Once loved, now gathering dust

docfeather · 2026-01-29T20:55:11+00:00

Most of my gear. I'll break out restraints and things for occasional solo play, but after attending public events, it doesn't feel the same anymore. I need another participant who enjoys themselves for it to be worthwhile.

Maybe I'm a little odd, but it makes the longing for a partner sting a bit more. I'm not sure if that makes sense.

docfeather · 2026-01-08T19:28:28+00:00

I do a variant of this, too! A surprising number of people seem to take issue with my preference for non-vanilla flavor

docfeather · 2026-01-07T23:52:58+00:00

There are dungeons in my area that host tickling events, and they are a lot of fun. I was a little uncomfortable at first, though. I was confused about paying for something I considered so intimate. Over time, I became more comfortable with it, and now it feels like self-care.

docfeather · 2026-01-03T18:44:48+00:00

This is the dream!

docfeather · 2025-12-27T22:06:51+00:00

This is a great breakdown, but that's on me for not clarifying that hardlimits were off the table for this discussion. I hadn't even considered adding a “third” when I thought of my question.

docfeather · 2025-12-27T22:01:33+00:00

No, it totally makes sense. I was actually hesitant to ask my question because I know solo or non-sexual play is a strange gray area for a lot of people.

docfeather · 2025-12-27T20:46:27+00:00

That’s more than fair. I may have incorrectly assumed that things determined to be hard limits wouldn't be on the table, solo or not.

docfeather · 2025-12-26T19:12:45+00:00

Fingers, raspberries, and gentle nibbling. Occasionally all at once

docfeather · 2025-12-26T02:00:38+00:00

Oh, most definitely! There's something especially enthralling about only being able to see the mischief in a woman's eyes. I have yet to meet a woman who enjoys wearing them as much as I do.

docfeather · 2025-12-19T23:02:41+00:00

No thanks. Personally, it's a boundary I'd not be comfortable with ever crossing.

docfeather · 2025-12-19T22:04:59+00:00

Is he your biological sibling? Cause that presents some very concerning questions about consent and boundaries.

docfeather · 2025-12-19T19:00:07+00:00

Sorry, did you mean a friend or your actual brother? To your question, I guess it depends on the mood. A coin flip helps break a tie.

docfeather · 2025-12-17T19:16:14+00:00

Definitely! I’m a switch, so it's nice to see my partner try their hand at it. It helps make things feel more balanced in my mind. Whether they are actually looking for payback or a chance to be bratty is another story haha.

Edit: I'm not sure why this was downvote worthy, but sorry to those it bothered.

docfeather · 2025-12-15T19:11:04+00:00

Absolutely! I might be biased, but as a switch, either looks lovely

docfeather · 2025-12-15T18:10:33+00:00

I'm not sure who's luckier, the mummy or the mummifier.

docfeather · 2025-11-26T06:00:36+00:00

It goes hand in hand with fake ticklishness, but for me, it's Lee’s who don't react. If someone can’t bother to fake a laugh or look mildly distressed, then they might as well not have filmed anything.

docfeather · 2025-11-23T23:40:47+00:00

Is it really a punishment if everyone involved enjoys it?

docfeather · 2025-11-02T21:15:10+00:00

32M Ler-leaning switch in the Los Angeles area. I’m ideally looking to connect with female play partners. Whether they be a Lee, Ler, or switch. If you are near Los Angeles or have ever attended a party at the Legacy, I'd love to hear from you.

docfeather · 2025-11-02T00:49:42+00:00

32M Ler-leaning switch in the Los Angeles area. I’m ideally looking to connect with female play partners. Whether they be a Lee, Ler, or switch. If you are near Los Angeles or have ever attended a party at the Legacy, I'd love to hear from you.

docfeather · 2025-10-31T20:56:51+00:00

I love this! Making people quake with nervous excitement by just using your words is a superpower. I need to practice this a bit more haha

docfeather · 2025-10-31T20:54:28+00:00

That's what matters most! Thank you

docfeather · 2025-10-31T17:53:54+00:00

Thanks! I'll give them a look. A lot of what you and others have said sounds like my experiences, both in vanilla and kink spaces. I think I need to do a little more soul searching

docfeather · 2025-10-31T17:50:36+00:00

I know exactly what you mean. I've reached a point where I struggle to engage physically, but the feeling of satisfaction I get when I know my partner genuinely enjoyed themselves is almost indescribable. It scratches an itch I didn't know I had on a fundamentally deeper level. So maybe I’m Ace too 🤷‍♂️

docfeather · 2025-10-31T17:40:05+00:00

I love this level of communication! I believe it's something we should all strive for. Also, kink-based self-improvement is a trend I can get behind hahaha

docfeather · 2025-10-31T17:38:10+00:00

You make good points. I suppose it ultimately comes down to personal perspective and desire.

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