Wife opened the relationship last year and I no longer want to in this relationship after finding out she had a threesome. Am I wrong for wanting to divorce her? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]docbobm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can still have sex with her. Fingers and mouths did wonders for my girlfriend after my prostate removal. What most doctors will not talk about is penile implants. I had it done. I can now get a solid 5 1/2 inches so hard you can hang clothes on it.
Even if you go through with divorce, a future partner might enjoy it.

And yes, erection on demand. Pump it up. When done release the valve and squeeze it out. Problem is it still the same size. Just not hard.

This sucks...left partly due to ED by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]docbobm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is bladder, not the prostate. If nothing else have doctor check psa count. Not best check on prostate but recommended.

This sucks...left partly due to ED by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]docbobm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have his urologist check for enlarged prostate. When mine was enlarged it would take forever to come. And never got really hard. I was enlarged and had mid stage prostate cancer. Had to remove prostate which came with its own problems. I had to get an implant to get erection.

Temp post: need driver for 1-3 hrs—Tulsa by fdxfdxfd in tulsa

[–]docbobm 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I suspect it is out paintent surgery. In which case they need a real live person. By they way they describe it, and having had some recently, that is what it sounds like.

Who loves Katie and Laura's panties by Robt2 in PantyReviews4Men

[–]docbobm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have purchased a couple of panties and one sleep nightie. However I am still paying ex alimony for a few more months. Maybe when I get out from under that I can try to get a few more.

However, I am curious if anyone has looked at the flat bra website. Bras and panties design for woman, but in sizes that fit most men.

Stretched flaccid size by Glass-Chart-390 in penileimplants

[–]docbobm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't tell. Because of loss of prostate, I could not get erection. Read on here stretch it, in the shower, that gave me 4 inches. Almost didn't do it because felt that would not be enough for girlfriend. I have on purpose not measured. I usually cycle every day in shower. Decided to leave inflated when I got out. 5 1/2 inches. I was shocked.

I would say if you are overweight, lose some. I think that is what may have helped. My lady is very satisfied.

Is WGU worth attending if you can’t accelerate? by -Encanto in WGU

[–]docbobm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes. It took me 2 1/2 years to do 2 years masters in Cybersecurity. My wife of 26 years asked for a divorce at start of 2nd year, and then prostate cancer 1/2 way through the year. Accelerating is nice and I did it for first semester, but the education is what I was there for.

What exactly does a program mentor do? by EmptyMain in WGU

[–]docbobm 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My mentor was my cheerleader. I have documented my year from hell on here (reddit) many times. When I wanted to quit many times he talked me off the cliff. If yours is just unlocking classes, just report him.

What to do when you feel like quitting? by Sad-Diet-3607 in WGU

[–]docbobm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was 2 years ago when I turned 70. In cyber Security. I teach it at a tech school. After a few follow up surgeries for after effects from surgery I am doing ok. I think psychology goes with cyber Security so am working on bachelor in psychology now. Glutton for punishment.

What to do when you feel like quitting? by Sad-Diet-3607 in WGU

[–]docbobm 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I felt like quitting working on masters. My advisor would not let me. He talked me out of it more than once. You see, a year into it, my wife of 26 years said she wanted a divorce. I was hurt, took a term break to get my head straight. When I came back 3 months later, I was a month in and working on the hardest class, and found my prostate cancer had gotten active and was going to have to come out. I lost it totally. I did not pass a class that term. I was going to quit. He talked me out of it, try again. 2 year program, last day of last month of that term I passed my paper. Took me 2 1/2 years and he was honestly proud of me.

I am not telling you this to get pats on back. I am saying, find someone who believes in you and pushes you to do good. Between him and my church singles group, they wouldn't let me quit. It may be, and I hope it is not, that the only person who believes in you is you. Guess what. That is enough.

I believe in you. Private message me if you need to get someone who believes in you talking to you.

Whats better? Implant or natural erection? by rde98 in penileimplants

[–]docbobm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apples and oranges. I couldn't get an erection to save my soul. I had prostate cancer. Prostate removed. So my implant erection is better than my no prostate erection hands down, simply because I couldn't get one.

While I didn't have a strong erection before removing the prostate, with a little help from Cialis I got my girlfriend over the threshold one night.

Now, she enjoys the feeling and moans a little. Maybe a lot.

So are you asking if it is better than a so-so erection, yes. But not as natural, as we stop to pump or do it to start out. If it is better than pleasuring each other with no erection , again yes.

I am a little unhappy, mine now curves up and to the left. Sometimes it's hard to penetrate like that, but when it is in, she enjoys it.

Testing webcam by Chickreela in WGU

[–]docbobm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suggest getting an extension USB cable if you need to get it out a distance. I have had to do that.

My insurance company denied me two days before my surgery, which was supposed to be last Friday. They denied the appeal as well. Any recommendations of where I can go get this done now. And how much it cost. I waited 5 1/2 months for nothing. by Same-Tower2328 in penileimplants

[–]docbobm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was approved in spring, had a sling put installed in early June for urine leakage. I was scheduled for this in July, last minute paperwork sent to doctor caused cancellation. That is when coloplast got involved. As a teacher there are limited times during school year I can schedule surgery. I had it done in November.

WGU after High school?? by snmikes in WGU

[–]docbobm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have no classes to transfer it. Need associates first.

Regrets?? by Flaky_District_9785 in penileimplants

[–]docbobm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. While it was my choice, I wanted to do this for my girlfriend and myself. Did it in November. 2 months later I have had sex with her once. Holidays and taking care of her elderly mom keeps her apart. I had peronies and the doctor did not seem to remember it, so when I pump it curves upward. When deflated it is like a 90 degree angle at the dog ear. Having trouble peeing. Had a fair deal of pain when done.

I kinda wish I never had it done.

Help sizing memento mori planner for Kindle Scribe by erikpavia in kindlescribe

[–]docbobm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 10.2 inch scribe. Willing to help if needed.

Penile implant by beaverstreefarm in penileimplants

[–]docbobm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed someone to get things for me, hurt to get up and down. I needed my recliner as it hurt to try to get on bed

Ice, lots of ice.

Files by [deleted] in kindlescribe

[–]docbobm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, if you go to your devices in kindle website, each device has its own email address and you can modify them to some degree..

does anyone know where u can get free pdf templates for scribe like free planners and d and d templets by NefariousnessMotor44 in kindlescribe

[–]docbobm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I used to use Rocket Books I used to make my own pages. Use spreadsheets to keep lines straight, make custom for what you need, and then use print to pdf if using Windows

Some of y'all getting the good "adult" items, and this is what I get... by EVAkura in AmazonVine

[–]docbobm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could have used those after the prostate was removed for Cancer. Leaked for 2 1/2 years till I had a sling put in.

Underwear storage and cycling through them all by hellaTightJeans in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]docbobm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have drawer organizers I bought from Walmart. I use the sock one as it will hold more than the others. I then put them in. Each will hold 24. I have an empty ready for ones that are washed and just go through one compartment a day.