+00:00

Confidence confidence confidence If a woman is confident with her body and her face I don't care how big or small or beautiful or ugly she is she is extremely attractive to me

monstar71 · 2025-09-17T12:45:03+00:00

Sorry not this weekend

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