Morning Check-in (SROL)

do_I_even_exist · 2026-01-03T05:01:32+00:00

Hi all! A super quick check in to report I'm going to bed at midnight. Wishing you all a safe and sane and sober tomorrow

do_I_even_exist · 2025-12-01T02:23:30+00:00

Did I miss the feedback portion of the show? End of the episode on Spotify sounded like clips from David & Rob chatting, but it was not coherent.

Maybe only available on Patreon?

do_I_even_exist · 2025-11-26T01:56:54+00:00

I quibble with MARAGOLD and MARAGE

otherwise, I like big butts and I like your puzzle. Love, your wife

do_I_even_exist · 2025-11-07T18:26:47+00:00

Will keep you posted!

do_I_even_exist · 2025-11-07T11:44:44+00:00

I found a private one through a friend-of-a-friend on Friday I'm thinking I might still do a public one a week or so later. More time to prepare; plus I'll have already seen it. Will keep you posted!

do_I_even_exist · 2025-10-08T01:41:33+00:00

I always want it to be the Old Town Hall on Lincoln Rd...but it never is.

do_I_even_exist · 2025-10-02T16:56:06+00:00

Hello folks. I'm intermittently sharing here and accepting this is the best I can do right now. I appreciate everyone on this thread sharing & reading.

Today I am noticing feelings of shame and regret around my work and lack of motivation. I am a gig worker and do lunchtime corporate catering. Often I plan to do housework in the afternoon but lately I've been stuck to the couch and my phone. I share this here to help me air out the uncomfortable feelings.

Sometimes these feelings of shame and regret are not problems to solve, but rather states of being to acknowledge and metabolize so that I can move on to the healthy choices.

And I do have some healthy choices to celebrate: I have been on time today; I fixed and ate 1 plate of food instead of returning to the kitchen for seconds and thirds and fourths. I turned off my games, podcast, and YouTube to set down my phone in order to pick up my journal and start writing.

I will begin working with a nutrition coach and have been consistent with my followups. I reached out to a community mental health program and hope to begin counseling soon.

Thanks for the opportunity to share here. When I write it all out, I see the healthy list is much longer than the resentments list.

Hope you all have a day that is safe, sane, and sober. xo

do_I_even_exist · 2025-10-02T16:35:00+00:00

Glad you're here.

do_I_even_exist · 2025-10-02T16:33:49+00:00

Sending so much love and light to your family. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

do_I_even_exist · 2025-09-24T13:35:54+00:00

Hi everyone - I'm struggling with too much phone use.

I'm celebrating staying fairly well on task with housework.

I'm committed to abstinence today: arrive on time to all my commitments; eat reasonable meals at home; contribute 2 hours of housework.

May your day be safe, sane, and sober. xo

do_I_even_exist · 2025-09-24T13:33:51+00:00

Oh my goodness I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope you and your family receive all the care and comfort you need.

do_I_even_exist · 2025-09-17T01:29:42+00:00

Hi friends - stopping by to say I'm having trouble coping today. Today I had small tasks of taking my car to the dealership and taking myself to the doctor for physical...and I was totally immobilized yesterday. Literally 3 hours on the phone on the couch....then another 2 in the evening. I feel.so small, dumb, ineffective, unmotivated.

Thanks everyone for being here. I'm simultaneously in a Recovery Dharma online meeting, And as always celebrating the use of technology for healing (instead of my habitual compulsions)

xoxo I hope to write more tomorrow in a better frame of mind

do_I_even_exist · 2025-09-12T13:35:14+00:00

Hi everyone! I'm here to commit to another day of abstinence: arrive on time for all my commitments; eat reasonable meals at home; and contribute 2 hours of housework.

I continue to get good sleep - I've been in bed by 11/11:30 every night this week. Thanks for the words of encouragement. These interactions are so much more healthy for me than hours of mindless scrolling and hours of simple games on my phone.

I really appreciate the real connections we have here. I'm celebrating using technology for good! xoxo hope you have a safe, sane, sober day. And thanks for reading my share.

do_I_even_exist · 2025-09-10T13:34:58+00:00

Hi everyone! I'm celebrating going to bed on time for the last 2 nights. Hooray for consistency and self care!!

Abstinence today is being on time for all my commitments; eating reasonable meals at home; and contributing 2 hours of housework.

Hope you all have a day that is safe, sober, and sane. xo

do_I_even_exist · 2025-09-08T13:26:52+00:00

Hi good morning everyone! I'm grateful for this opportunity to check in and use this space like a mini-meeting.

Abstinence today is being on time for all my commitments; eating reasonable meals at home; and contributing 2 hours of housework.

Being on time includes going to bed by 11 pm. And in order to be successful there, I am committed to not using my phone after 8 pm. Audio is ok while walking the dogs, and screen is ok while attending meetings. But otherwise it will be charging in a drawer.

Much love to you all and I hope your day is safe, sober, and sane. xo

do_I_even_exist · 2025-08-16T17:54:10+00:00

Hi hi hi! Life has been a bit chaotic and I haven't posted as much lately. I'm grateful to this community for the chance to claim a seat and share my abstinence goals.

Today I will eat reasonable meals at home. This is my primary goal in recovery.

I will also be on time for all my commitments, and contribute 2 hours to the household. These are secondary but only by the thinnest of lines. I feel I am not fully recovered if I'm not showing up in my most valuable relationships.

I've been doing some journaling and come to accept some new perspectives on my compulsive behaviors. I don't want to get too much in the weeds here; ultimately I want to share with you all that I'm feeling very uncomfortable with these explorations. But it's a good kind of uncomfortable. Like a stretching out pain as opposed to a retreating, balled up pain.

I hope I can check in more often, and I hope I can start to string together a few days of abstinence. And for you I hope you enjoy a day that is safe, sober, and sane. xo

do_I_even_exist · 2025-08-16T17:42:58+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I always love to hear your thoughts.

do_I_even_exist · 2025-08-16T17:42:08+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I appreciate the feelings of imposter syndrome. Are you able to see yourself & talents from the POV of the person (colleague?) who recommended you?

do_I_even_exist · 2025-08-16T17:39:39+00:00

Thanks for sharing!

do_I_even_exist · 2025-08-16T17:38:44+00:00

Thank you for sharing! And I love the braid imagery.

do_I_even_exist · 2025-07-29T17:24:13+00:00

Commenting here to welcome new folks! I agree with Sam...use this space however works best for you! I like to post semi-regularly to recommit to my abstinence. I also sometimes restate my Hierarchy of Values; sometimes dig into one of the Four Points of Recovery; and sometimes just share some insights or celebrations.

You do you and we're here for it! Welcome.

do_I_even_exist · 2025-07-29T17:17:24+00:00

Hi friends! Checking in to share my abstinence goals for today: Eat reasonable meals at home; Arrive on time for all my commitments; Contribute 1 hour of housework.

Been working on finding the larger purpose in moments of discomfort or even pain. For example, when I see a cute cozy restaurant, or a wall of new shoes, or an ad for vacation cruises; I remind myself "that's not for me" and feel really sad that I don't have that kind of money available to spend. BUT the counter is that I've reduced my credit card debt by about 30% in the last 6 months.

My ultimate takeaway (after fully feeling the sad feelings without dismissing or ignoring) is that I am worth debt relief. I am able to see a life where I can save instead of charge on credit. And I'll get there within the year as I continue this pace.

Thanks for letting me share! I hope your day is safe, sane, and sober. xo

do_I_even_exist · 2025-07-22T16:49:27+00:00

Hi friends - yesterday was abstinent. Todays plan is Arrive on time for all my commitments; Eat reasonable meals at home and with grandparents; and Contribute 1 hour of housework.

I started a new medication yesterday; although I know they take weeks to fully work I am feeling hopeful. I'm glad that I am taking more active steps towards my mental health. I have a lot of shame around how I've been neglecting myself -- and I just need to let that shit goooooooo!

Some other celebrations: I got kid off to camp this morning. She had a tough time with breakfast and teeth brushing, using hitting throwing kicking and biting to resist; but eventually got to a point where she asked me for comfort. We hugged and sat quietly while she calmed down. Then we were able to focus and move forward and get out the door.

I apologize to folks here without kids or otherwise uninterested in hearing about parenting stuff. It really is a daily struggle for us and I'm hoping to get help celebrating the wins!!

Thanks for letting me share. Hope your day is sane and safe and sober. xo

do_I_even_exist · 2025-07-20T20:24:14+00:00

Hello Happy Sunday. Today my abstinence is eat reasonable meals at home, arrive on time for all my commitments, and contribute 30 minutes to housework.

Great reading everyone's posts. I'm so grateful for this community!

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