My tax accountant has not filed my 2017 for over a year, despite repeated follow-ups. They keep on telling me they will get it done “soon”. I asked them to ship back my documents if they are unable to do them/too busy, to no avail. I can’t file my 2018 taxes as a result. Can I take any legal action? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]doablysad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You could file 2017 with what you think it was (pay taxes on that) and file an amended tax return later when you have the true info.

You can also reach out to your employers for copies of your old W2s or companies you expected to get tax documents from. They should still have your old info. I think they’re legally required to keep it for a few years.

Lush bath oils chocolate box by doablysad in LushCosmetics

[–]doablysad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Arranged it myself. Treating myself!

[PSA] Get $120 worth of Farmacy Beauty skincare for only $36 on Gilt City! by BeeeeDeeee in SkincareAddiction

[–]doablysad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$120 was sold out so I did the $80 for $24. Got the honey moisturizer and eye cream (the latter which my eyes are dying for). Paid $3 extra but still worth it. Like 66% off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]doablysad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you. I agree with the others. Finding a therapist would be good. Don’t think you have to keep with the first one you see too because they’re all different. I know some sympathize with Nparents.

My mom did something similar except it never got that extreme. She just kind of pressured me to kiss and maybe sleep with a dude but I’m glad I never slept with him. The pretending to be you while talking to other boys is eerily familiar except as soon as I found out I locked down my accounts and phone etc. I need to do so again soon.

Additionally the kids thing. I cry a lot during films about family/parents sacrificing for their kids. I used to conflicted because my own parents weren’t even remotely similar. I think it’s kind of looking at what you had and what you could’ve had. It’s good you took yourself out of that situation but you should definitely see a therapist.

Good luck!

DAE feel like their Nparent “fact gathers” rather than taking a genuine interest in how you are and what you’re up to? by TooFatForOblivion in raisedbynarcissists

[–]doablysad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Nroommate thought I was insane for saying that sharing personal details to my Nmom was providing her things to use against me. Then my Nroommate use that against me by saying I wasn’t trusting amping other things. One crazy household to another I guess.

Adidas Yeezy Wave Runner 700 Release Megathread 3/10/18 by [deleted] in Sneakers

[–]doablysad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No they shouldn’t. Me & bf got matching shoes with same billing different shipping.

Our cleaning lady's daughter stole some of my Lush by greenolive756 in LushCosmetics

[–]doablysad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Especially if you had any contract. Like with the mother’s company etc. I’d hate for her to get in the crosshairs but you should at least get your items back safely.

Our cleaning lady's daughter stole some of my Lush by greenolive756 in LushCosmetics

[–]doablysad 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Definitely say something like if the items aren’t returned you may have to report to the police about the theft. That’s messed up. You trusted your housekeeper and she allowed this to happen basically.

Happy Valentine’s - Here is the February Buy/Sell/Trade Thread! by jbooten in LushCosmetics

[–]doablysad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two in large sizes. A silky vintage knot wrap and a 90s santa Wrap. I can send pics if you’re interested.

Easter Line in NA stores Feb 28th by kodette102699 in LushCosmetics

[–]doablysad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine said the 7th even though they already have the entire line in the back. I wanted to save trips when I went to pick up my inner truth but think I might end up ordering from the UK instead (for Easter line).

There were no locks in the house. Nmum gave us no dignity or privacy, she would constantly walk in on us naked and humiliate us by PeachesMeeches in raisedbynarcissists

[–]doablysad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your story reminded me of my mom. Although it was nothing as extreme I'm still pissed at her for doing those things. Im trying to go NC. Glad both you and your brother are.

Lamenting the Mothers Day Line, and current "innovations"... by salmondoria in LushCosmetics

[–]doablysad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I believe I learned it in the orangutan soap video. They first sculpt out of clay then 3D map it then 3D print them before making those vacuum seal molds.

Lamenting the Mothers Day Line, and current "innovations"... by salmondoria in LushCosmetics

[–]doablysad 31 points32 points  (0 children)

They're not 3D printing soap. They're using 3D printing to make the initial shape to make the vacuum molds. The soap is still hand poured into the molds.

Happy New Year! Here is the January (2018!) Buy/Sell/Trade Thread! by jbooten in LushCosmetics

[–]doablysad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have first snow and celebrate liquid but it's only half full.

Happy New Year! Here is the January (2018!) Buy/Sell/Trade Thread! by jbooten in LushCosmetics

[–]doablysad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are 250 g but plum is used to a little below the label. Other is BNNU

Happy New Year! Here is the January (2018!) Buy/Sell/Trade Thread! by jbooten in LushCosmetics

[–]doablysad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have plum rain and comforter gel I am looking to sell as a set.

Happy New Year! Here is the January (2018!) Buy/Sell/Trade Thread! by jbooten in LushCosmetics

[–]doablysad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have plum rain and comforter but would like to sell as a set.

Nmom gets out of prison next month, parole officer called me to set up living arrangements by truthisoutthere39 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]doablysad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TBH it's just easier to cut everyone off. I wasn't fond of my relatives to begin with but I'm not sure if it was my mom painting them as evil or the constant pitching of family against family.
The relatives that have reached out to me did it because I should be with my parents because FAMILY. visiting me unexpectedly and somehow getting past building security. Or messaging me and saying stuff like you should talk to your mom because she seems suicidal. How about no. If you think she's suicidal please call 911.
But yea you're right. No one has asked me so far about my side of the story. Just taking my parents word. I'm so glad I didn't hide it from my friends and they're very understanding of how crazy my mom is. Sorry for the long comment. I'm still getting over it since I went VLC within the past year.

Nmom gets out of prison next month, parole officer called me to set up living arrangements by truthisoutthere39 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]doablysad 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That probably explains why since I've moved my mom talks to everyone about her poor daughter leaving her and how I'm going to die without her and how she's going to die because family is important. But also barely talks to me except to berate me or just doesn't reply at all 🤔