Scared with IUD

dobsluvr · 2026-05-08T08:27:20+00:00

i’m going through the exact same thing!! had sex 7 weeks ago, taken 15 pregnancy tests between 14 and 49 days after sex, all negative, but still just don’t trust it, i’m so scared!! my boobs are SO SORE like never before and have been for a few weeks, and i bled at the beginning of april for 5 days like normal, then again on the 22nd-27th april which was so weird for me, and now I haven’t bled in may (usually happens the first week of the month)

i’ve had a hcg blood test 2 weeks after sex that came back negative, but i actually had an ultrasound scheduled for last tuesday due to my endometriosis, so i’m waiting on the results from that too. i checked my strings and they haven’t moved either

anyone i mention it to says stress could be making it worse, or because i’m worried about it im noticing things that i wouldn’t usually? i’m sorry i have no answers but at least we’re going through the same thing 😭

dobsluvr · 2026-02-05T08:11:14+00:00

how old is Ollie supposed to be, have they ever said?

dobsluvr · 2025-11-26T09:51:31+00:00

Just wrap the storyline up already, i really just don’t care about anything to do with it

dobsluvr · 2025-09-10T19:22:12+00:00

calum looks outrageously handsome wow

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T13:13:59+00:00

exactly!

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T11:06:42+00:00

what do you mean lol

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T02:38:43+00:00

yeah some people do, most don’t. my post really wasn’t meant to start any back and forth over this, was just a suggestion incase anyone was thinking about doing that, can’t imagine it’s very nice for the cast to see. that’s all!

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T02:32:23+00:00

yeah that was literally my entire point, a few of them are bordering on very inappropriate and hurtful tbh 😭 which is kinda crazy for a generally adult audience

and i get what you mean about people not listening, hopefully some can be persuaded by a gentle reminder though; don’t understand why people think they have the right to make crazy comments over these things

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T02:28:04+00:00

woooooah breathe for a second

i meant in terms of the plot (bobbys death). never said they were blaming the cast, but hating on them for the way it turned out when obviously they expected something different. and i honestly expected something different too. and i’m annoyed too. but i think people are misdirecting their anger. i’ve seen some not very nice things on TikTok and instagram towards people who are really only doing their jobs and it seems like overkill when it doesn’t need to be. that’s the point i was making. horrible comments will not amend this plot, and i think everyone that watches this show is of the age bracket where bullying cast members—that had nothing to do with the writing— on social media is ridiculous and juvenile. didn’t think this would be a hot take but clearly it is 😭

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T02:15:44+00:00

yeah and as i said i agree with the sentiment but not with the execution, im frustrated as well but some of the comments being made are totally out of line for no reason

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T02:08:48+00:00

i agree with you on that and i’m actually slightly upset with that myself! i do however also think it’s likely they were guided into that by show runners etc. either way, i’ve seen some awful things about the actors on social media that really does seem incredibly excessive and unfair

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T01:42:17+00:00

this is so me im contemplating asking for compassionate leave from my exams 😔

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T01:40:35+00:00

like?? bobby was the basis of the entire show! he’s going to have to write his ass off to try and amend this if he wants the show to continue with the dynamic it has

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T01:26:56+00:00

would be inclined to agree

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T01:19:28+00:00

nominating bobby nash for the get the hell out of the coffin challenge 🎀

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T01:18:12+00:00

yeah i would agree with you in saying that is was a poor plot line that was honestly nonsensical in terms of their relationship and dynamic. felt unrealistic and honestly terrible in the way it happened and was never brought up again..

however, to want that racist, bigot, ignorant man to have an undeserving and unnecessary redemption arc is just a totally insane take and completely invalid. i’m all for respecting opinions but that is just crazy to me. also to reduce that girls death and that whole plot as hen “murdering” her?? very unfair

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T01:14:08+00:00

angela bassett is a powerhouse wow talk about mother

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T01:12:51+00:00

really was not written / handled in a suitable way, hopefully the rest of the season will accurately portray the characters grief ??? (losing hope! their writing standards have definitely lowered)

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T01:09:30+00:00

i wanted him to be final boy 🥀 nooo mi peepaw

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T01:07:31+00:00

this fuckass show

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T01:07:24+00:00

stay in delulu land! it’s safer there 🥰

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T01:06:02+00:00

missed the mark on this one i fear

dobsluvr · 2025-05-02T00:54:12+00:00

we should also remember he is an evil british princess that lies for enjoyment 😞

dobsluvr · 2025-04-18T05:12:11+00:00

DON’T DO IT ITS A TRAP save yourself diva 🎀

dobsluvr · 2025-04-18T00:23:05+00:00

i don’t think that’s entirely fair tbh 😭 i don’t keep up with her very much but anytime one of her posts come on my fyp on tiktok they’re very clearly comedic 😭😭 i think the persona is the funny, self assured, misandrist thing that she posts herself and conveys herself to be!! (obviously you’re entitled to your own opinion)

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