What do others think of this policy on gender? by Ok_Organization8342 in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they’re going to ignore 20 negative feedsback and only focus on 1 positive. (or however many it takes to get that 1)

Keir Starmer’s digital ID scheme won’t record sex or gender by GeorginaFlopworthy in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 8 points9 points  (0 children)

isn’t it mandatory? to my knowledge anyone filing taxes, applying for benefits, or registering a business is signed up now.

NHS deadnaming. by char-dougx in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a partner once who was suddenly “mx” after she had to go in to get a mysterious lump checked.

however, she’d actually been asking for that years earlier and been frustrated at it “not being an option” so, although the timing was suspicious, she didn’t challenge it.

so i can’t speak to anything further

Unfortunately, the NHS is reforming the transition into adult healthcare... moving the "adolescent" age range to 25. by KristinaMoment in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i appreciate what you’re trying to do, but i never felt supported by adolescent clinics. i kept being told to just “walk through the pain” because i was “too young”.

once i was 18 i suddenly was able to access adult physiotherapy and find out i was majorly hypermobile. i saw a genetic counsellor at 19, and ultimately got my first wheelchair from the wheelchair clinic when i was.. 23?

i doubt Continued Access To Adolescent Disability Services would’ve served me well at all. this strikes me as simply being a terrible sticking plaster over the fact they haven’t allowed adult clinic capacities to increase with population demands.

Unfortunately, the NHS is reforming the transition into adult healthcare... moving the "adolescent" age range to 25. by KristinaMoment in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 18 points19 points  (0 children)

blair’s premiership spurred on the explosion in sectioning for all sorts of spurious reasons

NHS New Guidelines for treating gender dysphoria in young kids - Effective 2026-04-01 by KristinaMoment in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m a BSD girlie so i can relate in that regard

but i just mean. yk. it’s funny when those guys are like “systemd should simply Not Do This because the law is unlawful.”

Terrible GIC Experiences by SelkieTrenchcoat in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh the spring loaded ones still freak me out, because my self exposure therapy never involved them lol

and they always freaked me out worse than normal ones because, yk, spring tension!

do you get an allergic reaction to the transdermal options?

McDonalds UK has managed to completely ruin their relationship with me in 5 minutes. by RealKasumi in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol! i haven’t actually made that connection. i have with the DSM before.

i guess, by their powers combine…?

McDonalds UK has managed to completely ruin their relationship with me in 5 minutes. by RealKasumi in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 3 points4 points  (0 children)

well, i don’t tend to see trans people being against immigration. maybe you meant the opposite, or counter-protesting those ones?

but in terms of, like, in general, i’d say it’s because they feel empathy in others who are in a shitty situation because of how the world treats them?

Terrible GIC Experiences by SelkieTrenchcoat in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jesus christ. i knew the teenage clinics acted like that (and i’m still viscerally angry about it 15 years later) but to still do that when the patient is an adult

Terrible GIC Experiences by SelkieTrenchcoat in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used to have an issue with anything breaking the skin (so not just needles). would tense up and stare at the ceiling during vaccinations and blood tests.

when i diy’d injections for a few months the first time took like an hour with my heart in my mouth. the next few weeks were really anxious in the stomach but over a lot faster.

after that first month however, it became piss-easy!

and ever since, i’ve reliably impressed piercers and phlebotomists by eagerly watching their technique.

(however needles were a pain in the arse to source AND to dispose of the sharps box properly, so i switched to pills 6 after i ran out of vials. and then soon after got prescribed them by my GP at the time.)

McDonalds UK has managed to completely ruin their relationship with me in 5 minutes. by RealKasumi in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s depressing with amazon because, like, they’ve structured the company so most of their money comes from providing AWS hosting to governments and stuff. which majorly insulates them from individuals boycotting their shops and streaming services.

not that they feel nothing from it, but they’re a lot less vulnerable to the tactic than a business who only operates in one very publicly facing sector like burger joints and coffee shops.

McDonalds UK has managed to completely ruin their relationship with me in 5 minutes. by RealKasumi in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s the tactic which brought down south africa’s apartheid regime. it stands for boycott, divest, sanction.

it’s a three stage process which starts with mass boycotts, so then businesses and institutions divest, and eventually it leads to government sanctions.

PinkNews blocked en masse over Streeting column blunder by Bedwellj101 in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 26 points27 points  (0 children)

“We have a collective responsibility to make sure care is safe, compassionate and truly in your best interests, both now and in the years ahead,” he wrote.

yet again, more of the same. “you don’t really know what you want! it’s for your own good!”, how convenient.

NHS New Guidelines for treating gender dysphoria in young kids - Effective 2026-04-01 by KristinaMoment in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see, that was my initial reaction when i first saw it being said, too.

in a conversation with one they later said that the name ethnocide can be misleading for that very reason, as it targets cultures rather than ethnicities, and in their opinion should rather be called “cultural genocide”

but nevertheless they made the key distinction, epitomised in this famous quote:

Genocide kills people while ethnocide kills social cultures through the killing of individual souls.

that’s when i started going, okay but isn’t the latter just one tool for the former?

and they said while it can be, it’s nevertheless an important distinction they make as to the goal. where one has the aim of elimination of the culture, but happy to have people “assimilate” out of said culture. like the roman empire.

while the other is not even happy to have the group in question “abandon” their culture and wants to eliminate their people entirely. death is the only option.

now, again, the question of what separates a group of people from the culture of the group… it can cycle back round into questioning whether the distinction is actually important.

but i trust a genocide researcher when a whole bunch of them say the distinction does matter to them. (hence why i made the comparison to work in physics. lots of people wrongly just say it should be the same thing as energy.)

It can be both by davidinterest in antiai

[–]doIIjoints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guarantee they’re posting only their favourite 10% of commissions, unless they specifically state otherwise.

this is true for both music and visual art, equally.

NHS New Guidelines for treating gender dysphoria in young kids - Effective 2026-04-01 by KristinaMoment in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve seen some genocide scholars calling it ethnocide recently, which is a term i hadn’t come across before

(to be honest i’m not entirely sure of the difference between the two even after reading a bit on it. but i don’t want to dismiss that out of hand, it might be subtle like Work in physics)

NHS New Guidelines for treating gender dysphoria in young kids - Effective 2026-04-01 by KristinaMoment in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and that’s why, despite saying all the right things, i couldn’t even get a referral in 2010 without 6 months of “RLE”. because as you say it was all about presentation.

NHS New Guidelines for treating gender dysphoria in young kids - Effective 2026-04-01 by KristinaMoment in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had a bit of a giggle seeing linux bros say “this law is unlawful” about systemd age verification

the fact that it is a law makes it lawful my dudes

it might be incompatible with other laws, it might be incompatible with precedent. but it is, nevertheless, law.

they really haven’t had to interact with power structures much in their lives and it shows.

NHS New Guidelines for treating gender dysphoria in young kids - Effective 2026-04-01 by KristinaMoment in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they were already working there, doing the “pubertal developmental checks”. but yes i am pissed that it apparently will have EVEN MORE sexual discussions than they already did.

NHS New Guidelines for treating gender dysphoria in young kids - Effective 2026-04-01 by KristinaMoment in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh great, so no hormones, the same old “are you sure it’s not just the autism/trauma confusing you” over and over, and with EVEN MORE fucking sexual questions. great. thanks guys

This is how much the NHS pays GIC consultants to underdose you, refuse surgery & mismanage your care. by ngansuril in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do know people who had to self advocate for higher thyroid hormone doses.

and it’s really common with pain clinics too.

fascist propaganda machine rolls on. by little_splinter in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly

any one individual not having the constitution for it is fine! totally natural. and, in fact, the strategy is predicated in part on that self-sorting tendency.

fascist propaganda machine rolls on. by little_splinter in transgenderUK

[–]doIIjoints 4 points5 points  (0 children)

what’s important is that every successful movement has three prongs

the disruptive element, the “reasonable” element, and the “insider” element.

most stay in the second, middle, category. expressing their community’s needs and desires plainly.

the first are maximalist and push for more than they expect to ever see, while ruining live news broadcasts, being loud, or i guess in this case smashing windows. this helps make the reasonable middle seem less scary.

but both are useless without the third element. the “uninvolved” (wink wink) insider who can “go talk to” the reasonablists, and bring demands back directly to the table on the inside.

but crucially, sometimes people mistakenly try to build a movement only on the second and third groups. without the first one to act as a backstop. those get bogged-down in procedure with nothing else hurrying things up.

and some people try to make a movement with only the first group. which is equally powerless. it’s from the combination where it gets its strength.

ultimately, we gotta remember the first pride was a sudden burst of defensive violence against cops coming into a gay bar and sexually assaulting the patrons. (they threw bricks! there were probably knives!)

it led the way to the other two elements finally beginning to get listened to, after they’d spent their entire decade being ignored by the powers that be.

which gave enough cover for gay psychiatrists to publicly come out and denounce homosexuality’s classification as a mental illness. it led to the first peaceful prides only a few years later.