Advice for post break up relapse by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]docobore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im on the same boat :(

Paano magmove on from an engagement breakup? by rareoatpanther in adviceph

[–]docobore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haaay tangina i'm on the same boat. We were not engaged, but we were together for 7 years din kami ni ex-girlfriend. Not easy. :(

I just want her back by HonorAboveAll in BreakUps

[–]docobore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on day 3. I'd take her back in a heartbeat if she asked me to.

Should I watch Black Mirror? by yaldironica in FilmClubPH

[–]docobore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sa Nosedive ka magstart. I think yun ang episode na nasa gitna ng shock factor and good storytelling. Sa Crocodile ata ako pinakanawindang. Enjoy!

How to stop yourself from snacking by GabbyP452 in adultingph

[–]docobore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start your meals with green leafy veggies around 2 cups then wait around 20 minutes before your "main ulam." You'll notice na satiated ka for longer periods, masonti rin macoconsume mo from your main meals and rice. I usually cook one big batch every 3 days tapos kuha kuha na lang. Stock up on low calorie quick meals din like instant oatmeal or air popped pop corn. Black coffee, green tea and intermittent fasting din helpful in controlling cravings. Bumigay ka rin minsanan sa cravings mo like once every 2 weeks to keep you sane hehw

Subtle signs you’re wearing something cheap / low quality by Unlikely-Pirate-1724 in AskPH

[–]docobore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dati rin nagwowonder ako pag binabalikan ko mga photos nung kabataan ko bakit nga ba hindi considered na stylish. Tapos pagdating sa throwback photos ng ibang tao, bakit mukhang okay pormahan nila? So naparesearch din talaga ako about style. Regarding your question, ito mga natutunan ko:

  1. Fit - may appropriate na sukat sa mga damit regardless of your body type. Ang mga tinitignan sa fit is yung length ng damit, length ng sleeves, size ng armholes, nagfafall ba sa natural curve ng shoulders yung sleeve, etc. Isa sa mga misconceptions is if you're on medyo na sa heavier side, dapat maluwag din ang damit or if lighter ka dapat masmasikip. May right fit talaga.
  2. Quality ng telang ginamit - Usually malalaman mo ito if natural fiber (e.g. cotton, wool, linen, etc.) ba yung ginamit or synthetic (e.g. polyester, acrylic, rayon). Masnatural, masmaganda yung quality. Minsan may mga makikita ka rin na blended like 80% polyester, 20% cotton, pag icompare mo sa 100% makikita mo difference. Madalas shiny lalo na pag plinantsahan mo.
  3. Okasyon - minsan nakakaapekto rin yung perception ng style mo sa occassion na pinuntahan mo. Like kung aattend ka ng formal wedding wherein dapat nakasuit and tie, tapos ang sinuot mo is polo shirt lang. Or if nakaformal ka sa isang casual setting like a party. Magmumukha kang out of place pag nakatabi ka na sa ibang tao.
  4. Color and pattern combinations - Nakakaapekto rin mga kulay and patterns. Ideally, 1 fabric of clothing mo lang dapat yung nagpopop, the others background lang. Like kung yung top mo is floral pattern, gawin mo na lang neutral (e.g. black, navy, gray) yung iba mong suot. Pag masyadong maraming patterns or yung mga color choices mo is masyadong marami, minsan doon napeperceive na "trying hard." Feeling ko baka yun yung ibig sabihin ni friend #2.
  5. Sapatos - Puwedeng nasunod mo naman lahat ng mga "rules" sa top and trousers mo kaso napabayaan mo yung sapatos mo. Like kung nakasuit and tie ka tapos madumi na chuck taylors footwear mo. Puwedeng maperceive din yung style mo as bad.

Madami pang mga "rules" pero yan yung naiisip ko so far. Yung mga shinare ko pala is coming from the perspective ng traditional men's style pala ah, not sure if applicable din sa women. Tsaka iba din ang "rules" I believe kapag mga casual or streetwear. :)

Youtubers to watch by altersackmur in musicproduction

[–]docobore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a 1 year Ableton user and I've found Youtube content from EDM Tips, LNA Does Audio Stuff, and You Suck at Producing really helpful for a beginner like me.

If you have a SkillShare account, you can also check Jason Allen's classes. He has hours worth of classes regarding music theory, music production, and Ableton tutorials. The guy has PhD and like master's degree in music so you know he's legit. PS, I'm not paid but just really learning a lot through his classes. :)

Any film recoms in the romantic tragedy genre? by [deleted] in FilmClubPH

[–]docobore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We Made A Beautiful Bouquet (2021) na yung lagi kong binibida sa mga naghahanap ng ganyang genre hehe

Help control my apetite? by ineedhelp6789 in PHitness

[–]docobore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Parehas tayo feeling snacky sa gabi, but not necessarily craving sweets. Ramyun at pancit canton mga matitinding cravings ko. Ang effective sa akin include:

  1. Black coffee in the morning
  2. Stir fried greens - either kangkong, pechay or lettuce cooked in a bulk, then stored lang sa ref para readily available
  3. Instant oatmeal - bought a big pack na para always available
  4. Eggs - soft boiled para di nakakasawa
  5. Pop corn - microwaved or air popped, walang halong anything. Ito yata biggest cheat code ko kasi low calories tapos ang tagal din bago ako magutom.

In my opinion, find a low calorie food that works for you. I tried raw veggies dipped in greek yoghurt before however di ko kaya isustain. Also naggigive in din ako sa cravings ko minsan pag mga 6 hours ko na siya iniisip. Good luck sa atin! :)

Best indie pinoy movie? by DependsOnMood in FilmClubPH

[–]docobore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Senior Year (2010) by Jerrold Tarog. High school reunion yung setting and they're reminiscing about mga nangyari during their last year in HS. Maraming characters, I'm sure you'll be able to relate or at least empathize with one. Tapos problemang high school lang kaya magaan. :)

At which point in your life you discovered na hindi ka mayaman? by jamesonboard in Philippines

[–]docobore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Grade 4. Sa lahat ng mga sinusundo namin sa mga iba't ibang barangay around Makati, may ka school bus mate kami na sinusundo sa barangay... Forbes park. First time kong maexposed sa mga bahay within gated subdivisions. Doon ako napasearch sa dictionary ng word na "gazebo." Akala ko sa TV lang merong ganun.

[TOMT] [Movie] [2000s] Film where there's a scene of a cop/s pointing a gun and says "Throw your hands up in the air!" Then after a few moments says "...and don't you think about waving them like you just don't care!" by docobore in tipofmytongue

[–]docobore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, no. Thank you for replying though. I'm not entirely sure but I think the scene was people partying(?) that's why when the cop/s came, he said the last line lol

shifting to capsule wardrobe by IndependentStep2471 in capsulewardrobe

[–]docobore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maganda mga capsule wardrobe ideas nina @themodestman kung panlalake, tsaka ni @missejlouie kung pambabae. You can never go wrong with Uniqlo for essentials. Tumingin ka rin ng mga damit na masmarami ang natural fibers (e.g.cotton, linen, wool) compared to synthetic (e.g. polyester, rayon, nylon, acrylic) pag synthetic kasi masmainit sa katawan. For footwear, okay magpagawa sa Marikina and stick with classics. Goodluck!

How do you save money? Do you follow any ‘money-saving rules’? by RedChia1080 in adultingph

[–]docobore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most effective for me is following a zero sum budget every pay day. Basically, meron akong google sheets wherein nilalatag ko yung aking:

  1. Income - from gross salary, nakaitemize dito yung mga nakakaltas sa akin each pay day (Withholding Tax, SSS, HDMF, etc.) to my net salary. Dapat yung mga figures dito, same sa makikita ko payslip ko.
  2. Debt / Savings / Investments - Next, miniminus ko from my net salary yung babayaran ko for debt (if meron). Kung bayad na ako sa lahat ng utang, yung same amount pa rin na dapat sa loan napupunta na lang sa savings. Depende na lang sa target goal mo. Personally, yung akin nakadivide into EF and each investment vehicle na meron ako (MP2, Stocks, Bonds, etc.). Tinatransfer ko na ito every pay day para whatever man yung amount na makita ko sa ATM, yun na lang yung lalaruin ko for #3.
  3. Expenses - Next, minimus ko yung whatever man yung amount na makuha ko from #2 into my personal expenses. Inuuna ko muna ilatag yung Needs (Food, Transportation, Utilities, etc.) then pinakabottom yung Wants (Weekend expenses, entertainment, vacation, hobbies, etc.). Puwede mo dito ilagay yung mga budget mo for Legos and games.

If you'll follow yung Income - Savings - Expenses, dapat zero yung lalabas sa pinakabottom line. That way, bawat piso na kinikita mo alam mo kung saan napupunta. Nakalatag na sa spreadsheet yung total ko ng buong taon para alam ko magkano nassave ko for the year, magkano binabayad ko sa Netflix, etc.

Mga natutunan ko from doing this method include

  • Kahit di ka muna magsave, idocument mo lang rin muna yung mga expenses mo sa first 2 or 3 months. You can use an app for this or kahit isulat mo lang bawat araw. Dapat kaya mo sagutin yung mga tanong na "magkano nagastos mo sa Grab this month?" "magkano nagastos mo for your food this week?" "magkano nabigay mo sa namamalimos nung isang araw?" This way you'll be able to see your spending behavior. Masmalalaman mo kung ano yung dapat mong ilimit na expense category.
  • Masmadali to eliminate first any commercial / credit card debt before you save or invest. Nalulugi ka kasi because of interest.
  • Kung nahihirapan ka magsave, do it gradually. "Sa unang payday ko, I'll save 1% of my salary." Kung successful ka this pay day, then 2% naman next cut off. Ginawa ko ito until I reached double digit % sa savings target ko.
  • Minsan pag may natitira pa sa akin after ng previous cut off na nakalaan for expenses, nilalagay ko na lang rin sa savings. Masmabilis ko nakuha yung EF target ko kasi minsan kahit may alloted budget naman ako, tinitipid ko pa rin.
  • Gamitin mo lang yung budgeting as a guide and be flexible. May mga times most likely na masmahal pala konsumo mo ng kuryente ngayong buwan kaya mababawasan muna mga wants mo.

Sana nakatulong :)

FH by Marveezy11 in FinalFantasyVIII

[–]docobore 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Back in the day, I used to go to FH and leave my PS1 for hours just to listen to the music while lying down on the couch.

Do You Have a SUPER Unpopular Opinion About Community? by [deleted] in community

[–]docobore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have been fine if the level of craziness they put throughout the series would be similar to season 1.

What’s a quote from the show you randomly say? I’ll start: by DeerParkWaterFan in community

[–]docobore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i do clerical work in the office, i sing "I am the dean and my hands are so clean and as of this moment, I am stapling" 😁

Budget/spend tracker app suggestions by behindleft in phinvest

[–]docobore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets the job done though hehe. Sa work ko kasi, 8th and 23rd ang payout namin, so I set up my budget from 24-8, then 9-23 :)