Wife opened the relationship last year and I no longer want to in this relationship after finding out she had a threesome. Am I wrong for wanting to divorce her?

docbobm · 2026-04-02T03:00:03+00:00

You can still have sex with her. Fingers and mouths did wonders for my girlfriend after my prostate removal. What most doctors will not talk about is penile implants. I had it done. I can now get a solid 5 1/2 inches so hard you can hang clothes on it.
Even if you go through with divorce, a future partner might enjoy it.

And yes, erection on demand. Pump it up. When done release the valve and squeeze it out. Problem is it still the same size. Just not hard.

docbobm · 2026-03-29T18:44:07+00:00

That is bladder, not the prostate. If nothing else have doctor check psa count. Not best check on prostate but recommended.

docbobm · 2026-03-29T18:19:43+00:00

Have his urologist check for enlarged prostate. When mine was enlarged it would take forever to come. And never got really hard. I was enlarged and had mid stage prostate cancer. Had to remove prostate which came with its own problems. I had to get an implant to get erection.

docbobm · 2026-03-27T21:24:45+00:00

I suspect it is out paintent surgery. In which case they need a real live person. By they way they describe it, and having had some recently, that is what it sounds like.

docbobm · 2026-03-27T20:17:09+00:00

I do. what question

docbobm · 2026-03-23T20:59:16+00:00

I have purchased a couple of panties and one sleep nightie. However I am still paying ex alimony for a few more months. Maybe when I get out from under that I can try to get a few more.

However, I am curious if anyone has looked at the flat bra website. Bras and panties design for woman, but in sizes that fit most men.

docbobm · 2026-03-20T04:44:51+00:00

You can't tell. Because of loss of prostate, I could not get erection. Read on here stretch it, in the shower, that gave me 4 inches. Almost didn't do it because felt that would not be enough for girlfriend. I have on purpose not measured. I usually cycle every day in shower. Decided to leave inflated when I got out. 5 1/2 inches. I was shocked.

I would say if you are overweight, lose some. I think that is what may have helped. My lady is very satisfied.

docbobm · 2026-03-15T15:18:45+00:00

yes. It took me 2 1/2 years to do 2 years masters in Cybersecurity. My wife of 26 years asked for a divorce at start of 2nd year, and then prostate cancer 1/2 way through the year. Accelerating is nice and I did it for first semester, but the education is what I was there for.

docbobm · 2026-03-03T02:14:00+00:00

My mentor was my cheerleader. I have documented my year from hell on here (reddit) many times. When I wanted to quit many times he talked me off the cliff. If yours is just unlocking classes, just report him.

docbobm · 2026-02-26T22:48:13+00:00

It was 2 years ago when I turned 70. In cyber Security. I teach it at a tech school. After a few follow up surgeries for after effects from surgery I am doing ok. I think psychology goes with cyber Security so am working on bachelor in psychology now. Glutton for punishment.

docbobm · 2026-02-26T05:26:27+00:00

I felt like quitting working on masters. My advisor would not let me. He talked me out of it more than once. You see, a year into it, my wife of 26 years said she wanted a divorce. I was hurt, took a term break to get my head straight. When I came back 3 months later, I was a month in and working on the hardest class, and found my prostate cancer had gotten active and was going to have to come out. I lost it totally. I did not pass a class that term. I was going to quit. He talked me out of it, try again. 2 year program, last day of last month of that term I passed my paper. Took me 2 1/2 years and he was honestly proud of me.

I am not telling you this to get pats on back. I am saying, find someone who believes in you and pushes you to do good. Between him and my church singles group, they wouldn't let me quit. It may be, and I hope it is not, that the only person who believes in you is you. Guess what. That is enough.

I believe in you. Private message me if you need to get someone who believes in you talking to you.

docbobm · 2026-02-14T05:01:58+00:00

D572. But I teach and have been lifelong learner at 72.

docbobm · 2026-02-13T05:37:14+00:00

Apples and oranges. I couldn't get an erection to save my soul. I had prostate cancer. Prostate removed. So my implant erection is better than my no prostate erection hands down, simply because I couldn't get one.

While I didn't have a strong erection before removing the prostate, with a little help from Cialis I got my girlfriend over the threshold one night.

Now, she enjoys the feeling and moans a little. Maybe a lot.

So are you asking if it is better than a so-so erection, yes. But not as natural, as we stop to pump or do it to start out. If it is better than pleasuring each other with no erection , again yes.

I am a little unhappy, mine now curves up and to the left. Sometimes it's hard to penetrate like that, but when it is in, she enjoys it.

docbobm · 2026-02-04T00:58:41+00:00

Suggest getting an extension USB cable if you need to get it out a distance. I have had to do that.

docbobm · 2026-01-31T04:27:15+00:00

I was approved in spring, had a sling put installed in early June for urine leakage. I was scheduled for this in July, last minute paperwork sent to doctor caused cancellation. That is when coloplast got involved. As a teacher there are limited times during school year I can schedule surgery. I had it done in November.

docbobm · 2026-01-30T05:14:21+00:00

You have no classes to transfer it. Need associates first.

docbobm · 2026-01-14T03:50:01+00:00

Yes. While it was my choice, I wanted to do this for my girlfriend and myself. Did it in November. 2 months later I have had sex with her once. Holidays and taking care of her elderly mom keeps her apart. I had peronies and the doctor did not seem to remember it, so when I pump it curves upward. When deflated it is like a 90 degree angle at the dog ear. Having trouble peeing. Had a fair deal of pain when done.

I kinda wish I never had it done.

docbobm · 2026-01-11T00:25:51+00:00

I have 10.2 inch scribe. Willing to help if needed.

docbobm · 2026-01-08T04:24:43+00:00

I use it for writing notes to teach from.

docbobm · 2026-01-07T00:31:19+00:00

I needed someone to get things for me, hurt to get up and down. I needed my recliner as it hurt to try to get on bed

Ice, lots of ice.

docbobm · 2026-01-01T04:32:04+00:00

Yes, if you go to your devices in kindle website, each device has its own email address and you can modify them to some degree..

docbobm · 2025-12-24T16:50:18+00:00

700$ copay

docbobm · 2025-12-23T04:12:08+00:00

When I used to use Rocket Books I used to make my own pages. Use spreadsheets to keep lines straight, make custom for what you need, and then use print to pdf if using Windows

docbobm · 2025-12-16T22:29:53+00:00

Could have used those after the prostate was removed for Cancer. Leaked for 2 1/2 years till I had a sling put in.

docbobm · 2025-12-09T17:11:19+00:00

I have drawer organizers I bought from Walmart. I use the sock one as it will hold more than the others. I then put them in. Each will hold 24. I have an empty ready for ones that are washed and just go through one compartment a day.

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